Can this cancer and leo friendship last?!
Question: Can this cancer and leo friendship last!?
I am a leo girl very interested in this cancer female i met 2 weeks ago!.Of course we are lesbians lol but anyway!.I met her we hit it off really good!.My cancer lady tells me last week that she wants to take me on a weekend trip to maryland!.Im like ok ill go!.Then a few days later she tells me that her godson is having a christinning at a church and what I think she should do!.Im like do what you gotta do!.Then i tell her "i think your gonna hurt me!.Then my cancer lady says"why would i hurt you,im like i dont know i just dont want to get hurt!.Then she says dam you make it seem like were already in a relationship and that she hates feeling pressured!.Then she goes on to say maybe she should go by herself to maryland!.Im like dam all that cause i said i dont want u to hurt me!.wow!.So now because i made that statement she hasnt called me in two days!.I said what i said cause i thought maybe she was lying!.Maybe i should fall back and wait for her to call me!.im confused i really like her!.please helpWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I'm Cancer, my best friend is a Leo!. Granted, we're not lesbians, and I'm not sure I understand the dynamics of that type of relationship but I will give you the best insight I can!.
Leo and Cancer communicate differently!. Cancer is cautious and extremely reserved, and we like to keep our thoughts to ourselves!. Not because we're sneaky, it's because we're afraid of rejection!. A Leo, says what they mean and generally means what they say!. It seems though that in this case, you failed to tell her WHY you're afraid she's going to hurt you, and it may have been a little bit premature for you to say it in the first place!. Your Cancer could still be assessing what it is she wants from the relationship and you seem like you're already in the relationship!. See what I mean!? Cancer needs more time than that!. You could try to explain what happend and what's going on in your heart and head!. A phone call telling her that you're sorry if you made her feel awkward, but you have been hurt before and now you're just a little bit insecure about getting out there again and you're looking out for yourself!. I don't think there's a Cancer alive that wouldn't understand those feelings---we get the same feelings too, it's just that we don't say them outloud!. Tell her you've been played in the past and you have trust issues, and tell her you didn't mean to pressure her!. Say that you hope the invitation to Maryland is still out there because you like her first and foremost as a friend and you enjoy her company and would like to know her better!. If she's the same kind of Cancer that I am, she will be receptive to that and you can work it out!. I wish you luck, and I hope I helped you!. I will star this so you can hopefully get a lot of insight and opinions!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Leo and Cancer communicate differently!. Cancer is cautious and extremely reserved, and we like to keep our thoughts to ourselves!. Not because we're sneaky, it's because we're afraid of rejection!. A Leo, says what they mean and generally means what they say!. It seems though that in this case, you failed to tell her WHY you're afraid she's going to hurt you, and it may have been a little bit premature for you to say it in the first place!. Your Cancer could still be assessing what it is she wants from the relationship and you seem like you're already in the relationship!. See what I mean!? Cancer needs more time than that!. You could try to explain what happend and what's going on in your heart and head!. A phone call telling her that you're sorry if you made her feel awkward, but you have been hurt before and now you're just a little bit insecure about getting out there again and you're looking out for yourself!. I don't think there's a Cancer alive that wouldn't understand those feelings---we get the same feelings too, it's just that we don't say them outloud!. Tell her you've been played in the past and you have trust issues, and tell her you didn't mean to pressure her!. Say that you hope the invitation to Maryland is still out there because you like her first and foremost as a friend and you enjoy her company and would like to know her better!. If she's the same kind of Cancer that I am, she will be receptive to that and you can work it out!. I wish you luck, and I hope I helped you!. I will star this so you can hopefully get a lot of insight and opinions!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I know how you feel we have rapidly the feeling that we might be hurt and we also can be to pushy, I guess when you told her that your think that she will hurt you that it was pushy to her!. Maybe you should call her or write a note, email and tell your feelings!. I have Cancer friends and they never hurt me they are sensetive people!. But i wish you good luck and hope that everything will be alright!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
go by her personality not her sun sign!. it sounds like you're defensive!. you pushed her away, hurting both of you, making excuses, instead of giving her and a friendship/relationship a chance!. don't assume someone will hurt you until they give you a good reason!. you probably have no chance with her now, but call and see!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
This can be solved without astrology to be honest!.I say call her!.You could have hurt her feelings!.Tell her what you told all of us!.Tell her why you said what you said and that your sorry!.Moving on bear in mind that astrology is not just the sun but all the planets!.The sun shows our creative energy and how we express ourselves but its the moon that shows how we feel secure and it shows our sub-concious predisposition!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
wow thats a hard one!.!.!.she seems defensive and sort of impatient !.!.!.maybe something else is going on that she isnt telling you about!.!.!.who know but you didnt do anything wrong!.!.call her and simply ask her not right away but a litt;le after a few min of convo!.!.!.then if she continues to be on defense or something you may have to distance yourself from her!.!.!.
i am a cancer female by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i am a cancer female by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You're the Leo!. You're in charge!. Embrace it! No matter what the circumstances are or what they will be!.!.!.!.the LEO is the one that has the ultimate last say!. The Leo isn't the King of the jungle (or the zodiac) for nothing!.
Embrace it, and tred gently!. Just go with the flow (which is hard for LEOs to do)!. Just try to enjoy it and see where it takes you!.
Good Luck, Sweetie!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Embrace it, and tred gently!. Just go with the flow (which is hard for LEOs to do)!. Just try to enjoy it and see where it takes you!.
Good Luck, Sweetie!Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you are following the stars for advice on who should be your friend, you will never be satisfied with any answer!.
YOU control your actions, nothing more!.
If you want to be friends, be friends!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
YOU control your actions, nothing more!.
If you want to be friends, be friends!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Talk to her!. Tell her how you feel and maybe she feels the same way!. Be direct and it may make things better between you two!.
Good luck & hope I helped :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Good luck & hope I helped :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
send her a note about your feelingsWww@Enter-QA@Com
In essence, this combination is usually very good!. Leo's huge heart will soon forgive the moody outbursts that Cancer can display from time-to-time!. Thus, the Cancer partner will feel a little more at ease around Leo and probably allow his or her Leo mate to run things!.!.!.or at least let him or her think he or she is in charge!. In return, Leo will appreciate the attention of the Cancer partner and this relationship can easily achieve longevity as long as Cancer can dismiss the feeling of neglect that is sure to surface on occasion while Leo is out running the world!.
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