What if a Pisces did this to you, Would you Scorpio's forgive Pisces, and Wr!
Question: What if a Pisces did this to you, Would you Scorpio's forgive Pisces, and Write her back!?
I am a Pisces woman, and My first love was a Scorpio man!. I had loved him for ove 9years, but never had the nerve to tell him!. I would get weak in the knees, my hands were cold, my heart would beat fast, I had butter flies in my stomach, and I would blush every time he talked to me or looked my way!. I had NEVER felt that way about anyone before, and Have never since! He was my Soulmate, my true love!. He would stare at me alot, and talked to always, he even showed off once, and ran over his friends foot with his truck!. So I thought he liked me, the way I liked him!. He would remember small details about me, and befriended my brother!. Mutliple times I was told that Scorpio and I were meant to be by GOD, and by others!. So I finally gave him an embrase once, we never used words, it was as though we could read each others minds!.!.!.we stood there for what felt like an hour in the embrace, but I bet it was around 20 mins or so!. Anyway he was going away for Summer camp, he was a counselor there!.!.!.and so would be gone for a month or two!. He told me he would write to me, but once I recieved the letter, it was a standered camp letter!. I decided to tell him my feelings, since I could never do it in person, I wrote out my feelings on paper!. I waited for months to hear from my Scorpio, but never recieved a phone call, letter, or even saw him at church!. I finally get really tired of waiting, and even though I was SCARED, I got into my car, and started to drive to his home (this is exactly 5 months after sending him the letter!. I did tell him to take the time he needed, and then asnwer me, but I had no idea that would take that long!.) I ended up with a flat tire, out in the middle of no where, away from the freeway, gas stations, stores, lights!.!.!.well people! I had no spare, and no cell phone working!.!.!.so I was stranded!. It was FREEZING cold that night, dark!.!.and very scary!. I saw a truck, but it was a group of drunk guys who, circled around me, and really SCARED me! Finally a family drove by, and helped me get home!. Once home it was 1:30am, and I was frozen solid, and far to scared to leave the house agian for a few days!. I started to think that perhaps that was a sign!.!.!. So I was crushed!.!.!.my mother pushed at me to date a Aries man, we started dating, and one night after drinking, I gave Aries my Virginity!. Since I never heard from the ONE man I really loved my Scorpio, I felt he was avoiding me, and that he did not care!. Since I slept with Aries, I felt used, and that no man would wont me, I was crushed!. I talked Aries into marrying me in Vegas, one week after sleeping together!. The wedding night he abused me!. The following weekend, myself, Aries, and my family went to church!.!.and guess who was there!?! My scorpio!.!.!.he stared at me all through service, and wanted my attention!. He smiled his beautiful smile at me, and my heart melted!.!.!.just as before!. I was CONFUSED! Scorpio approched me after church, and his smile went from Love, Happiness, and wanting to hold me!.!.!.to sadness, shock, heartach!.!.when I introduced him to Aries my new husband!. Scorpio told Aries "You better take GOOD care of her" then quickly walked away!. By that time I was already crying my eyes out, and cried all the way home, as Aries abused me again!. I wanted so badly to run to my Scorpio, be in his arms, and never leave him!. I wanted to go back in time, and fix my BIGGEST mistake! But it was to late!.!. For two years, Aries abused me, and in my MIND I felt I deserved all of it!.!.after what I did to Scorpio, the Man I only truly loved!.!.!.I decerved all the abuse!. My family found out what was going on, and convienced me to leave Aires!. So I did leave, and I tried desperatly to apologize to my Scorpio, I sent MANY letters!.!.!.to tell him how SORRY I was for hurting him, and confessing to him my mistake!.!.!.well everything!. I went to church, hopeing to talk to Scorpio, but he had already moved on, and was with a Cancer!. Although Scorpio still looked at me, and actually stared, and even smiled at me a few times!.!.!.in the end I never had the nerve to tell him "I loved him, and that I was single!.!.!.and beg him to give me another chance!. I felt that I deserved what happend to me!. I found a Libra man on a website, I became pregnant with his daughter, and so we got married!. In turn Scorpio married Cancer!. We have been married to others for over 7 years now, and have children!. I found out over 31/2 years ago, that I was DYING! I have Sever brain damage!.!.!.and when the doctors told me, my first thought was what about my children!.!.they need their mother!. My second thought was I have to talk to Scorpio!.!.I have to tell him my true feelings, and to get closure with him once and for all!. I just found him Last week Sept!. 2008, So I wrote him a Letter!.!.to tell him my heartache over losing, and hurting him over 10 years ago!.!.that I was SO SORRY! That I have never stopped loving him!.!.!.and I needed to know that I was forgiven, and to know his true feelings for me bacWww@Enter-QA@Com
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Your biggest mistake was not waiting!. I have been there too!. We pisces want things to happen!.!.!.once we have found someone we love!.!.!.we want to become as one with them!. We don't want to 'waste' time on all the stuff other people do!. We almost want things to happen too quickly!. Scorpios on the other hand are a little bit scared of rushing into anything!. Their fear is always based on falling head over heels and then getting hurt!. But what in fact happens is that they DO fall for you and DO get hurt because they make you wait and wait!!! They create the very thing they fear!!
Knowing how scorpios think!.!.!.you should have waited for him!.!.!.it may have taken him years!.!.!.but he was hiding/retreating back!.!.!.!.because he was unsure of his own feelings!. He was hiding!.!.!.because he needed time to think!.
I am really sorry this happened to you!. But I too have made that mistake where I have thought my scorp didn't love me and I have ended up with other men and felt horrible afterward!. It is not who I am! And all I ever truly wanted was my scorpio lover by my side!
I think he will write back!.!.!.!.feelings do not go away!. I do hope he writes back and you are able to clear the air out!. Just make sure you let him know why you did what you did!. Explain your intentions!. Don't let him believe that you have hurt him on purpose!. Hurt scorpios never get over it! They will hold it in their hearts forever!. So, just try and let him know what really happened!.!.!.!.pour out your heart to him!. It is the final chance you have got!
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Knowing how scorpios think!.!.!.you should have waited for him!.!.!.it may have taken him years!.!.!.but he was hiding/retreating back!.!.!.!.because he was unsure of his own feelings!. He was hiding!.!.!.because he needed time to think!.
I am really sorry this happened to you!. But I too have made that mistake where I have thought my scorp didn't love me and I have ended up with other men and felt horrible afterward!. It is not who I am! And all I ever truly wanted was my scorpio lover by my side!
I think he will write back!.!.!.!.feelings do not go away!. I do hope he writes back and you are able to clear the air out!. Just make sure you let him know why you did what you did!. Explain your intentions!. Don't let him believe that you have hurt him on purpose!. Hurt scorpios never get over it! They will hold it in their hearts forever!. So, just try and let him know what really happened!.!.!.!.pour out your heart to him!. It is the final chance you have got!
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don't bother!.!.!.!.i doubt he willWww@Enter-QA@Com
Guilt is a self indulgent emotion!. This doesn't really have anything to do with the other person!. You need to learn to forgive yourself!. Really, I would look into seeing a therapist!.!.!.you really have a lot going on!. You're dying!? Oh my goodness, I am so sorry! You really need to find peace within yourself!. Forgive yourself!. It doesn't matter if he forgives you or not!. What matters is that you make peace with being human and that it's ok that you made a mistake!. You're really truly sorry in your heart, and that is what matters!. You really should seek to talk to someone professionally!.
On an Astrological note, Scorpio people can cut you off completely if they've been wronged, and it is hard if not impossible to get inside again once they've made up their minds!. You should really move on!. You wrote letters and said your peace!. Forgive YOURSELF!. You're human!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
On an Astrological note, Scorpio people can cut you off completely if they've been wronged, and it is hard if not impossible to get inside again once they've made up their minds!. You should really move on!. You wrote letters and said your peace!. Forgive YOURSELF!. You're human!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
omg im a pisces and had dated a scorpio man that i never felt the same way about ne one else before and i loved him but he just used me and ur story is sooo sad!. i wish i could help u!. :( u dont deserve ne of it just remember that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Wow, okay, first of all, TL;DR!.
Secondly, I tried the same thing with a Scorpio man!. (I'm a Gemini!.)I wronged him I apologized for what I did and tried to approach him again, but was met with a bit of indifference!. So after wallowing in pity about that for 4 months, I decided that there was nothing else I could do for him, even though I thoroughly apologized to him!. I said my piece, he said his, I forgave myself, and I moved on, and we never spoke again!. And I am doing so much better without him, as I believe any woman would be without a Scorpio man!.
So, I suggest you follow the three "A's"!.
Apologize, Atone, Andmoveon!., and forgive yourself!. It worked for me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Secondly, I tried the same thing with a Scorpio man!. (I'm a Gemini!.)I wronged him I apologized for what I did and tried to approach him again, but was met with a bit of indifference!. So after wallowing in pity about that for 4 months, I decided that there was nothing else I could do for him, even though I thoroughly apologized to him!. I said my piece, he said his, I forgave myself, and I moved on, and we never spoke again!. And I am doing so much better without him, as I believe any woman would be without a Scorpio man!.
So, I suggest you follow the three "A's"!.
Apologize, Atone, Andmoveon!., and forgive yourself!. It worked for me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com