Bully, target or protector?!
Question: Bully, target or protector!?
Which of these would define you as a person!?
Are you a bully who likes to pick on others and/make fun of others for the pure enjoyment of it!?
Do you tend to be the target for bullies to pick on!?
Or are you the protector!.!.!.the one that stands up and helps another when aid is needed!?
What aspects, planetary influences or placements would signify these!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Are you a bully who likes to pick on others and/make fun of others for the pure enjoyment of it!?
Do you tend to be the target for bullies to pick on!?
Or are you the protector!.!.!.the one that stands up and helps another when aid is needed!?
What aspects, planetary influences or placements would signify these!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I think I am probably a combination of protector and target for bullies!.
I've never looked the part for what I've done and what I've become!. In college, I was accepted into courses where I was the only woman in the class!. I was ridiculed by male students who didn't get into the classes, and told that I must have been accepted because of my appearance!. When the courses ended, I made the top grades because other than learning, I aimed for very high grades!. I'm competitive!.
Once I was out of college, I worked for a few years and decided that there wasn't anything I did for the employer that I couldn't do on my own!. So I formed my own business!. Competitors were always trying to bully me!. It took years for my colleagues and competitors to accept that I was not going to fall flat on my face, and I was not going to go away!.
I'm a protector in the sense that I stand up for myself, my family and my friends!. This quality has landed me in a lot of situations which were unpleasant!.
I think the specific aspects involved in my case are Sun conjunction Venus and Mars, and Pluto in the 10th house sextile my Ascendant conjunction Moon!.
Pluto in the 10th is said to be ambitious and having a powerful sense of destiny, so having opponents and jealous bullies goes with the territory!.
The Mars, Venus and Sun in the 6th cause a strong need to serve and help others!. This has sometimes made me a target of 'their' bullies!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I've never looked the part for what I've done and what I've become!. In college, I was accepted into courses where I was the only woman in the class!. I was ridiculed by male students who didn't get into the classes, and told that I must have been accepted because of my appearance!. When the courses ended, I made the top grades because other than learning, I aimed for very high grades!. I'm competitive!.
Once I was out of college, I worked for a few years and decided that there wasn't anything I did for the employer that I couldn't do on my own!. So I formed my own business!. Competitors were always trying to bully me!. It took years for my colleagues and competitors to accept that I was not going to fall flat on my face, and I was not going to go away!.
I'm a protector in the sense that I stand up for myself, my family and my friends!. This quality has landed me in a lot of situations which were unpleasant!.
I think the specific aspects involved in my case are Sun conjunction Venus and Mars, and Pluto in the 10th house sextile my Ascendant conjunction Moon!.
Pluto in the 10th is said to be ambitious and having a powerful sense of destiny, so having opponents and jealous bullies goes with the territory!.
The Mars, Venus and Sun in the 6th cause a strong need to serve and help others!. This has sometimes made me a target of 'their' bullies!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
very few people will allow themselves to be bullied unless their is some sort of material gain/gain, and sometime people will set themselves up for 'bullying,' so as any to flip the situation on the 'bully,' blackmailing the 'bully' or using sympathy/pity to get something from him/her
very few people are dumb enough to be protective of others who are not that of them
very few people bully with something substantial will bother to bully others
some poeple also tend to turn others into a punching bag of some sort for when they are feeling fearful in life, and feel that they are justified in doing so tooWww@Enter-QA@Com
very few people are dumb enough to be protective of others who are not that of them
very few people bully with something substantial will bother to bully others
some poeple also tend to turn others into a punching bag of some sort for when they are feeling fearful in life, and feel that they are justified in doing so tooWww@Enter-QA@Com
I've never been a bully, or much of a target in fact!.
Protector!? I guess you could say that!. But, I don't always stand up for everyone!. I wouldn't rush into a dangerous situation without thinking about what was going on first!.
People I know first hand are different though!. I wouldn't be able to bring myself to watch them be bullied around!. In a situation where a loved one is being picked on, I would be much more impulsive so save them from danger then I would a stranger!. Friends and family mean a lot to me, and I always feel compelled to stick up for them!.
I don't know what you want so, here is most of them:
Virgo Sun and Venus
Sagittarius Moon and Rising
Libra Mercury and Mars
Edit: Well, shes blocked me, but meh!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Protector!? I guess you could say that!. But, I don't always stand up for everyone!. I wouldn't rush into a dangerous situation without thinking about what was going on first!.
People I know first hand are different though!. I wouldn't be able to bring myself to watch them be bullied around!. In a situation where a loved one is being picked on, I would be much more impulsive so save them from danger then I would a stranger!. Friends and family mean a lot to me, and I always feel compelled to stick up for them!.
I don't know what you want so, here is most of them:
Virgo Sun and Venus
Sagittarius Moon and Rising
Libra Mercury and Mars
Edit: Well, shes blocked me, but meh!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I've been the target and the protector but I've never been the bully!. I don't have it in me to boss people around in the first place!. I'm not very aggressive either unless I'm pushed really far!. So being a bully, for me personally, would take too much work and energy and I'm far too lazy for that!. Plus, I don't really understand what would be the purpose of it!. Is it for power, control, an ego boost perhaps!? I have no idea but the next time I run into my Aunty (the family bully lol) I can get some answers from here!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have been all three throughout my life!. Though, most often, I find myself in the role of the protector!. I regret that I have been the bully, but I have gotten what I deserved and learned from it!. I will stand up to protect a friend if they are threatened, but if it doesn't concern me, I don't get involved!.
Libra
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None!. Im the girl standing there about to do something but forgets and flys off into space!.!.!.!.!.uuumm there is always something different on my mind so honestly, none!.
And I havent learned enough about astrology to figure out what aspects or planetary influences causes me to act like this :(
Edit:Hey did you see the girl that copied you!!!? HA!! You should feel flattered!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
And I havent learned enough about astrology to figure out what aspects or planetary influences causes me to act like this :(
Edit:Hey did you see the girl that copied you!!!? HA!! You should feel flattered!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Protector!
I will put some new shoes on!.!.
tam tam tam tam!.!.
People that turn people into bullies are stupid,childish,immature and hateful!.
No,I'm not the target!.
Protector ;D
No idea!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I will put some new shoes on!.!.
tam tam tam tam!.!.
People that turn people into bullies are stupid,childish,immature and hateful!.
No,I'm not the target!.
Protector ;D
No idea!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
lol im a target a very easy target!.!.!.
but when i am made i will exploade and protect myself!.!. most people are braver then me and protect themselves anyway!.!. if that made sense
-cancer
scorp moon
aquarius risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
but when i am made i will exploade and protect myself!.!. most people are braver then me and protect themselves anyway!.!. if that made sense
-cancer
scorp moon
aquarius risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
im 34 and at different points of my life i have seen myself in all of these positions!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't know if I would use any of them to "define" me!. I have probably fit into each category at one time or another!. Bully implies picking on someone in a weaker position without provocation!. I probably did that as a small child to my little sister and some cousins!. I had a large extended family and a pecking order was in place so to speak!. Some people have mistaken me for a target occasionally because I will do for others without expecting anything back!. I often defend those who can't or won't defend themselves!. I stand up for what I believe in!. So I guess in a way I can be a protector!.
I believe that personal intergrity is saying you are going to do something then following through!.
Irish- You may have won in quality but you have to do alot of catching up to reach the quantity I have received!. I think a new violation category has been created!. lol That is sooo far beyond rant!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I believe that personal intergrity is saying you are going to do something then following through!.
Irish- You may have won in quality but you have to do alot of catching up to reach the quantity I have received!. I think a new violation category has been created!. lol That is sooo far beyond rant!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes a bully (Capricorn Sun), when I have a critical need to get something done or someone oversteps and gets a push back!. Sometimes you have to be a bit of a bully in the service--it's sometimes a job requirement!.
Sometimes a target (Asc/Mars in Pisces) because I don't feel the need to fight certain battles, like road rage or irrational people who are freaking out on some personal crisis and are unintentionally venting on me!.!.!.I think that happens to most people, and sometimes you just have to forgive it and let it go!. Especially when that person is your mate or your good friend!.!.!.they don't mean to victimize you, but sometimes their needs take precedence over mine!.
Sometimes a protector (Moon in Aquarius) when I take someone in when they can't afford to live on their own, or when I go in front of the brass to defend a project for the benefit of the client, or when I take in a friend and stand down her boyfriend when he tries to break in and hit her again!.!.!.
Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, we all have parts of these archetypes within our characters, and to deny them is to deny part of ourselves!.
**I think that some people like to play "victim", too!.!.!.that's one perhaps you should add to your list!. **
**Reference Victim archetype: Sometimes a person projects their parental issues upon others!. It would be better for that person to to outgrow their childhood rebellions and hurts and learn to deal with people as they truly are instead of who they resemble from one's past!. **
**One shouldn't slander those of integrity and honor simply because one does not understand the definition of those words!. One insults what one can never become!. Jealousy and spite are ugly, self-destructive emotions!. **
**sigh!.!.oh, the drama!.!.!.**
*One insults what one can never become!. :-) *
** :-D We actually have a bet on who can make you rant the longest!.!.!.!.I think I just won! Thanks!!! LMAO! New material for the bulletin board tomorrow! Just don't delete your post before I can cut and paste it!.!.!.**Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes a target (Asc/Mars in Pisces) because I don't feel the need to fight certain battles, like road rage or irrational people who are freaking out on some personal crisis and are unintentionally venting on me!.!.!.I think that happens to most people, and sometimes you just have to forgive it and let it go!. Especially when that person is your mate or your good friend!.!.!.they don't mean to victimize you, but sometimes their needs take precedence over mine!.
Sometimes a protector (Moon in Aquarius) when I take someone in when they can't afford to live on their own, or when I go in front of the brass to defend a project for the benefit of the client, or when I take in a friend and stand down her boyfriend when he tries to break in and hit her again!.!.!.
Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, we all have parts of these archetypes within our characters, and to deny them is to deny part of ourselves!.
**I think that some people like to play "victim", too!.!.!.that's one perhaps you should add to your list!. **
**Reference Victim archetype: Sometimes a person projects their parental issues upon others!. It would be better for that person to to outgrow their childhood rebellions and hurts and learn to deal with people as they truly are instead of who they resemble from one's past!. **
**One shouldn't slander those of integrity and honor simply because one does not understand the definition of those words!. One insults what one can never become!. Jealousy and spite are ugly, self-destructive emotions!. **
**sigh!.!.oh, the drama!.!.!.**
*One insults what one can never become!. :-) *
** :-D We actually have a bet on who can make you rant the longest!.!.!.!.I think I just won! Thanks!!! LMAO! New material for the bulletin board tomorrow! Just don't delete your post before I can cut and paste it!.!.!.**Www@Enter-QA@Com