Why wont this scorpio tell me how he is feeling?!
Question: Why wont this scorpio tell me how he is feeling!?
why wont this scorpio tell me how he is feeling!?
okay so ive been with my boyfriend since last month!. and we've broken up twice already but gotten back together right after!.
he knows that i am really stubborn, and he told me he is tired of it and he hates how he always has to chase after me!.
does this push him away!?!? he tells me he loves me soo much!.
when we were arguing yesterday hes like "nevermind you dont get it"
does he EXPECT me to know what he is talking about is it really that hard to tell me!?!?
what should i do about him!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
okay so ive been with my boyfriend since last month!. and we've broken up twice already but gotten back together right after!.
he knows that i am really stubborn, and he told me he is tired of it and he hates how he always has to chase after me!.
does this push him away!?!? he tells me he loves me soo much!.
when we were arguing yesterday hes like "nevermind you dont get it"
does he EXPECT me to know what he is talking about is it really that hard to tell me!?!?
what should i do about him!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I'm a cancer too, with a confusing scorpio! So don't worry, you're not alone!
I've found that scorpios are VERY secretive, and also very cautious!. If you have broken up and gotten back together a few times, he probably has his guard up!. Scorpios crave security just like us cancers! He says he loves you, so he probably feels he shouldn't have to chase you anymore!. He wants that secure feeling that us cancers can provide these sensitive scorps!. It's definitely a sensitive and emotional union, but if you can get on the same wavelength, I think you'll really understand each other better!.
Make it clear to him that he can trust you, and has nothing to worry about!. He most definitely has his guard up because of the chasing, and the break-ups!. Let him know that you are not running from him!. I know people say Scorpios like "the chase," but they don't want to ALWAYS be chasing!. Scorpios like the element of mystery!. So, you don't need to make him chase you, just keep it!.!.!. interesting!
Good luck with you scorpio!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I've found that scorpios are VERY secretive, and also very cautious!. If you have broken up and gotten back together a few times, he probably has his guard up!. Scorpios crave security just like us cancers! He says he loves you, so he probably feels he shouldn't have to chase you anymore!. He wants that secure feeling that us cancers can provide these sensitive scorps!. It's definitely a sensitive and emotional union, but if you can get on the same wavelength, I think you'll really understand each other better!.
Make it clear to him that he can trust you, and has nothing to worry about!. He most definitely has his guard up because of the chasing, and the break-ups!. Let him know that you are not running from him!. I know people say Scorpios like "the chase," but they don't want to ALWAYS be chasing!. Scorpios like the element of mystery!. So, you don't need to make him chase you, just keep it!.!.!. interesting!
Good luck with you scorpio!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpio's keep things internally!. Wierd but true!. A cancer and scorpio combination can bring plenty of drama being that both of you are sensitive!. Usually a Scorpio will feel safe with a Cancer, because they make them feel secure!. If he felt more secure around you, maybe he would be more open!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios are obsessed with stress, they can't explain themselves unless they're under stress, they have a problem with being upfront, until they can't take it anymore, then they blow up!. They are very weird!. You have to ask them how they feel, otherwise they'll let their attitude speak for them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Us Scorpios are sercretive about our feelings!.!.!.unless we HAVE to tell!.
We don't like chasing or stubborn people for that matter because we get what we want!.
Stress isn't the best thing for us!.
I say it's best to let him cool off for now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
We don't like chasing or stubborn people for that matter because we get what we want!.
Stress isn't the best thing for us!.
I say it's best to let him cool off for now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it is becuase both of you make an intense couple, and sometimes because of this i believe you both can have some arguements, but if you two find a way to settle down, your love with your mate will be a symphonyWww@Enter-QA@Com
clearly, you cant read his emotions and he is obviously unwilling to reason with your weakness!. there is only one reason why he's like this: He's a scorpio!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
SCORIOS ARE VERY SECRETIVEWww@Enter-QA@Com
it goes against scorpios entire belief system to lay all his cards on the table!. scorpio keep secrets, they never reveal everything!.!. they don't believe it's in their best interest to!. they are a mysterious bunch, they only begin to unravel when they feel COMPLETELY comfortable!. they have to know they can trust a person 110% before they let you in on their lives!. and they will test you on that!.!. they'll tell you something and make sure you can keep it to yourself before they ever tell you something else!. they can very good feelers too so you'd have to pass that silent test too!. sadly theres no way to study for that one!. they analyze your very being before you can even blink!.!. if they get some sort of uneasy feeling from you they won't even get out the first secret!.
with scorps only time will tell if they will open up!. you could maybe try a trade off though!.!. conceal the way your feeling and don't share!.!. and they'll be starving just to get to your secret (see they love keeping their mysteries but want to uncover everyone elses) then say i'll share if you share!. secret trade off!.!. might work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
with scorps only time will tell if they will open up!. you could maybe try a trade off though!.!. conceal the way your feeling and don't share!.!. and they'll be starving just to get to your secret (see they love keeping their mysteries but want to uncover everyone elses) then say i'll share if you share!. secret trade off!.!. might work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
all he wants is you to understand him, have patience, thats what scorpios want, don't put your self first, scorpio don't like selfish people, take your time to understand him, he always has a reason for why he is feeling the way he does, scorpios have trust issues, they have to grow to tell you their feelings, it wont just happen, i told my bf exactly how i felt after 4 months of being with him! because he gained my trust !. !. !. it takes time, we are very cautious in relationships, and we will only tell when we feel its right !. !. !. scorpios want you to have the same mentality level as them, to have the same instincts as them !. !. !. emotionally !. !. !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It has NOTHING to do with the date of his birth!. If you think it does then maybe it's you!. maybe he doesn't want to talk to you since what you offer is some new age BS that is nothing more than an excuse to justify bad behavior!.
My wife is a scorpio and all she wants to do is talk to me about everything!.
Stop trying to figure people out by the date they were born on and start trying to get to REAL issues in the relationship!.
If my spouse was into this BS I would say, "Nevermind you don't get it!." too!. I would say that to anyone that doesn't grasp logic and facts and clings to astrology and mother Earth etc!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My wife is a scorpio and all she wants to do is talk to me about everything!.
Stop trying to figure people out by the date they were born on and start trying to get to REAL issues in the relationship!.
If my spouse was into this BS I would say, "Nevermind you don't get it!." too!. I would say that to anyone that doesn't grasp logic and facts and clings to astrology and mother Earth etc!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sounds a little like the pot calling the kettle black!.!. You both need to relax and just try to enjoy each other more!. Don't worry about whether he should be calling you or you him!. If you have only been together a month (or a little over) then it is WAY too early to be having these issues!. Try looking at yourself and what kind of communication you respond best to, have him do the same and then compare notes!. Sometimes we automatically treat and act as though other people relate to things the same way we do!.!.!. and are wrong!.
Scorpios are very private people, that he tells you he loves you is great!.!.!. this early on make sure that he doesn't have you on a pedastal though, it would suck if all these arguments are due to you not living up to his Goddess-like vision of you and it is that he loves and not the perfectly flawed real you - which is worthy of love from a man who loves YOU!.
Best of blessings!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios are very private people, that he tells you he loves you is great!.!.!. this early on make sure that he doesn't have you on a pedastal though, it would suck if all these arguments are due to you not living up to his Goddess-like vision of you and it is that he loves and not the perfectly flawed real you - which is worthy of love from a man who loves YOU!.
Best of blessings!Www@Enter-QA@Com