So i didnt listen and got burnt by another Sag! What to do what to do?!
Question: So i didnt listen and got burnt by another Sag! What to do what to do!?
Well this time just slightly burnt, since I never really let my heart get in it!. So the sag has finally like all sags in my life do, shown his true colors, actually I busted his true colors! (sorry for all the good sags out there, I just seem to attract the bad ones)!. After checking my phone and all my other communication methods, accusing me of cheating and so forth, you know us girls!.!.!.up late at night and our mind gets to wandering and next thing you know!.!.!.I've gotten into his email and decided to check on him! lol
We are not even in an official relationship(no titles like gf/bf) although from the beginning he was pressuring me to at least see him exclusively(i finally gave in; well sorta, i'm no dumbie:-))!.!.!.now i find out he has a two different girls in two different countries, with their name tattoed on him! And one of them is trying to get pregnant by him! lol I'm sorry this is too messed up to not look at as crazy funny sad!.
Oh thats not all, he also has local girls! lol That when he can't get to me he goes for them or vice versa!.
He accuses me a playing the field left and right and I knew deep down it was cuz he's got a guilty consience, was just hoping I was wrong!.!.!.this man has brought me around his child so that his child would get attached to me and vice versa knowing he's a slimy dog!.!.!.why someone would do that!? Why if I told him we can just have a casual affair no strings, would he pressure me for more when he has all this shady stuff to the side going on!? Someone clarify this for me!.
I'm actually not hurt, cuz I just knew it deep down (learned my lesson from "screw me over sags"), and those who have read my other post know I'm just too drained from all the energy it takes just being with him to be hurt, but now my scorpio rising is about to light a fire under his culo!.!.!.what to do what to do!.!.!.!.
Virgo/Libra cusp
Scorpio rising
Cappy moon
Venomous combination
N maybe I am just one of the crazy ones, that find out your sign and run but I am done with male sags!!! Every one of them has been disastrous in my life, and that can't be a coincidence!. Whereas other men from other signs!.!.!.no problems or at least no nutso problems!.
Oh Im not considering staying with him! lol no way in hell! I guess i should have been clearer, what to do is in reference to how bad am i gonna sting him and how!.!.!.it's inevitable that he's going to get stung i havent reached that higher level in life yet to not serve it up cold!.!.!.:-) So pls any ideas!. advice, told you so's :-) all welcome!
Venting VirgoWww@Enter-QA@Com
We are not even in an official relationship(no titles like gf/bf) although from the beginning he was pressuring me to at least see him exclusively(i finally gave in; well sorta, i'm no dumbie:-))!.!.!.now i find out he has a two different girls in two different countries, with their name tattoed on him! And one of them is trying to get pregnant by him! lol I'm sorry this is too messed up to not look at as crazy funny sad!.
Oh thats not all, he also has local girls! lol That when he can't get to me he goes for them or vice versa!.
He accuses me a playing the field left and right and I knew deep down it was cuz he's got a guilty consience, was just hoping I was wrong!.!.!.this man has brought me around his child so that his child would get attached to me and vice versa knowing he's a slimy dog!.!.!.why someone would do that!? Why if I told him we can just have a casual affair no strings, would he pressure me for more when he has all this shady stuff to the side going on!? Someone clarify this for me!.
I'm actually not hurt, cuz I just knew it deep down (learned my lesson from "screw me over sags"), and those who have read my other post know I'm just too drained from all the energy it takes just being with him to be hurt, but now my scorpio rising is about to light a fire under his culo!.!.!.what to do what to do!.!.!.!.
Virgo/Libra cusp
Scorpio rising
Cappy moon
Venomous combination
N maybe I am just one of the crazy ones, that find out your sign and run but I am done with male sags!!! Every one of them has been disastrous in my life, and that can't be a coincidence!. Whereas other men from other signs!.!.!.no problems or at least no nutso problems!.
Oh Im not considering staying with him! lol no way in hell! I guess i should have been clearer, what to do is in reference to how bad am i gonna sting him and how!.!.!.it's inevitable that he's going to get stung i havent reached that higher level in life yet to not serve it up cold!.!.!.:-) So pls any ideas!. advice, told you so's :-) all welcome!
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Answers:
LOL! I know what you mean about being attracted to 'crazy's'!.!.!.lol!.!.!.!.I have dated the entire spectrum of the zodiac!.!.!.lol!.!.!.they can be any sign - don't let that fool you! ;) Definitely move on! I think you really just have to be picky when dating! I think when you get screwed over so many times you can start seeing warning signs and signals from people!.!.!.!.I know I can see it coming from way off now - thankfully!
With Sag males, most of them take a good long while to mature (if ever - lol)!.!.!.!.You have to be firm and almost 'in your face' with them! Don't play games and don't try to be nice when you have a serious talk with them! Don't let their charm blind you or confuse or even distract you from the issues at hand (that is their best weapon)! If they seem elusive to the discussion - nip it in the bud and tell them - no more - and even - it's over, you are done with them! No sense in playing around with these guys because they will more than likely win at these types of mind games!!!!! Sad but true!
I appluad you for being keen and aware of the negatives of a male Sag!.!.!.they can be truly dispicable sometimes! Just try to focus on positive aspects in the future - lol - stay away from the bad boy types as well! Whatever their sign!.!.!.they are bad boys for a reason!.!.!.lol!.!.!.they won't change unless they are ready and want to change for theselves! - Even if they promise you change!.!.!.their heart has to be in it all the way - or they are lying to you! Most people rebel against change when they are having to do it for another!.!.!.it very seldom works out in the long run (without someone holding some kind of resentment for the other!)! Stay away from these types!!!!!!
lol!.!.!.!.I am a Sag girl!.!.!.I do believe, wholeheartedly that we (the females) mature a whole lot quicker than the male Sag! !.!.!.!.and that's still not saying a whole lot sometimes!.!.!.lol
Sorry to hear about such a crappy experience! Been there, so I know how frustrating it can be! Try dating different types of guys!.!.!.!.see how that goes!.!.!.I wish I had better advise to offer, but I'm not really a pro at the dating scene either - lol!
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Yeah that seems to happen to me as well!.!.!.almost every single guy that I have ever dated has, at some point, always seems to try to work their way back into my arms!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I used to fall for it when I was younger!.!.!.not anymore! It's over for a reason! (I usually do the dumping too though!)!.!.!.I have dated ex's in the past!.!.!.it never seems to work out! The same fricking thing always happens again (same things that caused me to break up with them in the first place!)! I don't put up with BS as much as I used to! Once they think it is okay or you are very forgiving - they turn around and use that against you!!!!! If discussing the matters doesn't help the situatiation then I am quick to end it and go my own way!!!! If they are cheating (or even thinking about it) I end it - tell them why - but end it! Keep it short and simple and walk away!!!! I have seldom cried in front of BF's when going through a breakup! I save that for later - I would rather not give them the satisfaction of knowing that I am hurt by them!!!
So I may not be a pro at steady, healthy relationships - lol - But I guess I am a pro at breaking up and shoving the dirtbags to the curb! lol!
Don't get me wrong - not all of them were terrible, some of them just didn't work out for whatever reason!.!.!.!.these guys I can usually keep a good, healthy friendship with!.
If they come back to you - stand your ground and tell them no!.!.!.if they try to do the 'Oh please I have changed, blah blah' - be polite and graceful! Tell them that you are happy to hear it and happy for them but you have moved on - NO! Don't even waste your time talking with them for too long because they will likely try to persuade you or manipulate you! Say your peice and walk away with a sh!t eating grin on your face!
As for revenge!.!.!.Sag's have the most luck than any other sign in the zodiac - what most people don't realize is that it is both good luck and bad luck! They say Karma only affects people in the next life!.!.!.!.I think it hits a Sag full force in this life! They will get what they deserve at some point and the best revenge is just lay and wait for it to come to them - because it will, and you won't even have to lift a finger for it to happen!!!!
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That seems to work for me! And when the luck is on my side, then I usually get to bear witness to see it come back around on them!!! That is most satisfying when you can see 'what comes around, goes around'! I'm not really vengeful!.!.!.I get angry and POed but I hate feeling guilty even if they deserved it! I won't lower myself to their level!.!.!.I just lay and wait - they'll get their dues in the end! Especially a Sag!Www@Enter-QA@Com
With Sag males, most of them take a good long while to mature (if ever - lol)!.!.!.!.You have to be firm and almost 'in your face' with them! Don't play games and don't try to be nice when you have a serious talk with them! Don't let their charm blind you or confuse or even distract you from the issues at hand (that is their best weapon)! If they seem elusive to the discussion - nip it in the bud and tell them - no more - and even - it's over, you are done with them! No sense in playing around with these guys because they will more than likely win at these types of mind games!!!!! Sad but true!
I appluad you for being keen and aware of the negatives of a male Sag!.!.!.they can be truly dispicable sometimes! Just try to focus on positive aspects in the future - lol - stay away from the bad boy types as well! Whatever their sign!.!.!.they are bad boys for a reason!.!.!.lol!.!.!.they won't change unless they are ready and want to change for theselves! - Even if they promise you change!.!.!.their heart has to be in it all the way - or they are lying to you! Most people rebel against change when they are having to do it for another!.!.!.it very seldom works out in the long run (without someone holding some kind of resentment for the other!)! Stay away from these types!!!!!!
lol!.!.!.!.I am a Sag girl!.!.!.I do believe, wholeheartedly that we (the females) mature a whole lot quicker than the male Sag! !.!.!.!.and that's still not saying a whole lot sometimes!.!.!.lol
Sorry to hear about such a crappy experience! Been there, so I know how frustrating it can be! Try dating different types of guys!.!.!.!.see how that goes!.!.!.I wish I had better advise to offer, but I'm not really a pro at the dating scene either - lol!
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Yeah that seems to happen to me as well!.!.!.almost every single guy that I have ever dated has, at some point, always seems to try to work their way back into my arms!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I used to fall for it when I was younger!.!.!.not anymore! It's over for a reason! (I usually do the dumping too though!)!.!.!.I have dated ex's in the past!.!.!.it never seems to work out! The same fricking thing always happens again (same things that caused me to break up with them in the first place!)! I don't put up with BS as much as I used to! Once they think it is okay or you are very forgiving - they turn around and use that against you!!!!! If discussing the matters doesn't help the situatiation then I am quick to end it and go my own way!!!! If they are cheating (or even thinking about it) I end it - tell them why - but end it! Keep it short and simple and walk away!!!! I have seldom cried in front of BF's when going through a breakup! I save that for later - I would rather not give them the satisfaction of knowing that I am hurt by them!!!
So I may not be a pro at steady, healthy relationships - lol - But I guess I am a pro at breaking up and shoving the dirtbags to the curb! lol!
Don't get me wrong - not all of them were terrible, some of them just didn't work out for whatever reason!.!.!.!.these guys I can usually keep a good, healthy friendship with!.
If they come back to you - stand your ground and tell them no!.!.!.if they try to do the 'Oh please I have changed, blah blah' - be polite and graceful! Tell them that you are happy to hear it and happy for them but you have moved on - NO! Don't even waste your time talking with them for too long because they will likely try to persuade you or manipulate you! Say your peice and walk away with a sh!t eating grin on your face!
As for revenge!.!.!.Sag's have the most luck than any other sign in the zodiac - what most people don't realize is that it is both good luck and bad luck! They say Karma only affects people in the next life!.!.!.!.I think it hits a Sag full force in this life! They will get what they deserve at some point and the best revenge is just lay and wait for it to come to them - because it will, and you won't even have to lift a finger for it to happen!!!!
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That seems to work for me! And when the luck is on my side, then I usually get to bear witness to see it come back around on them!!! That is most satisfying when you can see 'what comes around, goes around'! I'm not really vengeful!.!.!.I get angry and POed but I hate feeling guilty even if they deserved it! I won't lower myself to their level!.!.!.I just lay and wait - they'll get their dues in the end! Especially a Sag!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sounds like you are a bum magnet!. You need to do some self evaluation and find out what the "sign" on your back says!. (as in - kick me) Www@Enter-QA@Com
never rely on a saggy he is shaggyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Wow is my answer,
I am so sorry you have had a disheartening experience as outlined!. But i am going to be frank with you and I think in regards to a sagittarius or one who has particular aspects of this sign in their chart!.!.i think their is a possibility they are in conquest of that partner they can share their experiences with, someone who is bold and strong in set believes and what they will and will not tolerate!. Not one who will sway or budge over to suit them!.!.!.in other words sugar coat!. I do not know but i think with sag's like often like for someone to buckle them up where they have gone wrong and correct them to be that better person, someone who will aid in bettering them as a person and one they can grow with in a relationship!.
In regards to what you are doing, I would say if you are willing to still be with him, firm and bold is what you are going to have to do!. Don't dictate because with us, sag's we do not like to be told what to do!.!.if anything it makes us play up into wanting to do the opposite more, play up in taking the piss or search for one who is more open and warm!. There are ways in which you can be firm and bold to him and i would say do not shout, just talk to him serious and let him know your worth!. Do not boost or flaunt, but let him know you deserve better and if he cannot demonstrate or realize what he has with you!.!.then you will go to what is better and will give you better in return because you offering one solid chance!. You see if you try to find ways to get even with him, he will try to find ways to get even with you and try to hurt you that much greater in regards to mentally/ emotionally with your feelings!. All i am going to say to you is if you plan to get even with him!.!.!.just know you are going to have to BE CAREFUL because what i believe he will do is he will just be quiet and well you could say kind of let you play a bit here and there in getting him back whilst being nice to you or possibly trying to prove to you with kind gestures through actions/ words!. But when you least expect it he will turn the tables to make you feel the heat!. Honestly revenge is not the POLICY what so ever and i do not say that because you may loose to him or vice versa!.
But the way to really and i say the way to really stand your ground with this sag male of yours and i will tell you a secret that disturb sag's and i am sure all signs as a matter is:
- IGNORING SOMEONE!.!.!.SO I MEAN GO SILENT ON HIM LIKE HE DOES NOT EXIST!.!. by all means if he tries to communicate with you my phone, email, text message, fax, pager etc!.!.!.simply ignore it like you have not seen it!. If he is being nice, starts shouting and screaming!.!.!.!.still simply ignore it!. In no way what so ever should you give him attention till when your ready and you believe he has had time to alter and adjust his ways!.
When you do decide lets say after two weeks of ignoring him, when he communicates again to answer him, simply show to him you are not amused by his actions or words and if he is thinking of getting in your good books!.!.he is going to have to wise up on his morals, ways and behavior!. If you do this!.!.!.he will be in store for a shock!.
Right now why he is being this way is because he thinks you are not serious, you have not threaten him with the serious "I am going to walk out of the door because i am worthy than how you treat me" speech!. So to him it is like game play mode and also why he is not taking you serious is your mention of can it be a "casual relationship"!. In other words to many when you say casual it is like saying can we just date and see where it goes, and also their mind sets to thinking- Casual relationship = simple dating which = not serious which= open relationship which = having other's on the side!.
YOUR REVENGE TECHNIQUE SHOULD SIMPLY BE SILENCE
I seriously which you the best of luck and i am so sorry for what you are facing!.
I'm a sag female ;-P
(I will be frank, i stopped playing games when someone was serious, bold and firm with me!. They did not dictate but they laid it on the plate what they will and will not tolerate, and they gave me that serious look that made me think wow i do not want to disappoint you!.!.almost like i care about you but a parent look of i want the best for you and I -lol)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am so sorry you have had a disheartening experience as outlined!. But i am going to be frank with you and I think in regards to a sagittarius or one who has particular aspects of this sign in their chart!.!.i think their is a possibility they are in conquest of that partner they can share their experiences with, someone who is bold and strong in set believes and what they will and will not tolerate!. Not one who will sway or budge over to suit them!.!.!.in other words sugar coat!. I do not know but i think with sag's like often like for someone to buckle them up where they have gone wrong and correct them to be that better person, someone who will aid in bettering them as a person and one they can grow with in a relationship!.
In regards to what you are doing, I would say if you are willing to still be with him, firm and bold is what you are going to have to do!. Don't dictate because with us, sag's we do not like to be told what to do!.!.if anything it makes us play up into wanting to do the opposite more, play up in taking the piss or search for one who is more open and warm!. There are ways in which you can be firm and bold to him and i would say do not shout, just talk to him serious and let him know your worth!. Do not boost or flaunt, but let him know you deserve better and if he cannot demonstrate or realize what he has with you!.!.then you will go to what is better and will give you better in return because you offering one solid chance!. You see if you try to find ways to get even with him, he will try to find ways to get even with you and try to hurt you that much greater in regards to mentally/ emotionally with your feelings!. All i am going to say to you is if you plan to get even with him!.!.!.just know you are going to have to BE CAREFUL because what i believe he will do is he will just be quiet and well you could say kind of let you play a bit here and there in getting him back whilst being nice to you or possibly trying to prove to you with kind gestures through actions/ words!. But when you least expect it he will turn the tables to make you feel the heat!. Honestly revenge is not the POLICY what so ever and i do not say that because you may loose to him or vice versa!.
But the way to really and i say the way to really stand your ground with this sag male of yours and i will tell you a secret that disturb sag's and i am sure all signs as a matter is:
- IGNORING SOMEONE!.!.!.SO I MEAN GO SILENT ON HIM LIKE HE DOES NOT EXIST!.!. by all means if he tries to communicate with you my phone, email, text message, fax, pager etc!.!.!.simply ignore it like you have not seen it!. If he is being nice, starts shouting and screaming!.!.!.!.still simply ignore it!. In no way what so ever should you give him attention till when your ready and you believe he has had time to alter and adjust his ways!.
When you do decide lets say after two weeks of ignoring him, when he communicates again to answer him, simply show to him you are not amused by his actions or words and if he is thinking of getting in your good books!.!.he is going to have to wise up on his morals, ways and behavior!. If you do this!.!.!.he will be in store for a shock!.
Right now why he is being this way is because he thinks you are not serious, you have not threaten him with the serious "I am going to walk out of the door because i am worthy than how you treat me" speech!. So to him it is like game play mode and also why he is not taking you serious is your mention of can it be a "casual relationship"!. In other words to many when you say casual it is like saying can we just date and see where it goes, and also their mind sets to thinking- Casual relationship = simple dating which = not serious which= open relationship which = having other's on the side!.
YOUR REVENGE TECHNIQUE SHOULD SIMPLY BE SILENCE
I seriously which you the best of luck and i am so sorry for what you are facing!.
I'm a sag female ;-P
(I will be frank, i stopped playing games when someone was serious, bold and firm with me!. They did not dictate but they laid it on the plate what they will and will not tolerate, and they gave me that serious look that made me think wow i do not want to disappoint you!.!.almost like i care about you but a parent look of i want the best for you and I -lol)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com