Mega massive huge help needed from Aquarians?!
Question: Mega massive huge help needed from Aquarians!?
My very good friend and I have been doing stuff together for a long time, we are very close!.
The thing is that he has a long distance gf!. They havent seen each other for over a year and she is on the other side of the world!. Neither is going to live in the other′s country!.
Im about 95% sure that he has feelings for me too, and also 95% sure that any complications are because of the gf!.
He might go to Australia for a year (not where the gf is- in fact, I am Aussie!)!. Recently I told him that Ill prob leave, too!. He asked me about it over and over and over last night!. Where, why, when, why, why, why!. Annoyingly persistent!
He didnt know its partly because of him, but last night I told him via SMS when I left!. I told him that I know there′ll never be another him here, and I can′t be here with his memory!. I said that noone else comes close to him, and that I would live anywhere and drop it all for him, and that if I was his, I couldnt be on the other side of the world!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The thing is that he has a long distance gf!. They havent seen each other for over a year and she is on the other side of the world!. Neither is going to live in the other′s country!.
Im about 95% sure that he has feelings for me too, and also 95% sure that any complications are because of the gf!.
He might go to Australia for a year (not where the gf is- in fact, I am Aussie!)!. Recently I told him that Ill prob leave, too!. He asked me about it over and over and over last night!. Where, why, when, why, why, why!. Annoyingly persistent!
He didnt know its partly because of him, but last night I told him via SMS when I left!. I told him that I know there′ll never be another him here, and I can′t be here with his memory!. I said that noone else comes close to him, and that I would live anywhere and drop it all for him, and that if I was his, I couldnt be on the other side of the world!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Three things you need to know right now about typical Aquarius!.
1!.) Aquarians like being proven right!.
2!.) Aquarians like being admired by many people!.
3!.) Aquarians are (most often) loyal to their partners!.
In this case now, I'm thinking he's happy that he was proven right, because I think he realized you liked him!. He feels good about himself now that he knows you like him for sure and he now has the power in the relationship, because you still aren't sure how he feels about you for sure!. So now it's either wait it out and see if he breaks up with his gf, which could take a while, but it could not!.!. Aquarians need time to think about things and make up their mind!. Once it is made up, it is final!. But Aquarians are usually loyal so even if he breaks up with his gf it might take a little bit of time for him to come out and tell you he likes you (if he does)!.!.!.
If he doesn't like you, then he's really just playing you which is crappy and retarded, but he's a man, and well, they like to have power over you!.!. Since Aquarians are mental, he has extreme mental power over you right now!.!.!. So honestly, you just put yourself in an extremely vulnerable situation!.!.!. If he still doesn't respond to you about it in a day or two, then just treat him indifferently as hard as it may be after that!.!.!.
Make him think you don't actually need him and have changed your mind!. It will drive him crazy and make him wonder if you meant it or not!.!.!. You will secretly start acquiring the power again, and then he will hopefully come out and tell you how he really feels!.!.
If he doesn't seem to care, and just goes off on his own- then he never really liked you!.!. If it seems to bother him, then you know he likes you, but wait till he gives in or else he won't like that you are being so easy about being with him!. He wants the challenge!.!.!.
I hope that helps!Www@Enter-QA@Com
1!.) Aquarians like being proven right!.
2!.) Aquarians like being admired by many people!.
3!.) Aquarians are (most often) loyal to their partners!.
In this case now, I'm thinking he's happy that he was proven right, because I think he realized you liked him!. He feels good about himself now that he knows you like him for sure and he now has the power in the relationship, because you still aren't sure how he feels about you for sure!. So now it's either wait it out and see if he breaks up with his gf, which could take a while, but it could not!.!. Aquarians need time to think about things and make up their mind!. Once it is made up, it is final!. But Aquarians are usually loyal so even if he breaks up with his gf it might take a little bit of time for him to come out and tell you he likes you (if he does)!.!.!.
If he doesn't like you, then he's really just playing you which is crappy and retarded, but he's a man, and well, they like to have power over you!.!. Since Aquarians are mental, he has extreme mental power over you right now!.!.!. So honestly, you just put yourself in an extremely vulnerable situation!.!.!. If he still doesn't respond to you about it in a day or two, then just treat him indifferently as hard as it may be after that!.!.!.
Make him think you don't actually need him and have changed your mind!. It will drive him crazy and make him wonder if you meant it or not!.!.!. You will secretly start acquiring the power again, and then he will hopefully come out and tell you how he really feels!.!.
If he doesn't seem to care, and just goes off on his own- then he never really liked you!.!. If it seems to bother him, then you know he likes you, but wait till he gives in or else he won't like that you are being so easy about being with him!. He wants the challenge!.!.!.
I hope that helps!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Dump him!. Why do you want to be with a guy who already has a girlfriend!. If he hasnt dumped her by now he isn't going to!. He even told you that he is in fact going to live there for a year with her! HELLLOOO!! Wake up! He keeps asking you when and where and why because he needs to get his story straight and think of a good cover and lie to tell his girl if you two run into each other!. He is playing you!. Aquarius strikes again!.!.!.
**Edit** It doesnt matter if she is German or if she lives in Germany!. He's still shady!. Better watch out!Www@Enter-QA@Com
**Edit** It doesnt matter if she is German or if she lives in Germany!. He's still shady!. Better watch out!Www@Enter-QA@Com
So Zepman, you're pretty much saying that ALL men are @ssholes that use women!? That's what boys do, not real men and they probably wouldn't appreciate you speaking on behalf of them :)
Anyway!.!.lol!.!.NO relationship can be founded on a solid foundation when 3 people are involved!. If he has a girlfriend then it's actually a good thing that he's not trying to hook up with you behind her back!. That would make him a trifling son of a b*tch!. also, if he took you up on your offer that would mean that if you did get together he would end up cheating on you as well!. For your own sanity, move onto someone whose emotionally and physically available!. If his response was that short and to the point, I can't think of anything good that could be going through his mind!. I'm Aquarius myself and when I respond to someone in a way that's brief and to the point, it's because I'm either annoyed with them or I don't want to hurt their feelings!. I think it's the latter for you!. If he does have feelings for you, it's still in your own best interest to wait until his relationship is officially over!. Getting involved right now would only put your heart in harm's way!. Don't do it missy!. You deserve to be with someone that can fully reciprocate the love that you have to offer!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Anyway!.!.lol!.!.NO relationship can be founded on a solid foundation when 3 people are involved!. If he has a girlfriend then it's actually a good thing that he's not trying to hook up with you behind her back!. That would make him a trifling son of a b*tch!. also, if he took you up on your offer that would mean that if you did get together he would end up cheating on you as well!. For your own sanity, move onto someone whose emotionally and physically available!. If his response was that short and to the point, I can't think of anything good that could be going through his mind!. I'm Aquarius myself and when I respond to someone in a way that's brief and to the point, it's because I'm either annoyed with them or I don't want to hurt their feelings!. I think it's the latter for you!. If he does have feelings for you, it's still in your own best interest to wait until his relationship is officially over!. Getting involved right now would only put your heart in harm's way!. Don't do it missy!. You deserve to be with someone that can fully reciprocate the love that you have to offer!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com
He wants in your shorts and he also wants the freedom to leave on his terms!.!.!.
So you leaving causes him to wonder where his potential future 'piece' is going!.!.!. but him walking away is no big deal - he'll just find another piece 'over there'!.!.!.
Some day you women will figure us guys out ;) There is no such thing as love!.!.!. there is sex and there are gf's for sex!.!.!. nothing more!.!.!. we are like politicians - we'll say ANYTHING to get what we want!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So you leaving causes him to wonder where his potential future 'piece' is going!.!.!. but him walking away is no big deal - he'll just find another piece 'over there'!.!.!.
Some day you women will figure us guys out ;) There is no such thing as love!.!.!. there is sex and there are gf's for sex!.!.!. nothing more!.!.!. we are like politicians - we'll say ANYTHING to get what we want!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com