One more question for the Cancers?!
Question: One more question for the Cancers!?
Do you ever truly forgive!? I know on the surface we must in order to have peace within, but do you ever really and truly forgive someone who offended you to the point of being able to forget and completely trust them again!? Or, are you like me where you keep that slight in the back of your mind and are never able to look at the person in the same way again!? Thoughts!? Thanks!Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I don't think I ever truly forgive!. It is hard for me to let go!. I think I try to forgive and I try to convince myself that I have forgiven them, but I really don't!Www@Enter-QA@Com
my mood changes so quickly that once im angry i will be angry but then something else will come in my mind and i will go back to the person and act like nuthing happened, which i know they might think is strange!.!. me and my cancer sister fight and then do this to each other!
cancer persues nuthing with true passion, once they are angry they will go back to the past and realise that it was a stupid fight!. but in your case, it really depends how close they are to you and if you can really trust them!. With a friend i would do what you do because its hard for cancer to fully trust because we feel no one REALLY understands us!. since my sister is a cancer and shes my sister i forgive easily, same with my piscean mom!.!. but other people not so quickly :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
cancer persues nuthing with true passion, once they are angry they will go back to the past and realise that it was a stupid fight!. but in your case, it really depends how close they are to you and if you can really trust them!. With a friend i would do what you do because its hard for cancer to fully trust because we feel no one REALLY understands us!. since my sister is a cancer and shes my sister i forgive easily, same with my piscean mom!.!. but other people not so quickly :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
it is actually very difficult for me to forgive!. i'm not a true grudge-holder, but sometimes the pain can be so intense that you jsut can't bring yourself to go, "oh!.!.it's okay!.!."
if the person did something like lower my self esteem, or betray my loyalty!.!.i have NO tolerance for that and i'll most likely go, "fu*k off!.!." and never talk to them again!. i'll cut off all contact, and even if they get on their knees and beg for my forgiveness, i'll roll my eyes and laugh!. but on the inside its killing me to see them want my approval so much!.
one person i can NEVER bring myself to forgive is myself!. i hold grudges with myself all the time, and you might even call it self-abuse!. i'll tell horrible stuff to myself saying that i'll never be worth anything in life!. i'll never do anything right!. nobody does and ever will love me!. but i'm glad to say i'm much better with that and ive regained my confidence!.
i'm a huge past-dweller, and i feel that the past holds more secrets than the future!.
cancer sun
aries risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
if the person did something like lower my self esteem, or betray my loyalty!.!.i have NO tolerance for that and i'll most likely go, "fu*k off!.!." and never talk to them again!. i'll cut off all contact, and even if they get on their knees and beg for my forgiveness, i'll roll my eyes and laugh!. but on the inside its killing me to see them want my approval so much!.
one person i can NEVER bring myself to forgive is myself!. i hold grudges with myself all the time, and you might even call it self-abuse!. i'll tell horrible stuff to myself saying that i'll never be worth anything in life!. i'll never do anything right!. nobody does and ever will love me!. but i'm glad to say i'm much better with that and ive regained my confidence!.
i'm a huge past-dweller, and i feel that the past holds more secrets than the future!.
cancer sun
aries risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
CANCER MOON:
TAURUS SUN:
SAGITTARIUS RISING
Even though it's hard to FORGET slights and offenses, I can easily forgive them b/c I know I've done the same to others! Now, if the same offense happens over and over I can get vicious!.!.!.!.but I don't keep a persistent temper/ill feeling over things too long!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
TAURUS SUN:
SAGITTARIUS RISING
Even though it's hard to FORGET slights and offenses, I can easily forgive them b/c I know I've done the same to others! Now, if the same offense happens over and over I can get vicious!.!.!.!.but I don't keep a persistent temper/ill feeling over things too long!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm like that, and I'm a gemini!. I may say I forgive, but I always have the slight they've done in the back of my mind, and it's very rare for me to ever completely forgive!. but I have a scorpio rising, venus cancer, and pisces mars!. so that's alot of water!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I always fully forgive and forget!. I give out second chances like no other!. I believe that we are all human and we all make mistakes!. I am always the first person to forgive someone!. Why live in the past!? It will just haunt you and bring you down!.
sun cancer, moon gemini, rising sign libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
sun cancer, moon gemini, rising sign libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I like to convince myself that I've completely forgiven them, but honestly, I think that there's still a little resentment!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
You & Dave F are the same that way!.!.!.!.i'd go get him but hes trying to cheer up a sag!.!.!.!.!.!.oh boy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com