To all those out there who's dating or has dated an Aries?!
Question: To all those out there who's dating or has dated an Aries!?
What's the toughest aspect of being in the relationship(s)!? I want to hear actual real life stories - not links to astrology websites, anything cut and paste, nor any general analysis of Aries's character!. I know quite a few about them Astrology wise!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Lets c!.!.!.I've dated about 4 Aries and i've had 2 serious rel with 2 of them!.One lasted 2 years and 6months and the other which I just ended lasted 1 year and 5 months (was friends for 6 months before dating)
The toughest aspect to ME was that they want their own way in anything they do!.!.the way they live, what they want to eat, where they want to go, its always about them first then you come next!. Now me I tend to put my love ones first before anything and I never got it in return so it caused problems!.
I ended the first because she lied to me and went out with her friends behind my back and if its one thing I hate is liers!. My trust was broken for good and there was no going back for me!.
The second rel which just ended this weekend, was probably the hardest to get over!. We were friends for 6 months, she liked me but I didnt, after awhile I finally fell in love!. The biggest problem was the control and leader issue!. Whose wearing the pants in the relationship and another was the lack of affection!. She wasn't romantic nor was she outgoing!. I'm all these and I was giving and giving and I wasn't getting the affection back so we argued!.
Aries people never think they are wrong,EVEN IF THEY ARE WRONG they will argue with you and thats something that annoys the crap out of me!. I mean sometimes you have to say "YES IM WRONG" "YOUR RIGHT" but it was always about her!.
They are very cold hearted sometimes and unsensitive, and as for me i love to love and i'm very sensitive with my feelings when in love!. Point was I never got what I wanted in the rel, she wasn't appreciative of my feelings towards her, and she felt she had gotten me already so I guess she got bored quickly, Which is a huge trait in an Aries!.
Point was I was the only one holding onto the relationship and it takes 2 for a rel to work!. It was also my huge ego holding it together I didn't want to believe It couldn't work out!. I was determined to make it work!. But the truth is, you have to find someone who truly appreciates you for you!.
As far as I know I would never date another Aries!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The toughest aspect to ME was that they want their own way in anything they do!.!.the way they live, what they want to eat, where they want to go, its always about them first then you come next!. Now me I tend to put my love ones first before anything and I never got it in return so it caused problems!.
I ended the first because she lied to me and went out with her friends behind my back and if its one thing I hate is liers!. My trust was broken for good and there was no going back for me!.
The second rel which just ended this weekend, was probably the hardest to get over!. We were friends for 6 months, she liked me but I didnt, after awhile I finally fell in love!. The biggest problem was the control and leader issue!. Whose wearing the pants in the relationship and another was the lack of affection!. She wasn't romantic nor was she outgoing!. I'm all these and I was giving and giving and I wasn't getting the affection back so we argued!.
Aries people never think they are wrong,EVEN IF THEY ARE WRONG they will argue with you and thats something that annoys the crap out of me!. I mean sometimes you have to say "YES IM WRONG" "YOUR RIGHT" but it was always about her!.
They are very cold hearted sometimes and unsensitive, and as for me i love to love and i'm very sensitive with my feelings when in love!. Point was I never got what I wanted in the rel, she wasn't appreciative of my feelings towards her, and she felt she had gotten me already so I guess she got bored quickly, Which is a huge trait in an Aries!.
Point was I was the only one holding onto the relationship and it takes 2 for a rel to work!. It was also my huge ego holding it together I didn't want to believe It couldn't work out!. I was determined to make it work!. But the truth is, you have to find someone who truly appreciates you for you!.
As far as I know I would never date another Aries!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I "dated" an Aries for all of 3 days (or should I say a week!?)!. Once I snubbed his ego he was gone!
But he was dashing and all that!.!. but it wasn't lasting!. I just like the way he looks, that's about it ;)
The other Aries, is my friend!. Well he is a giver, but once I started treating him nice he became barbaric!.
As for Aries women in my life, they are just as Tril said!. I really wonder how to teach that aforesaid Aries a lesson!. From another Aries girl (who is spiritual and all that) to me, she said that Aries @#$@ will get her karma back and I get to witness it!. Enough for me, I say!
Edit: I think alot of aries peeps are a sucker for punishment!. They should get those BDSM babes, not those who wish to treat their partner nice!. Alot of people like to be b##ches, but alot don't as well, and being nasty all the time can be draining!.
P!.S: I actually like Aries peeps alot, especially Aries women!. They have always been my circle of buddies!. But I just don't like them barging in and coveting something they think they can own with NO apology!. They think they are right, and conscience seldom creeps up in them until they get out of their competitive, possessive mindset!.
aries/gem moons are the worst!Www@Enter-QA@Com
But he was dashing and all that!.!. but it wasn't lasting!. I just like the way he looks, that's about it ;)
The other Aries, is my friend!. Well he is a giver, but once I started treating him nice he became barbaric!.
As for Aries women in my life, they are just as Tril said!. I really wonder how to teach that aforesaid Aries a lesson!. From another Aries girl (who is spiritual and all that) to me, she said that Aries @#$@ will get her karma back and I get to witness it!. Enough for me, I say!
Edit: I think alot of aries peeps are a sucker for punishment!. They should get those BDSM babes, not those who wish to treat their partner nice!. Alot of people like to be b##ches, but alot don't as well, and being nasty all the time can be draining!.
P!.S: I actually like Aries peeps alot, especially Aries women!. They have always been my circle of buddies!. But I just don't like them barging in and coveting something they think they can own with NO apology!. They think they are right, and conscience seldom creeps up in them until they get out of their competitive, possessive mindset!.
aries/gem moons are the worst!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Haha I was expecting to hear Tril!. Not in a bad way!.
Tril maybe it's because you're in a Leo/Virgo cusp!? I don't really believe in cusps but hey!.
Never dated an Aries but my best friend or ex best friend currently is a pain!. She's constantly bragging and boasting and saying "I'm not stuck up and I'm not bragging or rubbing it in your face, I'm just saying!" As an Aries too, I got really annoyed and told her to shut the f up and she was like "My aunt just died and that really hurt" so I said sorry and w/e but there will still some problems!. Even though we didn't admit it, we were competiting for something really stupid and that got in the way of our friendship!. And like her boyfriend asks me why and w/e!. She said something that got me mad again so I told her another reason why I was mad at her in the first place!. I told her that she's mean to other people but when someone hurts her unexpectedly, she comes crying to me or her boyfriend!. She relies on everyone!.
I could care less about the signs but since you asked Astrology wise!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Tril maybe it's because you're in a Leo/Virgo cusp!? I don't really believe in cusps but hey!.
Never dated an Aries but my best friend or ex best friend currently is a pain!. She's constantly bragging and boasting and saying "I'm not stuck up and I'm not bragging or rubbing it in your face, I'm just saying!" As an Aries too, I got really annoyed and told her to shut the f up and she was like "My aunt just died and that really hurt" so I said sorry and w/e but there will still some problems!. Even though we didn't admit it, we were competiting for something really stupid and that got in the way of our friendship!. And like her boyfriend asks me why and w/e!. She said something that got me mad again so I told her another reason why I was mad at her in the first place!. I told her that she's mean to other people but when someone hurts her unexpectedly, she comes crying to me or her boyfriend!. She relies on everyone!.
I could care less about the signs but since you asked Astrology wise!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I haven't dated an Aries, but I am one!. On the surface a big problem for me is that I get bored easily!. Because of other signs when I'm committed I'm very there, but it takes a long time to get me there with you and normally I will get bored before that happens!.
I'm trying really hard not to be that way with this new relationship!. He has a venus in scorpio and moon in taurus so he's been very persistent!. If he hadn't we'd be done already!. also he lets me have my way which is another plus and hard for him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm trying really hard not to be that way with this new relationship!. He has a venus in scorpio and moon in taurus so he's been very persistent!. If he hadn't we'd be done already!. also he lets me have my way which is another plus and hard for him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I dated an Aries way back in High School (that's 16 years ago!)!. What I remember is, Aries likes the hunt, he'll chase you no matter what, but when you give in and agree to be a couple, he'll get bored and left!. When you're unavailable again, he'll chase you again!. It's getting old and boring so I didn't take him back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com