My partners to controlling wot sud i do?!
Question: My partners to controlling wot sud i do!?
everything to do with our future its on his say so!. i want more out of our relationship but he doesn't!.he still lives with his parents and i live with him too!. i ave said i want us to get are own place together but he wants to stay were he is!.im not happy were i am but he doesn't care i don't know wot to do anymore!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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you need to have a serious talk with him about everything you're feeling, what you should'nt do is just break up with him without him understanding why so you need to talk to him about this, be firm!. How old are you guys!? Why doesn't he want to move out with you!? I think you also need to give him the reality of his situation is immature and he needs to get out on his own in the world! and say you want to do that beside him!. After the talk wait awhile to see if there's any changes and if not!.!. leave, sometimes you just can't change someone!.!. even if it is for the good!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So basically he is a mammys boy who doesnt care about you as much as he should!.!.!.!.you are 2nd best to his mum and will always be!.!.!.!.and he's totally haviing his cake and eating it!.!.!.
Get off your butt and move into your own place and make your own life decisions before you're old and grey and you realise you have wasted your life on this sad sad pathetic excuse for a man!.
There's tons of better men out there, someone who will treat you right and respect you!.!.!.!.why would you shun all that for this twat!?!?!?
I'm sorry but I dont get it!.!.!.go do what you want to do, nobody's stopping you!.!.!.and if he threatens to 'dump you' if you go make decisions on your own then your respense should be:
"Good you'll have more time for your mammy now!.!.!.we're all happy!.!.!.see ya as$hole!"
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Get off your butt and move into your own place and make your own life decisions before you're old and grey and you realise you have wasted your life on this sad sad pathetic excuse for a man!.
There's tons of better men out there, someone who will treat you right and respect you!.!.!.!.why would you shun all that for this twat!?!?!?
I'm sorry but I dont get it!.!.!.go do what you want to do, nobody's stopping you!.!.!.and if he threatens to 'dump you' if you go make decisions on your own then your respense should be:
"Good you'll have more time for your mammy now!.!.!.we're all happy!.!.!.see ya as$hole!"
Carpe diemWww@Enter-QA@Com
Don't get yourself into a situation that you can't get out of!.
If he is so controlling, would you really want to live alone with him!? I think you should have a long hard think if what you are getting out of this relationship is really worth it!
Good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he is so controlling, would you really want to live alone with him!? I think you should have a long hard think if what you are getting out of this relationship is really worth it!
Good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
What should you do!? Look at what you just asked!.!.!.If your not happy, then change it, even if it means being on your own!. You only "Allow" someone to dominate you, not that they can dominate you!. So if your not happy, then change the circumstances you find yourself in!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Its hard but if it isn't what u want, if he isn't prepared to sacrifice things for you and do things that make you happen, then he isn't worth it, there will be someone out there who will love you more than this guy and you will love him more than ur current bf!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I dont think you are as compatible as you maybe thought you was!.!.!. start living your life how you want to!. not how he wants!.!.!. if he doesnt like it!.!.!. im afraid you'll have to leave him!.!.!. always take care of number 1 hun xWww@Enter-QA@Com
Birth info would be helpful
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why are you still with him!? regain control of your life, leave him as soon as possibleWww@Enter-QA@Com
dump him ASAP!Www@Enter-QA@Com
dump him!. you deserve betterWww@Enter-QA@Com
dump him and then do a course at college to improve your spellingWww@Enter-QA@Com
You know what you need to do !.!. but can you do it!?Www@Enter-QA@Com