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Question: I proposed that we break up; He wants us to think about it first!. What does it mean!?
This is an update from a question I asked yesterday about my bf!. If you want more backgorund, read that question!.
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Anyway, My bf and I have only been together since feb!. He's a nice guy and we have alot in common!. Thing is, our schedules are different and he travels quite a bit!. Sometimes, it'll be weeks before I see him because of travelling and out things he HAS to do!. He also has a 2 yr old son that lives in a different state and has to visit him often as well!. All this causes alot of alone time on my part and it gets really bad sometimes!. But, I have never felt this way about any other man in my life!. Due to all this, I told him that I think we should break up because I love him but he can't be there for me the way I want him to be!. We discussed it and he suggested that we take a few days to think about it before making a final decision!. Ofcourse I want to be with him but the time apart kills me so maybe breaking up would be the best thing(!?)!. Do you think him suggesting we think about it means he still wants us to be together and try to work it out!? Or could it be something else!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Anyway, My bf and I have only been together since feb!. He's a nice guy and we have alot in common!. Thing is, our schedules are different and he travels quite a bit!. Sometimes, it'll be weeks before I see him because of travelling and out things he HAS to do!. He also has a 2 yr old son that lives in a different state and has to visit him often as well!. All this causes alot of alone time on my part and it gets really bad sometimes!. But, I have never felt this way about any other man in my life!. Due to all this, I told him that I think we should break up because I love him but he can't be there for me the way I want him to be!. We discussed it and he suggested that we take a few days to think about it before making a final decision!. Ofcourse I want to be with him but the time apart kills me so maybe breaking up would be the best thing(!?)!. Do you think him suggesting we think about it means he still wants us to be together and try to work it out!? Or could it be something else!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Ok, you need to be honest with yourself and with him!. Obviously, you threw the "we should break up" line out there to see if he would grab hold of you tighter!. You didn't mean it obviously, because if you did you wouldn't be worried about whether or not it's something that he really wants!. Sigh!. You need to have a talk with him about how his schedule is really hurting you---he needs to make you more of a priority, otherwise your relationship can't grow!. If you love this man more than life and the feeling is mutual, you can work through anything!. First and foremost, you need to be honest with yourself!Www@Enter-QA@Com
It sounds like you've already been thinking about it!. It does sound like he doesn't want to break up though!. Obviously time apart isn't what you need cuz you're already getting that!. Try to schedule more things to do together and see how it is at the end of the summer!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well there's obviously something about you that he loves!.
I think he wants to try to work it out with youWww@Enter-QA@Com
I think he wants to try to work it out with youWww@Enter-QA@Com
you water
he fire
fire+water=steam/nothing
Sorry!.
But I believe Leo are very loyal to their spouse one way or another!. But being a natural leader, he wants his own freedom, you cant pull down a Leo, just tell him that he is not there for you when you need him(not want him) Give him some time i think giving him time to digest/think of a way to in u backWww@Enter-QA@Com
he fire
fire+water=steam/nothing
Sorry!.
But I believe Leo are very loyal to their spouse one way or another!. But being a natural leader, he wants his own freedom, you cant pull down a Leo, just tell him that he is not there for you when you need him(not want him) Give him some time i think giving him time to digest/think of a way to in u backWww@Enter-QA@Com