I hate my Cancer sister so much that I feel like I'm going to beat her up an!


Question: I hate my Cancer sister so much that I feel like I'm going to beat her up and I don't want to go to juvi so!.!.!?
what should I do!?
I can't stand her!. She's so fake!. She's too sensitive, manipulative, she's a liar, she's always trying to play the victim role (at home, with friends, when she has problems with people at school), she's rude, she has an attitude problem!.!.!.and worse of all SHE'S FAKE!.
I!.hate!.fake!.people!. sooooo fuqing much!. I can't even explain to you how much it pisses me off to be around fake people!. She's too sensitive!. she gets upset over the tiniest things then gets an attitude which is annoying!. She tries to put people in check and she doesn't even have all of her facts!. She likes to look like some kind of innocent nurturing victim who just tries to help people and she's not!. She lied to her friends and said I abused her which isn't even true because our dad was abused when he was growing up so he wouldn't let that happen in his own home!. she's just trying to get attention!. she provoked me by getting in my face and calling me a piece of sh*t, a shitty sister, nothing so I pushed her (she must have lost her fuqing mind with her skinny, weak ***)!. she can't fight!. all she did was scratch and scream because that's all she can do!. she talks so much sh*t!. then when the fight was over she says "I'm calling the police and pressing charges so they can take you away and you can be somebody's b*tch" newsflash!.!.!.I just had you in a headlock so dont talk about being somebody's b*tch!. the only reason she didn't do it was because my other sister said "that's not how it works!. you hit her too" my other sister is pregnant and the cancer said "dont get me started on you!. at least I'm not dumb enough to get pregnant by a guy with three kids" then my other sister slapped her hard!. then the cancer moves out to live on campus and says it's because she doesn't feel safe when she starte the whole thing!. then my dad tells me the real reason she moved out is because she's tired of hearing my mom start stuff (my mom is a dramatic, attention seeking leo and she's got some mental issues so she's always getting into it with somebody)!.!.!.then the cancer is using my mom to help her with her car, buy her a T!.V!. and all kinds of stuff!.
I cannot stand this girl!. I seriously think if I were in the same room with her I would really hurt her!. I did care about our relationship but now I simply don't give a fuq about that or her and would have no problem hurting her!.!.!.except for the consequences part!.
Are other cancers like this!?
I just might expose her for the fake bleeeep she really is and tell my mom how she's been using her so then she can find her own way to pay for her car and the bill for her t!.v!.!.!.!.and college tuition!.!.!.or do you think that's too evil!? I think she deserves it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Be Careful what you wish for -
You are caught in the middle of a really crazy situation - a lot of mental pathology swirling around you!. I'm wondering how old you are, if you are in a school setting where you can discuss the crazy family dynamics with the school counselor so that you can get a referral to see a therapist - ideally, a family therapist who could see all the members of your family individually and maybe as a group!.

I'm glad that you are trying to reach out now and get some input, but really Astrology on YA is not going to help you all that much in the particulars of handling your own anger towards your mother and sister!. The most you will get here is some understanding - maybe!.

In the meantime, try to get some distance from your family as much as you can - extracurricular activities like scouts, sports, clubs, etc to be around normal behaving people as much as possible so that you don't fall into what seems like out-of-control behavior yourself!.

I wish you the best of a positive resolution in dealing with these difficult family relationships and dynamics!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

So you want us to tell you that you were right to make you feel better!?And damn look at what your saying,who's evil know,your both crazy bit*hes

Are you on here to try to prove your better than your sister!?Hmm!.!.!.i guess the answers weren't what you expected then!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

whoa, what is your sign first!?

how old is she!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Im sorry that you are having so many problems,alot of cancers do have problems,especially women!.they can be very mean and will be quick to turn on you!.Your sister has alot of hurt in her spirit!.there is something between your mom and the cancer sister that is karmic!.You are not crazy and ignore the personal attacks!.you know what you have been through and iI'msure the cancer sister is no angel!.You have every right to defend yourself,but try not to lay hands on your sister!. God BlessWww@Enter-QA@Com

it is sad 10 years from now on, you still have this loathing attitude towards your own blood ( yr sister and your mom )!.

My magic crystal ball is telling me you are gonna carry this psychotic, hatred tendency well into your adulthood and further and eventually destroys everything that comes near you!.

If anything, you are just a little annoying , spoilt girl who enjoys the idea of beating up yr own family!. If your sister really is like what you described up there, then talk to her, stop getting online and spread hatred!. You really think by putting " cancer" or infact any sign in front of a name/person would help !? Maybe you both of you need help, or maybe its just you !.

But for everyone's sake, please dont come on here , using this astrology section as a means to exercise your tantrum !.This only aggravates everyone , especially folks who are cancer sun!. Just because you put cancer in a question doesnt make me an astrological question!. And even then, this is a seriously inappropriate question

If you have serious family problem, bring it to family& parenting section, or some other sections that deal with this !. Or better yet, seek counselling !.

Edit : dont u see your anger is blinding you !? You should just calm down!. This isnt a place to ask such question, perhaps you should post it somewhere else more relevant to this topic!. Since you said you dont mean all cancer , then why should the astrological sign matter here !? every sign could be manipulative, every sign could be overly emotional and fake!.!.!. really, putting a sign in doesnt make any difference!. If others are gonna agree with you about cancer being fake and insensitive and all that, they are just agreeing with you based on their own experience, and that is not gonna help anything, especially it is not gonna help you out of the seemingly hellhole you think you are living in!.


Edit 2 : I apologize for calling you a spoilt brat, but what I needed to say I already said it !. And I think if your sister is really fake after all, people will know , sooner or later!. Still she is your sister and violence wont help anything!.





Much luckWww@Enter-QA@Com

I think that you should just take a deep breath and calm down!. Your sister sounds like she has some problems!. I really do think that you should talk to your mom about the way that your sister has been treating you and the people around her!. But I think that when you talk to her that you need to have some proof to back up the accusations!. Because if your sister is as bad as you say that she is, then she will probably deny the whole thing and get all emotional and play the victim!.
I really hope that this helps!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

first of all, if you're a sag, you an probably out-talk a cancer sun, anyday!.!.!.!.!.just get off your butt, stop complaining, and doit

orrr just ignore it, detach, don't provoke her, make some friends, get a bf, whatever!.!.!.!.there are so many better things to be doing (literally) than *******ing with your sissssyWww@Enter-QA@Com

Lol you shouldnt have asked this question in the horoscope section, watch all the cancers come together, uh oh!. nah im just kidding all their gonna do is whine and say 'omg im not like that i would sooo beat your @ss' lol!.

well dont get violent with her if you're sure you are gonna go to juvi, although cancers do need an @ss whoopin once in a while to help them check themselves!. Let your mom know that your sister is taking advantage of her! Your mom deserves to know!.!. but first try to talk it out with your cancer sister in a nice manner!. they are emotional so they would probably let everything out and try to work things out!. tell her that you think she is being fake and messed up, but in a nice manner!. talk to her when you are calm!. **Keep in mind that if you dont make peace with her you are going to drive yourself crazy!.let me know how it goes i am curious lol!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

well to danger, no I don't think that describes geminis at all, and I know tons of cancers that are fake, sensitive, and manipulative(no offense to any), but reading this made me laugh!. It was real funny, thnx for the laugh!. haha

edit: you're right, in school ppl are just tryna fit in or look cool, instead of being themselves!. yeah, there are definitely fake and manipulative gems out there, im not gonna lie!.

edit: Ryan Luka(rebellious moon) :D, it's been a loooong time! how ya been!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

i don't know the story but both of you sound fu*king psycho!.

cancer sun
aries rising

and not all cancerians are like that!.!.!.i know if soembody touched me i'd grab them in a chokehold and beat the sh*t outta them!.

take a chill pill and ask this Q later!. all u did was vent!.

anabella: ur answer made me laugh!. using astrology to see who is stronger is the most retarded fu*king thing i have ever seen!. git a life!.!.or at least some common sense!.!.!.

edit: errrm!.!.u seem very violent right now!. do me a favor!.!.!.take a deep breath, relax all ur muscles and just think happy thoughts!. plz do this!. just a small favor i'm asking!. you seem very upset right now and i just want u to calm down a bit!.

pretty: lol @ her answer!. we need whoopings to keep us in check!?!?!? hehe!.!.!.she believes she can stereotype a sign with millions of ppl born under it!.!.!.!.lolWww@Enter-QA@Com

I'm a sagittarius!. I'm not going to tell you you are crazy, but you do sound like you have some anger issues that you need to find a positive outlet for!. I won't tell you to see a shrink or anything, but yeah, get a hobby that keeps you occupied and that you like!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

well, she is family and you need to understand where she is coming from with all of the things she is doing and make her understand who you are!.

it sound like you are jealous of her, i think your parent can see that and are giving her the attention she is having, until you make peace with her and accept everything that is happening, you will feel the way you feel always so!. talk to her without fight, understand her and tell her who you are too!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Cancers are supposed to be deep and emotional not fake and!.!.!.
you kinda described a Gemini and this is way too long!. Astrology shouldn't be brought up in this matter!.!.!.astrology can't help you!.

Sorry, but Cancers aren't like that at all!. Maybe she lied about her birthday or her chart is full of fake and evil signs and placements!.

You should get a counselor or something or talk to your parents about it!.


Edit-Well I've met my fair share of Cancers and I didn't get a long with them, but I didn't consider them fake, some were though, you're right!. I guess they were being fake to save their own skin, being selfish I guess!. I've met a bunch of Geminis as well and all of them seemed fake, but I met them in school so go figure right!? Everyone's fake in high school!.

I guess it depends on their Mercury sign which determines how one thinks, so a Mercury in Gemini might show someone who thinks superficially or on the surface!. But you make a good point Rebel!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Hon, I hope you read this answer!. I posted on your other question, but you are NONE of those negative things that others posted!. It's natural to want to find the reason why someone is the way they are becasue there are things that make us angry and hurt us emotionally!. It's nothing to do with Cancer, Leo, Libra, or anything else!. It's your sister learning the manipulative ways of your mom!. I won't even attempt to guess or diagnose a mental health issue, but I can suggest you look into Borderline Personality Disorder!. If it sounds familiar, you need to get help for yourself - this is something that is absolute poison to you and your future!. Don't wait one minute to do it!. Feel free to e mail me if you'd like and I can try to find some good links and send you the name of a good book on it!. Good luck, hon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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