How to keep from falling under Sag's spell?!
Question: How to keep from falling under Sag's spell!?
Ughhhh my downfall are Sags! lol They bring out the girl in me, meaning, instead of me "ruling" the relationship I allow Sag some leeway!. Something about them makes me want to surrender even though I know I shouldnt!. Every other sign, I rule(emotionally) or I walk!.!.!.what is it about Sags (in connection with my chart) and how can I keep from falling under the spell of one I'm seeing right now(i give myself one week b4 he has me completely lol)!?
Virgo
Scorpio rising
Cap Moon
Saturn & Venus LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
Virgo
Scorpio rising
Cap Moon
Saturn & Venus LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
It's your Venus in Leo that does it I'm fairly certain!. I think that there's really very little that you can do while a Sagittarian is around to keep this from happening!. They bring out your playful side because they are playful themselves (see above answer, lol)!. Maybe the Venus in Leo is there to help you lighten up a bit!? If one person or the other is "ruling" a relationship, then is it really a relationship at all!? IMO, "losing control" shouldn't really be an issue within a relationship, since there shouldn't have to be "control" within a relationship to begin with!. I wonder if the reason that you believe that you "shouldn't" lose emotional control within a relationship is that you've done this before with a Sagittarian and it's not gone as well as it could have!?
The thing is, Sagittarians don't "do" control (and of course this is a generalization, and the rest of the birthchart needs to be considered, blah, blah, blah)!. But even if there is an area of a Sagittarian's life over which they themselves or someone else exerts control, they don't really like it, and they'd rather not have it there!. Particularly in relationships!. Now, Sagittarius at first will probably like your emotional detachment because it = not clingy, and that's a plus, because we dont' like feeling tied down all that much!. *But*, Sagittarius also appreciates openness and honesty in communication!. It's something which we do ourselves, and it's something which we expect of the people around us!. So I don't know if your Sagittarian is going to like that you're attempting to control your emotional expression and in so doing attempting to control the relationship!.
Personally, I think that you should just allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you're going to feel and not worry so much about who's got the upper hand!. I know that's hard for your sun, moon, rising sign and saturn to swallow, but I think you should take it into consideration, anyhow!. Your venus gets it!.!.!.the others will catch on!.
I think that Saturn actually holds you back a fair bit as far as this is concerned, and it's maybe something that you want to be working on!. I think that your Saturn expression has maybe gone a bit overboard, lol!. Having it in the same sign as Venus would indicate to me that you've been challenged to control the way you express yourself romantically within a relationship!. Which is all well and good, and really who wants someone who's going to be running around declaring their love to everyone they meet, 5 minutes after meeting them!? But there's a difference between a disciplined expression of behaviour, and an overly controlled and blocked one!. And I think that what you are doing (or attempting to do) would be the latter!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The thing is, Sagittarians don't "do" control (and of course this is a generalization, and the rest of the birthchart needs to be considered, blah, blah, blah)!. But even if there is an area of a Sagittarian's life over which they themselves or someone else exerts control, they don't really like it, and they'd rather not have it there!. Particularly in relationships!. Now, Sagittarius at first will probably like your emotional detachment because it = not clingy, and that's a plus, because we dont' like feeling tied down all that much!. *But*, Sagittarius also appreciates openness and honesty in communication!. It's something which we do ourselves, and it's something which we expect of the people around us!. So I don't know if your Sagittarian is going to like that you're attempting to control your emotional expression and in so doing attempting to control the relationship!.
Personally, I think that you should just allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you're going to feel and not worry so much about who's got the upper hand!. I know that's hard for your sun, moon, rising sign and saturn to swallow, but I think you should take it into consideration, anyhow!. Your venus gets it!.!.!.the others will catch on!.
I think that Saturn actually holds you back a fair bit as far as this is concerned, and it's maybe something that you want to be working on!. I think that your Saturn expression has maybe gone a bit overboard, lol!. Having it in the same sign as Venus would indicate to me that you've been challenged to control the way you express yourself romantically within a relationship!. Which is all well and good, and really who wants someone who's going to be running around declaring their love to everyone they meet, 5 minutes after meeting them!? But there's a difference between a disciplined expression of behaviour, and an overly controlled and blocked one!. And I think that what you are doing (or attempting to do) would be the latter!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You sound so cute with your story about Sags!!! I'm a Sagittarius myself and all I can say is that we do this to a lot of people!. At least in my case it's always that way!. My boyfriend is a Leo and we have been together 6 years!. I'm most definitely his weakness and downfall!. He says it all the time but in a good way!. You are probably attracted to our carefree nature!. We very free spirited and easy going!. Perhaps that's attractive to you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
HEY! I'm a virgo too! it's so weird that we are so oddly attracted to those saggitariuses!.!.!. It seems like everybody in my life, my siblings, my best friends, even my boyfriend is a saggitarius!.
So my answer to that is, there is no keeping up from falling under their spell!.!.!.!.it's in our stars!.!. just enjoy every sag u come in contact wit!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So my answer to that is, there is no keeping up from falling under their spell!.!.!.!.it's in our stars!.!. just enjoy every sag u come in contact wit!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh !!!
because we are the best lol !
j/k
sun Sag !!!
Door is open : come over anytime :-)
ThinNtall is invited too!.!.!.she starred you !!! come and show yourself Thinnie :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
because we are the best lol !
j/k
sun Sag !!!
Door is open : come over anytime :-)
ThinNtall is invited too!.!.!.she starred you !!! come and show yourself Thinnie :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
You're a Virgo with a Scorpio Ascendent!. Resistance is futile!.
You could try to pick up a Libra instead!.
Otherwise, lay back and enjoy the ride!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You could try to pick up a Libra instead!.
Otherwise, lay back and enjoy the ride!.Www@Enter-QA@Com