How good are you at cutting yourself off from emotional pain?!
Question: How good are you at cutting yourself off from emotional pain!?
What are your sun, moon, Venus and Mars signs!? How good are you at cutting yourself off from emotional pain!? Examples of this are when a relationship ends, when someone hurts your feelings, when something really dramatic happens that will cripple you if you don't let go somehow!?
Me:
Sun in Cancer, moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Virgo!. I can cut myself off if I really try, but it isn't easy---it takes more effort for me not to feel something, and even if I do cut the pain off to the point where I am no longer crippled by it, it is always there in the back of my mind and in the pit of my stomach and I can draw it back up at any given time!. I guess I choose when and whether or not I will wallow and for how long!. Are you good at controlling this factor!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Me:
Sun in Cancer, moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Virgo!. I can cut myself off if I really try, but it isn't easy---it takes more effort for me not to feel something, and even if I do cut the pain off to the point where I am no longer crippled by it, it is always there in the back of my mind and in the pit of my stomach and I can draw it back up at any given time!. I guess I choose when and whether or not I will wallow and for how long!. Are you good at controlling this factor!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
yep!. i cut myself off from that person!. become distant, but then i keep evaluating why and all e reasons, justify why i should cut this person off!. but then again, takes quite sometime for me to totally not feel anything, when i do feel nothing and i see this person, i can't help but feel a little resentment!. but i convince myself with all e reasoning crap that its nothing much to fret over anyways and then move on!. and then at e end of e day, it really doesnt bug me anymore then i would wonder y on earth i spend so much time on it!.
haha sorry if i digressed!. hope i answered ur qns :)
Sun - capricorn
moon - libra
venus - sag
mars - ariesWww@Enter-QA@Com
haha sorry if i digressed!. hope i answered ur qns :)
Sun - capricorn
moon - libra
venus - sag
mars - ariesWww@Enter-QA@Com
Nope considering I am a double water sun moon, also saturn and pluto and mars in water also, I cant cut myself from emotional pain, being a water sign, I must experience it to grow!.!.!.I know its painful and annoying at times!.!.!.but I am used to them really!. I can be emotionally hurt and function just as fine in other aspects of life!.!.!.!.!.so I am with my favourite Taurus up there ( Archangel )Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wish I was good at cutting myself from emotional pain!.
Unfortunatley, that is not the case!. I am ALWAYS attached to people due to my moon in Cancer!. I get emotional and needy most of the time!. When relationship ends or someone hurts my feeling!.!.!.I get REALLY hurt!.!.but I am trying to be less sensitive because thats how most people usually are!. If they don't care for my love they DONT deserve it!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Unfortunatley, that is not the case!. I am ALWAYS attached to people due to my moon in Cancer!. I get emotional and needy most of the time!. When relationship ends or someone hurts my feeling!.!.!.I get REALLY hurt!.!.but I am trying to be less sensitive because thats how most people usually are!. If they don't care for my love they DONT deserve it!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
YES!.
If you think about it, there's actually no reason to cry or whatever!. Think about the whole situation and ask yourself if it's worth crying!. If it's too much, then yeah I'll go ahead and w/e!. But usually I stop feeling sorry for myself and relax!. I can go from sad to not feeling anything at all!.
Sun: Aries
Moon: Virgo
Venus: Taurus
Mars: AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
If you think about it, there's actually no reason to cry or whatever!. Think about the whole situation and ask yourself if it's worth crying!. If it's too much, then yeah I'll go ahead and w/e!. But usually I stop feeling sorry for myself and relax!. I can go from sad to not feeling anything at all!.
Sun: Aries
Moon: Virgo
Venus: Taurus
Mars: AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
I'm not that good in that, I get to attached to someone easily!.
However i have this friend and our friendship was very good from the start but that has changed now!. Lots of things happen but i felt attached to him, it took a long time to take distance to him a little bit!. I still have contact with him but i don't call sms him like i use to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
However i have this friend and our friendship was very good from the start but that has changed now!. Lots of things happen but i felt attached to him, it took a long time to take distance to him a little bit!. I still have contact with him but i don't call sms him like i use to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
sun: pisces
moon:sagittarius
venus:pisces
mars:cancer
i feel emotional pain so deeply that i am detached from it!. i observe my pain!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
moon:sagittarius
venus:pisces
mars:cancer
i feel emotional pain so deeply that i am detached from it!. i observe my pain!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I can cut myself off in an instant, though if my emotions involve people a lot of residual annoyance will remain,because I hate wasting energy on people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not goodWww@Enter-QA@Com
I have Mars conjunct Moon in 1st house Leo!. When the emotions are real and the pain is real, I cannot cut myself off from it!. I must experience the pain and work through it even if the entire world cannot see what I am going through!. Breaking dishes sometimes helps!. I usual manage not to let my pain show!. Leo Asc is very proud that way!. I used to try to bury things when I was younger!. I learned that it's easier to move on if I work through it first!.
The combo of Mercury retrograde and Mars hitting my Moon is making me relive or at least rethink emotional issues of my past!. Not pleasant but probably necessary somehow!.
A big theme in my life seems to be deciding what is good for me and deciding what to let go of!. Taurus NorthNode!. Scorpio South Node AND Pluto conj Sun wants to hold on no matter how bad the situation is!. Even when I am the one doing the ending which is usually the case there is part of me that doesn't want to let go!.
I've been in situations where something really dramatic happened that would cripple me if I didn't let go!. Letting go is sometimes done in stages!. Healing happens in stages!. Chiron is part of the answer!. I'm not even entirely sure how!. In the myth of Chiron, he lives with a permanent wound!. He functions and thrives and helps others is spite being "crippled"!. There is truth there!. I think most people have at least one really deep wound that the people they come in contact with on a daily basis are not aware of!. It's not always about "letting go"!. It is often about being aware and not letting it happen again!.
I get over it pretty easily when someone I hardly know hurts my feelings!. When someone who should know better does it, that's a different story!. I am often very good at cutting people completely out of my life!. But they have to do more than hurt my feelings a few times!.
Virgo Sun
Leo Moon
Virgo Venus
Leo Mars
Oh the drama! lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
The combo of Mercury retrograde and Mars hitting my Moon is making me relive or at least rethink emotional issues of my past!. Not pleasant but probably necessary somehow!.
A big theme in my life seems to be deciding what is good for me and deciding what to let go of!. Taurus NorthNode!. Scorpio South Node AND Pluto conj Sun wants to hold on no matter how bad the situation is!. Even when I am the one doing the ending which is usually the case there is part of me that doesn't want to let go!.
I've been in situations where something really dramatic happened that would cripple me if I didn't let go!. Letting go is sometimes done in stages!. Healing happens in stages!. Chiron is part of the answer!. I'm not even entirely sure how!. In the myth of Chiron, he lives with a permanent wound!. He functions and thrives and helps others is spite being "crippled"!. There is truth there!. I think most people have at least one really deep wound that the people they come in contact with on a daily basis are not aware of!. It's not always about "letting go"!. It is often about being aware and not letting it happen again!.
I get over it pretty easily when someone I hardly know hurts my feelings!. When someone who should know better does it, that's a different story!. I am often very good at cutting people completely out of my life!. But they have to do more than hurt my feelings a few times!.
Virgo Sun
Leo Moon
Virgo Venus
Leo Mars
Oh the drama! lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
cancer sun
aries moon
gemini venus
libra mars
it depends on how hurt i was!. some scars are there forever, no matter what!. nothing can change it!. these are deep, emotional, traumatic events that occurred throughout my childhood!. its a like this horrible memory, that i keep safely in a drawer but i just cant seem to get rid of it!. these memories, if i were to take it out today, it would still feel more or less the same, 10, 20 yrs plus back!. the only way of cutting my emotional pain, was to recognize it, to compartmentalize it and put it aside!. am i crippled by it!? only if i choose to be, i can make myself, cripple!. easily!.
as for cutting my pain, the only way i see of going around it, is by getting even and destructing the source of pain, which inevitably, i would also be the victim of self destruction!. so, in my life dictionary, i cant cut my pain!. but i can release it while it follows closely behind me in my shadows!. with that, i know where not to look back and where to look forward!.
hmm, a bit metaphorical!. hope its understood!.
p/s- great question, marina!Www@Enter-QA@Com
aries moon
gemini venus
libra mars
it depends on how hurt i was!. some scars are there forever, no matter what!. nothing can change it!. these are deep, emotional, traumatic events that occurred throughout my childhood!. its a like this horrible memory, that i keep safely in a drawer but i just cant seem to get rid of it!. these memories, if i were to take it out today, it would still feel more or less the same, 10, 20 yrs plus back!. the only way of cutting my emotional pain, was to recognize it, to compartmentalize it and put it aside!. am i crippled by it!? only if i choose to be, i can make myself, cripple!. easily!.
as for cutting my pain, the only way i see of going around it, is by getting even and destructing the source of pain, which inevitably, i would also be the victim of self destruction!. so, in my life dictionary, i cant cut my pain!. but i can release it while it follows closely behind me in my shadows!. with that, i know where not to look back and where to look forward!.
hmm, a bit metaphorical!. hope its understood!.
p/s- great question, marina!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm pretty good at controlling my feelings MOST of the time!. I'm excellent when it comes to break ups all of the time though!. After a few days of intentionally crying my eyes out, I'm always super positive and actually looking forward to moving on!. When someone hurts my feelings I pretty much shut them out and stop caring all together for the time being!. It hurts less that way!. The only time I'm a complete mess is when one of my pets dies!. My ferret died in my arms 3 years ago and I'm still heartbroken over it!. I've been that way with all of my pets!. I guess they're like my kids!. I can get like that when it comes to the end of friendships too if I've been friends with someone for a really really long time!. I hate that some people think that being able to cut yourself off from your feelings means that you're cold or unfeeling!. I think it's a defense mechanism that helps us handle things in an emotionally healthy way!. You can handle things better when emotions aren't always clouding up your judgement!. Besides, there are some people and situations that aren't worth crying over or even worrying about!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i'm a cancer sun with cancer rising, venus in gemini, moon in sagittarius, and mars in aries!. when i was younger i would get way too emotional for every tiny thing but i guess as i grew up and i had to go through so many obstacles i learned to become somewhat more "hard on the outside" and i learned to block off emotional pain!. i was actually very successful at it!.!.!.then i met a scorpio guy and he's been the only person whose been able to really get to me!. anyway its really weird because i often get emotional for very dumb things that other people most likely would not get emotional for but when i get REALLYY hurt (like if its something major) i guess i just dont wanna deal with it so i tend to block the pain and i end up acting very cold!. not a good habit =(Www@Enter-QA@Com
What emotional pain!!? I slave over no pain emotionally what so ever! Unless I see something suffering or die in person!. Then I have a terrible pain within me!.!.!. I can never forget it!.
Ever!.
I can still see it dying in my mind :[
But I do get over it after like a few hours!.!.!. but every time I think about it!.!.!.
-Anyways, thats the only thing that will hurt me emotionally!. Seeing something suffering or die!.
& I am a Vegetarian! -_-
That sight will never leave my mind!.!.!. the suffering!.!.!. dying!.!.!. it hurts me emotionally every time I think if something I've seen die!.
But only when I think about it :]
Sun-Aquarius [rising gemini]
Moon- Sagittarius
Venus- Sagittarius
Mars- Leo
I'm so firey haha!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ever!.
I can still see it dying in my mind :[
But I do get over it after like a few hours!.!.!. but every time I think about it!.!.!.
-Anyways, thats the only thing that will hurt me emotionally!. Seeing something suffering or die!.
& I am a Vegetarian! -_-
That sight will never leave my mind!.!.!. the suffering!.!.!. dying!.!.!. it hurts me emotionally every time I think if something I've seen die!.
But only when I think about it :]
Sun-Aquarius [rising gemini]
Moon- Sagittarius
Venus- Sagittarius
Mars- Leo
I'm so firey haha!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i don't know about cutting myself off, i,m pretty emotional and it takes time to heal after painful experiences, but i end up bouncing back in the end, people need to for their own benefit!. i read some advice from an elderly female psychologist who said 'don't keep a catalogue of old hurts', and some people seem to quite enjoy storing up what others have done to 'em and remember it like yesterday and act like the victim!. i work as a carer with elderly people and the unhappiest ones are the ones who are tense with bitterness, so i try to learn from that!.
but still, there are some things that will leave its mark on you, i will never forget how ill my daughter was with luekiemia 3yrs ago, and i don't know how i'd be now if she had'nt of survived, i'm just very grateful that she did!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
but still, there are some things that will leave its mark on you, i will never forget how ill my daughter was with luekiemia 3yrs ago, and i don't know how i'd be now if she had'nt of survived, i'm just very grateful that she did!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It totally depends on the situation and how emotionally attached I was to it in the first place!. If it involves love, and dealing with someone that is very close to me, then it is very hard for me to cut myself off from it!. I may do my best to rationalize it, and explain that there's no reason to be upset, but that doesn't help change the way I truly feel!. I often find that I do my best just admitting that the situation does upset me, and letting myself cry it out!. It's better than suppressing it and trying to keep a false image of strength!. However, I have never let my emotions get in the way of my success!. I still feel just as ambitious and willing to keep working towards my goal, no matter how hurt I am!. Sometimes it even inspires me!. So even if I am in pain, it doesn't cripple me!.
Sun in Libra, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Saggitarius, and Mars in LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com
Sun in Libra, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Saggitarius, and Mars in LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com