I fear being judged...can you relate?!
Question: I fear being judged!.!.!.can you relate!?
I don't like to say how I feel unless there is enough of a comfort level there where I know that the person won't judge me or "classify me"!.
I usually will start by saying " please don't judge me" or I will give a disclaimer like ' at least this is how I feel or what I think at this very moment and is not etched in stone"!. LOL! It is so crazy!
Does anyone else do that!? If you don't would someone doing that bother you!?
What is your sun and mercury signs!?
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I usually will start by saying " please don't judge me" or I will give a disclaimer like ' at least this is how I feel or what I think at this very moment and is not etched in stone"!. LOL! It is so crazy!
Does anyone else do that!? If you don't would someone doing that bother you!?
What is your sun and mercury signs!?
Thanks everyone!!!! :-)))Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Not a bit!. I don't really care if people judge me or not!. I know what I am capable of, and I have a good sense of what I am!. Other's opinions do not dictate how I feel about myself!.
But this is a trait of Merc in Capricorn, and it takes time for Merc in Capricorn to reach it's potential!. If you are under 28 years old, you haven't reached your first Saturn return, which brings that Mercury to maturity!.
Sun in Capricorn, Merc in CapricornWww@Enter-QA@Com
But this is a trait of Merc in Capricorn, and it takes time for Merc in Capricorn to reach it's potential!. If you are under 28 years old, you haven't reached your first Saturn return, which brings that Mercury to maturity!.
Sun in Capricorn, Merc in CapricornWww@Enter-QA@Com
If someone used this disclaimer, it would not bother me!.
For people that know me they never use this disclaimer, because I am not this way!. I don't judge people - I might make personal decisions based on others actions, but no judgements, it's all good!.
Fear of being judged!? Well, I think that even when you say "please don't judge me" it does not stop a person from doing it!. They will judge you if they choose!. So I prefer to only share private matters when I really know the person AND the person knows me too!. If they choose to judge me after I share something at that point, I really don't care - their problem!. Maybe they are really not a good friend to have anyways!.
Taurus/AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
For people that know me they never use this disclaimer, because I am not this way!. I don't judge people - I might make personal decisions based on others actions, but no judgements, it's all good!.
Fear of being judged!? Well, I think that even when you say "please don't judge me" it does not stop a person from doing it!. They will judge you if they choose!. So I prefer to only share private matters when I really know the person AND the person knows me too!. If they choose to judge me after I share something at that point, I really don't care - their problem!. Maybe they are really not a good friend to have anyways!.
Taurus/AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
If anyone ever says to me "please dont judge me" before telling me something I just think they are a very sensitive soul and total sweethearts!. I think the way you come off before stating your opinion is great, dont change it!. You know what to say to not start any quarrels or piss anyone off!. Good for you hun!
Me on the other hand, I dont give a damn what you think, I will let it be known too!. Im gonna say what i want to say and if you judge me, your opinion doesnt matter!. Why would it!? There is no Valid reason for me to give a damn about your opinion!.
Well keep up being so courteous, You will definitely be a well liked person in this lifetime!.
Oh my signs are
Sun/Mercury Scorpio
Moon/Ascendant Leo
Gemini 11th houseWww@Enter-QA@Com
Me on the other hand, I dont give a damn what you think, I will let it be known too!. Im gonna say what i want to say and if you judge me, your opinion doesnt matter!. Why would it!? There is no Valid reason for me to give a damn about your opinion!.
Well keep up being so courteous, You will definitely be a well liked person in this lifetime!.
Oh my signs are
Sun/Mercury Scorpio
Moon/Ascendant Leo
Gemini 11th houseWww@Enter-QA@Com
My sun sign is Capricorn and my Mercury sign is Sagitarius!.
(also rising sun is cap, moon is pisces, and mars is virgo)
I don't care at all about others judging me!. I do like people and don't like to hurt/offend!. But you know, I truly believe that we should honor diversity and listen to what each other has to say (not just even if it's different from your viewpoint, but especially if it is)!. How else can we grow and expand our views, etc!?
I'm generally blunt; don't often sugar coat!. But I can be tactful and I'm not rude or mean-spirited!. In the end though, if somebody is judgemental towards me!.!.!. I say joke em if they can't take a f*k!.
Just my opinion!. :-) Cheers! Good question!Www@Enter-QA@Com
(also rising sun is cap, moon is pisces, and mars is virgo)
I don't care at all about others judging me!. I do like people and don't like to hurt/offend!. But you know, I truly believe that we should honor diversity and listen to what each other has to say (not just even if it's different from your viewpoint, but especially if it is)!. How else can we grow and expand our views, etc!?
I'm generally blunt; don't often sugar coat!. But I can be tactful and I'm not rude or mean-spirited!. In the end though, if somebody is judgemental towards me!.!.!. I say joke em if they can't take a f*k!.
Just my opinion!. :-) Cheers! Good question!Www@Enter-QA@Com
No!. I just say it like it is, and if they agree, they agree, if not, then they don't!. What you are saying is, you have a need to please!. There isn't anything wrong with that, if you are happy with the way you are!. If your not, then work on changing these habits to please!. And you are welcome!.
Aries Sun and Aries Mercury!.
PS: What are your Sun and Mercury!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Aries Sun and Aries Mercury!.
PS: What are your Sun and Mercury!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeha me 2
i always say i think so that who ever doesnt like my answer i can just reply, oh well thats just what i think
i dont like being judged because then i'll cry about it for weeks lol
sun: cancer
moon: virgo
mercury: cancer
makes a very shy emotional person
i have my crazy loud moments thoWww@Enter-QA@Com
i always say i think so that who ever doesnt like my answer i can just reply, oh well thats just what i think
i dont like being judged because then i'll cry about it for weeks lol
sun: cancer
moon: virgo
mercury: cancer
makes a very shy emotional person
i have my crazy loud moments thoWww@Enter-QA@Com
I do! I have a lot of pride and want everyone to think I'm a really great person, who is good at everything!. I hate to make mistakes or look like a fool!. Its my worst nightmare!.
sun Taurus
moon Capricorn
mercury Aries
Rising LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
sun Taurus
moon Capricorn
mercury Aries
Rising LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
sometimes, it depends on the person
i am a virgo, but i dont know my sun or mercury signsWww@Enter-QA@Com
i am a virgo, but i dont know my sun or mercury signsWww@Enter-QA@Com
for sure!. i'm a taurus I dont know what my sun and mercury signs areWww@Enter-QA@Com