Just get over it???!


Question: Just get over it!?!?!?
Where is your moon and what is your reaction when someone tells you this!?!?

Stories and details please!.!.!.

Include your sun and asc if you wish!.!.!.

How do YOU just "get over it"!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
A person should always look at the reason the other person said it!. Sure, on the surface it sounds like the person saying it is cold and unfeeling!. But underneath the surface, the person it is said to could actually be the cold and hypercritical one!.

When it is said to me I do what I just said!. I look at the reason the person is saying it!.

Pisces with Virgo moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

i realise either a) they dont respect me enoguh to care about how i feel or b) i should just get over it!.

usualy b) when its a friend or relative but a) when its a lover!.

this si because i probebly should just get over it im too sensitive rele!.

my moon is scorpio, sun cancer, and asc aquarious!.

i think the aquarious knows im being riduculas when i wont just 'get over it'

but lots of people who say that, are being selfish its obviously effective me, butif they are good friends who i know care, i realise they are right :)Www@Enter-QA@Com

I have Moon in Virgo and I don't respond to that comment very well because it is thoughtless!. Added to that fact, 100% of the time, I find the person saying that comment does not practice what he or she preaches!.

I don't recall hearing it said to me, but I've heard it said to those close to me!. I know someone who went through a severe depression and it was causing problems here at work!. One day during a meeting, one of the bosses told him, "Just get over it and move on with your life!."

It's so easy for the other person to say that when they are not walking in another person's shoes!.

How do I respond to it!? I might say something in private to the person who has said it!. Other than that, I like to wait and observe because I've found that karma is often right around the next corner!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think the "just get over it" phrase is an immature and dismissive response!. It is really saying "I don't know how to deal with your anguish, and I really don't care" - unless I say it, of course, and then it means someone is whining too much over something trivial!.

If someone said it to me, I would either blow up at him/her, or never disclose personal feelings to that person again!

Libra moon, Cancer rising, Sag sun; if my Scorpio mars got involved, there may be hell to pay for such a statement!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

If someone tells me that, I typically become sullen for a while!. Then I usually examine my behavior and attitude to see if they might be correct!. In most cases, they usually are, and I just get over it!.

I am usually more offended if someone says this to someone I love than if it is said to me!.

Scorpio sun and moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

It would depend on how close the person is to me!. If it's someone who is a mere acquaintance whose opinion matters little to me, I brush it off as lack of caring about me or lack of knowing the real me!. If it's someone whom I care about, then I figure I've been whining and complaining too much!. After all, if they are close to me, then they must be pretty fed up to say something like that to me!.

Virgo sun, Aries moon, Aries ascendantWww@Enter-QA@Com

go get done withe itWww@Enter-QA@Com

"But!.!.!. just look at it from my point of view, logically speaking!.!.!." ~ followed by a series of arguments why I don't have to get over anything, because I was never *under* it to begin with, etc!.!.!.

Or, I start laughing at the absurdity of my own reaction!.

Besides, I'm usually the one saying "get over it" :p!. I say it a lot!. Gemini moon, you know!. We're superficial; we have no emotions!. We get over things in a heartbeat :p ~ we're usually not even bothered with things to begin with!. (Well you know I am :p )

Saggy rising and Scorpio sun, as you know ^_^

*edit*

Aww Jamie ~ younger, most likely (I'm one of the young'uns here annyway :p), but I don't believe I'm better!.!.!. Have loads to learn, though!. Like to act less like I have something to get over when I really don't (why do I always do the opposite of what I feel!? Anything to do with my Mercury opposing my Moon!? o_O)


Oh, here's a story of my telling someone to "get over it" ~ in short, there was a 16-17 year old girl who was complaining to everyone who would listen that she was depressed, so naturally I was concerned and offered to listen!. So she started her story with "I'm depressed; I'm really depressed!." etc!.!.!., when I asked her how long, she said she was feeling it for *three whole days*!. I told her there are people who actually need help and don't cry wolf, and!.!.!. well, that she should just get over it!.

People usually tell me to "get over it" when I overreact again!.!.!. which happens a lot, actually!. What can I say; half my chart is in Sagittarius, I'm one big exaggeration!. But I'm never serious :pWww@Enter-QA@Com

Generally, I don't have people around me who ever tell me to "just get over it" in any situation!. It's very important to me that they trust me, and the fact that I am reasonable and will get over things when I am ready!.

Whenever something bad happens or I get my heart broken, I mourn for a few days, and then I just go on with life!. Inside I might not let it go for a LONG time, but I will always know it's time to let it go!.!.!. I just give myself time!. I've found that that's a very healthy approach, and friends pushing me is unnecessary!.

I'm open to constructive criticism and caring comments (sometimes "get over it" means "I care - but I don't understand what you're doing") but in the end I need people to respect my learning processes and I need them to recognize my strength!. I try to always be honest with myself and I think they know that - they know that if I had serious issues I couldn't let go, I'd either talk to them or ask professional help even!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well, hypothetically speaking, I'd probably just get over it lol:)


But I'm not the one who usually hears those words, I'm typically the one saying them!.


If I'm emotionally upset, I'll typically have a good reason to be!. If anyone's telling me to get over it, it's due to mercury in scorpio paranoia, and not aqua moon!. Although they are square!.!.!.!.

EDIT: Lol:-) Yeah, there he is again, huh!?Www@Enter-QA@Com



The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007 enter-qa.com -   Contact us

Entertainment Categories