Best friend is a Cancer, maybe you can tell what his text means?!
Question: Best friend is a Cancer, maybe you can tell what his text means!?
After four days of not hearing from him, (when usually it's every day because we want to keep in touch while going to college in different states) he sends me this text:
"I feel like I'm wasting my time talking to people that don't live here and it's a big problem because I always talk about what I'm doing here when you should just be here with me hanging out every minute of everyday!."
Well I just don't get it, and I made him mad by texting back a snappy answer like "Well I hope it didn't waste too much of your time texting me!." and he won't talk to me much less explain what the text meant!.
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"I feel like I'm wasting my time talking to people that don't live here and it's a big problem because I always talk about what I'm doing here when you should just be here with me hanging out every minute of everyday!."
Well I just don't get it, and I made him mad by texting back a snappy answer like "Well I hope it didn't waste too much of your time texting me!." and he won't talk to me much less explain what the text meant!.
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Answers:
I'm a Cancer, so I will take a crack at this one for you!. It actually sounds like something I would say out of complete frustration!. LIL
He's aggravated and he's homesick!. For us to be away from our homes and the people we were close to on almost a daily basis is unbearable!. I moved two states away to be with my husband and it was probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do!. Happy to be with my hubby, but very upset and overwhelmed by the changes it meant for me and my old friends!.
Your friend is aggravated that he doesn't have the ability to see you everyday!. He is also aggravated that he has to sit there and give you a play by play!. Sometimes Cancers don't feel like talking!.!.!.we certainly don't enjoy going over the details of our everyday existence because there are much more important things to do and talk about!.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder!. He goes away for four or five days which is unheard of for a Cancer, but he must be really lonely and just stewing in his own private hell!. This is all self induced by the way, because he won't own up to much less come clean about what he is really feeling!. You're not helping or being a very good friend to this sensitive soul by snapping back at him!. Stop texting and pick up the phone and talk to him!.!.!.gently!. Be a friend!.
You had asked a similar question a while back, and I don't recall it seeming like this guy is gay based on that question!. I recall that you were worried about whether or not he would miss you or if he wanted more than friends with you!. It's that Cancer memory of mine, can't help it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He's aggravated and he's homesick!. For us to be away from our homes and the people we were close to on almost a daily basis is unbearable!. I moved two states away to be with my husband and it was probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do!. Happy to be with my hubby, but very upset and overwhelmed by the changes it meant for me and my old friends!.
Your friend is aggravated that he doesn't have the ability to see you everyday!. He is also aggravated that he has to sit there and give you a play by play!. Sometimes Cancers don't feel like talking!.!.!.we certainly don't enjoy going over the details of our everyday existence because there are much more important things to do and talk about!.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder!. He goes away for four or five days which is unheard of for a Cancer, but he must be really lonely and just stewing in his own private hell!. This is all self induced by the way, because he won't own up to much less come clean about what he is really feeling!. You're not helping or being a very good friend to this sensitive soul by snapping back at him!. Stop texting and pick up the phone and talk to him!.!.!.gently!. Be a friend!.
You had asked a similar question a while back, and I don't recall it seeming like this guy is gay based on that question!. I recall that you were worried about whether or not he would miss you or if he wanted more than friends with you!. It's that Cancer memory of mine, can't help it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
hes probably having a bad and emotional day!.
its hypocritical of him to lash out at you for living somewhere else, you could have just as easily had a go at him about it!.
just call him and talk to him, find out why he's upset!.
it's kind of stupid as well for him to say that you should be hanging out with him "every minute of every day"!. it's a bit controlling and overprotective!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
its hypocritical of him to lash out at you for living somewhere else, you could have just as easily had a go at him about it!.
just call him and talk to him, find out why he's upset!.
it's kind of stupid as well for him to say that you should be hanging out with him "every minute of every day"!. it's a bit controlling and overprotective!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Only he can tell you what he meant by what he said, don't confuse your self more by thinking that all cancers are the same, and asking others whta they think!.
Astrology is more than just a sun sign!.
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Astrology is more than just a sun sign!.
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It sounds like he's just having a mood swing!. Who's to say he shouldn't be living where you are, to be with you every day!? It's hypocritical to lash out at you like that for living somewhere else!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Seems like he wishes you where there!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think he might want to be more than friends!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
um it means he's having a bad week and he's pissed off by somethingWww@Enter-QA@Com
I got 3 words for ya!
clingy crabby cancerWww@Enter-QA@Com
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I think he just really really misses you! Cancers don't like to lose friends and he might be afraid that you'll move on and find someone to replace him!. And yeah, he might be in a mood to boot!. It's difficult with distance because you can't tell if he needs some time alone to get over his tantrum or if you really do need to have a deep and meaningful!. Tricky situation; Cancers can be manipulative, so you also don't want to feed on his selfishness by calling him if that's what he wants!! Sorry I couldn't help!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, when a Cancer is out of sort like that you should keep in mind not to mock them or be a smart a$$, because they might resent you!. From experience with dealing with Cancers and my b/f being one of them, Whenever they get like that it's because they want comfort!. He's probably going through something right now or someone else may have hurt him and this is his way of trying to get a reaction from others to see if they care!. Usually when a cancers gets pissy it's best to leave them alone, but when they get boo-hoo-ish like this it's best to give them some comfort or at least ask them if they want to talk about it!. If you value your friendship with him let him know that you do even if he feels differently!. Chances are he's just trying to get a reaction to see how you feel!. When my b/f want to hear how I feel he never simply asks, he always does something or says something making it seem like I don't care, but when I cake on the hugs and kisses and the compliments along with how I feel he's all smiles like he wasn't sad before!. (shrug) It's just how they work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
there's got to be more to the story!. either on his end or your end!. cancers generally have a reason for acting a certain way they do, and it generally stems from not being appreciated!. OR maybe he's having a hard time at school and is delving in the past of how he thought you were coming there to enjoy the experience!.
either way, there's more to the story!. The best advice, is to give him his time, and let him come to you!. Get the full story before acting on impulse, and appreciate him more!. He's feeling extremely insecure right now and your text made it that much worst!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
either way, there's more to the story!. The best advice, is to give him his time, and let him come to you!. Get the full story before acting on impulse, and appreciate him more!. He's feeling extremely insecure right now and your text made it that much worst!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Here's my take,
I think he feels as if he is investing more time into this friendship then you care to put in and maybe he’s feeling left out!?
After having not heard from your bestie in 4 days, Do you really think it was wise to send a text message asking, Why so emo!? It makes him feel as if he’s not being appreciated - That’s what!
You should do some serious grovelling if you want to salvage this friendship!.
Ugh, I've always hated text messages, They seem so impersonal!. Im sure your friend would appreciate a phone call every once an awhile!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think he feels as if he is investing more time into this friendship then you care to put in and maybe he’s feeling left out!?
After having not heard from your bestie in 4 days, Do you really think it was wise to send a text message asking, Why so emo!? It makes him feel as if he’s not being appreciated - That’s what!
You should do some serious grovelling if you want to salvage this friendship!.
Ugh, I've always hated text messages, They seem so impersonal!. Im sure your friend would appreciate a phone call every once an awhile!.Www@Enter-QA@Com