Pluto and Venus in Synastry?!
Question: Pluto and Venus in Synastry!?
One person's Pluto in aspect (any aspect) to another's Venus!?
I know it's karmic and transformative!. BUT!.!.!. Is there any way for it not to be extremely painful!? Is there any upside to this in the long run!?
I'm asking about ANY relationship not just romantic!.
Any thoughts!?
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I know it's karmic and transformative!. BUT!.!.!. Is there any way for it not to be extremely painful!? Is there any upside to this in the long run!?
I'm asking about ANY relationship not just romantic!.
Any thoughts!?
Thanks!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
The only way to do it IMO is for both people involved to approach the relationship entirely devoid of ego!. The Venus person has to accept that they need to evolve in order to maintain the relationship!. Perhaps looking at that person's Neptune placement will indicate how that might manifest!. The Pluto person can't let all that power inflate their ego!. Both need to understand that what the relationship is creating is something which is attuned to a higher energy level than that which is usually expressed, and as such this energy is not so much "of" the people involved but is being channeled though the Pluto person to the Venus person via a higher source, especially if there are other karmic aspects involved in the synastry!. The Pluto person obviously feels tremendously powerful in this relationship, but they need to be able to relinquish their control and power over the Venus person enough for the Venus person to at least be able to maintain some of their own identity and their own life!. The Venus person has to be prepared and able to allow the Pluto person enough power over them to do what they're intended to do in this relationship!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Pluto and Venus is a good aspect!. Pain is necessary for growth, especially in a relationship!. Without this contact, you may not even come together in the first place!. Is saturn somewhere in there!? If it is, you're in for a long ride!.
(I have venus-pluto, saturn-venus and sun-venus, sun-saturn with someone, and its a long, excruciating relationship, but then very fulfilling, and extremely binding)
If I am not wrong, pluto-venus is an aspect of unforgettableness!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
(I have venus-pluto, saturn-venus and sun-venus, sun-saturn with someone, and its a long, excruciating relationship, but then very fulfilling, and extremely binding)
If I am not wrong, pluto-venus is an aspect of unforgettableness!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Jamie,
I think the fact that it is painful, in a way, guarantees that the result will be worth the pain!.!.!.I mean since every transformation is painful, if there is no or less pain, I would expect this aspect to have no real effect!.
Since Pluto is involved, any kind of aspect with Venus would seem pretty strong to me!.!.!.The upside would be the transformation part if these people manage to reach that level!.!.!.I honestly believe that some people cannot really stand the pain so they give up every effort before actually becoming transformed!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think the fact that it is painful, in a way, guarantees that the result will be worth the pain!.!.!.I mean since every transformation is painful, if there is no or less pain, I would expect this aspect to have no real effect!.
Since Pluto is involved, any kind of aspect with Venus would seem pretty strong to me!.!.!.The upside would be the transformation part if these people manage to reach that level!.!.!.I honestly believe that some people cannot really stand the pain so they give up every effort before actually becoming transformed!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Jamie
You always come out with interesting question and not easily answered at times!. From what I understand, any relationship with this configuration is not something to play with and a person has to enter it with serious intentions!. A person doesn’t have to be afraid of this either and can be rewarding!. The physical part will play an important role!. This is the power of love or is it, the power to love!. Hmmmm
You have powerful forces at work here and a lot of good can come from this aspect!. Emotional involvement is intense and this match should avoid games (manipulation) and try not to play with each other’s feeling!. The Venus-Pluto aspect confers intensity that can bind two people together but can be disastrous if the dominated partner tries to brek free from the dominating one!.
Whatever your relationship, try to experience your love!. The feelings between the two can be a powerful force whether for good or bad, and it has to be use wisely!.
!.!.!.!.!.Edit Eliza, nice take on that aspect!. I didn't want to repeat on what you said and totally agree!.
---edit Jaimie, I didn't know if it involved yourself and if you were in your early 30's!. You are on your way to your second Saturn return which makes a difference!. If you post this question on your second return, can you just copy/paste my answer in case I forget (Grin)
Sorry to hear about your Mom!. They are so important in life!. Now I see how Pluto can also affect outside the relationship from what I know about your Mom and the past relationship!. You are shrewd and I should have read between the lines!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You always come out with interesting question and not easily answered at times!. From what I understand, any relationship with this configuration is not something to play with and a person has to enter it with serious intentions!. A person doesn’t have to be afraid of this either and can be rewarding!. The physical part will play an important role!. This is the power of love or is it, the power to love!. Hmmmm
You have powerful forces at work here and a lot of good can come from this aspect!. Emotional involvement is intense and this match should avoid games (manipulation) and try not to play with each other’s feeling!. The Venus-Pluto aspect confers intensity that can bind two people together but can be disastrous if the dominated partner tries to brek free from the dominating one!.
Whatever your relationship, try to experience your love!. The feelings between the two can be a powerful force whether for good or bad, and it has to be use wisely!.
!.!.!.!.!.Edit Eliza, nice take on that aspect!. I didn't want to repeat on what you said and totally agree!.
---edit Jaimie, I didn't know if it involved yourself and if you were in your early 30's!. You are on your way to your second Saturn return which makes a difference!. If you post this question on your second return, can you just copy/paste my answer in case I forget (Grin)
Sorry to hear about your Mom!. They are so important in life!. Now I see how Pluto can also affect outside the relationship from what I know about your Mom and the past relationship!. You are shrewd and I should have read between the lines!.Www@Enter-QA@Com