Why does my friend have so much bullsh*t in her life ?!
Question: Why does my friend have so much bullsh*t in her life !?
she was molested by her female cousin when she was 7 ( lasted til she was 9 )
she was molested again by a male cousin when she was 12 ( it lasted til she was about 18, 19 )
she always getting unwanted sexual attention from men
she has low self esteem cuz family seems to be the main ones that hurt her
her parents divorced when she was 20yrs ( shes 23 yrs now )
she in a relationship with a guy that does nothing for her ( he has No job, car, cell phone, lives with his mother, has baby mama drama , felonies) just using her ***!.!.!.and she does everything for him and he aint even trying to help his self
i know that shes hurting inside cuz she feels like she isnt good enough for anybody!.
ive noticed she has alot of planets in cancer, could this be why all of these things about relationships with family occured !?
heres her chart :
http://www!.astro!.com/cgi/aclch!.cgi!?btyp=!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
she was molested again by a male cousin when she was 12 ( it lasted til she was about 18, 19 )
she always getting unwanted sexual attention from men
she has low self esteem cuz family seems to be the main ones that hurt her
her parents divorced when she was 20yrs ( shes 23 yrs now )
she in a relationship with a guy that does nothing for her ( he has No job, car, cell phone, lives with his mother, has baby mama drama , felonies) just using her ***!.!.!.and she does everything for him and he aint even trying to help his self
i know that shes hurting inside cuz she feels like she isnt good enough for anybody!.
ive noticed she has alot of planets in cancer, could this be why all of these things about relationships with family occured !?
heres her chart :
http://www!.astro!.com/cgi/aclch!.cgi!?btyp=!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
She has a great deal of Planets in Cancer!. !. !.But theres more to it!. Her Sun is in Gemini!. Gemini has to do with siblings, aunts uncles and COUSINS!. And you said she was molested by 2 cousins gemini themes always come in pairs!. An emphasis on cancer, 4th house or the moon deals with the mother or her side of the family!. Jupiter is in the 4th and this means a large or religious family!. She may have had a small presence amongst her family, so the seriousness may have been ignored!. Jupiter is in Aquarius in the 4th and Capricorn rules this house!. These are the most cold and distant signs and it could mean she didnt get the emotional supprt she needed!.
As for the sex abuse itself, Pluto is in the 1st house!. This is the most imprtant houses in the chart and any planet here will qlso be important!. This is the overall theme!. Pluto is very powerful in her chart!. And Pluto deals with sexuality and abuse!. She has Saturn badly aspected in the 2nd house!. The 2nd house deals with your own self woth and saturn here proves to dampin her self esteem!. Neptune in the 3rd can make her conversations with others on the depressive side!. Instead of channeling it to creativity or artistic pursuits, she seeks sympathy!. Neptune is opposite mars and mars has to do with sex!. Neptune(scandal) against Mars(sex)!.She has venus in the 7th oppose Saturn !. Meaning they might be good looking, charming or good in bed!. But they use her and treat her like crap(saturn)!. Anyways, its not necessarily the cancer planets!. Its the Pluto in the first, Saturn in the second oppose Venus, neptune in the 3rd adversly aspected by mars
and chiron in the 8th!. Chiron is where we are wounded and where we heal ourselves!. The 8th deals with with sex among other things!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
As for the sex abuse itself, Pluto is in the 1st house!. This is the most imprtant houses in the chart and any planet here will qlso be important!. This is the overall theme!. Pluto is very powerful in her chart!. And Pluto deals with sexuality and abuse!. She has Saturn badly aspected in the 2nd house!. The 2nd house deals with your own self woth and saturn here proves to dampin her self esteem!. Neptune in the 3rd can make her conversations with others on the depressive side!. Instead of channeling it to creativity or artistic pursuits, she seeks sympathy!. Neptune is opposite mars and mars has to do with sex!. Neptune(scandal) against Mars(sex)!.She has venus in the 7th oppose Saturn !. Meaning they might be good looking, charming or good in bed!. But they use her and treat her like crap(saturn)!. Anyways, its not necessarily the cancer planets!. Its the Pluto in the first, Saturn in the second oppose Venus, neptune in the 3rd adversly aspected by mars
and chiron in the 8th!. Chiron is where we are wounded and where we heal ourselves!. The 8th deals with with sex among other things!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
nothing happens to someone just because!. Maybe she was a victim of sexual abuse, why did it go on so long and twice!?!?!? Sounds to me like she was born promiscous, and should see a mental health professional about some transgressed issues she needs to resolve, to acquire some self esteem, and get her life on the right track!. It is never too late, especially if she is so young!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If she has most planets in Cancer, that means her dominate personality is in Cancer!. Cancers are sensitive, obedient, caring, giving, and emotional!.
She can be easily used, since Cancer is a water sign!.
But if you think about it, astrology doesn't have anything to do with her personal life!. She has low self esteem, and doesn't have enough courage to stand up for herself so the obvious thing to do is help her out!.
As a friend, tell her what you think of her guy, her family and give her all the comfort she needs until she's back up on her feet again!. She kinda deserves to know the truth!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
She can be easily used, since Cancer is a water sign!.
But if you think about it, astrology doesn't have anything to do with her personal life!. She has low self esteem, and doesn't have enough courage to stand up for herself so the obvious thing to do is help her out!.
As a friend, tell her what you think of her guy, her family and give her all the comfort she needs until she's back up on her feet again!. She kinda deserves to know the truth!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I had a friend that was like this, but she is about 21 or 22!. This sounds exactly like her, same situation even!.
My female friends' issue stemmed from her not having personal goals and not wanting to stand up for herself!. She wanted a relationship from me, but I couldn't give her that, because something was just wrong with her!. I gave her tons and tons of lectures and I guess eventually she started standing up for herself, but then her family hated my guts and was saying all kinds of crap about me!.
I would like to think I turned her around when she started getting a job and pursue a career, but then she went back to her old ways!. This was the main thing I feared when she wanted a relationship!. I knew she would change, but she would only change to impress me!. You know those things don't last!. Eventually she just disappeared on me!.
My friend was a Pisces!.
The only thing I believe fixes her situation is when she moves out and stay away from people that sh!.!. on her!. Other then that it is the same old things over and over again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My female friends' issue stemmed from her not having personal goals and not wanting to stand up for herself!. She wanted a relationship from me, but I couldn't give her that, because something was just wrong with her!. I gave her tons and tons of lectures and I guess eventually she started standing up for herself, but then her family hated my guts and was saying all kinds of crap about me!.
I would like to think I turned her around when she started getting a job and pursue a career, but then she went back to her old ways!. This was the main thing I feared when she wanted a relationship!. I knew she would change, but she would only change to impress me!. You know those things don't last!. Eventually she just disappeared on me!.
My friend was a Pisces!.
The only thing I believe fixes her situation is when she moves out and stay away from people that sh!.!. on her!. Other then that it is the same old things over and over again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com