Does this scorpio really like me, or is he just trying to get in my pants?!
Question: Does this scorpio really like me, or is he just trying to get in my pants!?
he liked me all year!.but i had a boyfriend when we first met!. However, i've never been attracted to anyone the way i was attracted to him (instantly)!. he told me he felt the same way when he first saw me!. He spent all year trying to find out my name and get my number!. When we first taked on the phone his convo was great! i'm a gemini and that's a major plus in my book!. he told me(exact words)-" from now on you don't have to worry about any other guy besides me!.we don't have to talk about your past with them, is what i mean because i really want to be in a relationship with you for a long time!. i feel like you're my soulmate!." but in person he's just so!.!.!.quiet!.!.and observant, i guess!. i figure if you like someone you would talk to them in person/public, right!? he just always wants to be alone with me!. We got in an argument in which he told me we couldn't date anymore, but then in 2 days he contacted me again!. i told him i would not have sex with him, and he said that that was fine!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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wow this situation is confusing as heck!.!.such mixed signals your getting!.!.those lines"your my soulmate" is BS by the way please dont be stupid too fall for it, sure it might sound nice but someone who truly wants to get to know you will take their time and move slow and not rush like this!.!.with lines of that sort!.
He does like you!.!.after all he did stick around!.!.and tried
to contact you and find out info about you but its hard to tell if someone wants a serious rel from someone who wants only sex!. Its good you made it clear to him!.!.no sex!.!.and stand by it so he sees your not like other girls and you yourself should be very observant of him!.!.
try to feel him out!.!.because only you will know how he truly is!.!.not us !.!.were over the net and we dont know the entire situation!.!.
so take it very slow and i guess if he gets to know you more and wants to be serious he will be!.!.if he wants only sex he will stop talking to you after he realizes your not budging!.
goodluck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He does like you!.!.after all he did stick around!.!.and tried
to contact you and find out info about you but its hard to tell if someone wants a serious rel from someone who wants only sex!. Its good you made it clear to him!.!.no sex!.!.and stand by it so he sees your not like other girls and you yourself should be very observant of him!.!.
try to feel him out!.!.because only you will know how he truly is!.!.not us !.!.were over the net and we dont know the entire situation!.!.
so take it very slow and i guess if he gets to know you more and wants to be serious he will be!.!.if he wants only sex he will stop talking to you after he realizes your not budging!.
goodluck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you have to think about it this much, then he's not worth your time!. You're spending your time worrying!? Not good!. He just wants the goods!. I'd move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Follow your Intuition!Www@Enter-QA@Com
see if he is staring at you in a weird way (and WHERE he stares) if so then hes probably gonna try to do it with you and you should ignore himWww@Enter-QA@Com
PANTS BABY!Www@Enter-QA@Com
he really likes you-Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he has true feelings for you, he will keep pursuing you even though you don't have sex with him!. If it is just a sexual thing to him, eventually he will move on!. If I was in your shoes, I would get physical only when *I* felt comfortable with that and not hold out expectations either way!.
If he hangs around after you get physical, then possibly there is more!. These guys can be very deceptive when pursuing sex and say exactly what you want to hear, and they size you up well!. Being the silent type in person is not unusual though!. Still waters run deep!
In my experience though, when they *really* want a woman for keeps, they want her body *and* soul forever!. And they don't take no for an answer!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he hangs around after you get physical, then possibly there is more!. These guys can be very deceptive when pursuing sex and say exactly what you want to hear, and they size you up well!. Being the silent type in person is not unusual though!. Still waters run deep!
In my experience though, when they *really* want a woman for keeps, they want her body *and* soul forever!. And they don't take no for an answer!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh, he DEFINITELY love you!. Scorpians sometimes shows love in actions more than with words!. Honestly, I don't think the reason why he did that is because he wants to get in your pants, but more because he wants to pay attention to that beautiful person he love so much!. I think he meant it, whatever he told you!. Believe him!.!.!.especially with someone as honest and devoted as a scorpian when it comes to love!. They can be observant because they like to solve mysteries and secrets!. He might find it hard to say things, but you have to know that deep down, he loves you!. Wouldn't you prefer someone who would only tell you the truth when he actually say something to you, rather than someone who tells you lie to only get your interest!? Wouldn't you prefer it when you ask him if he loves you, and he would honestly say it (and never would say it to any other girls) than a guy who would say "I love you" to basically any girl who asks!? Maybe the reason why he contacted you is because he doesn't want to let you go, because he really likes you!. People gets in fights!.!.!.and do things wrongly out of anger!. But it is after the anger how this person reacts that is golden!.
But if you truly believe that he only did it to get in your pants, than follow your guts!. Only you (and him) would truly know!. Not anybody else!.!.especially us strangers!.
Give him some time to prove to you, if you have the patient!. Let time prove itself!. If he still sticks around without the "benefits" then, he truly do love you!. Sometimes people do feel really emotional about things and just can't expresses it!. Love is really complex and hard to follow through!.
May the best wishes be with you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
But if you truly believe that he only did it to get in your pants, than follow your guts!. Only you (and him) would truly know!. Not anybody else!.!.especially us strangers!.
Give him some time to prove to you, if you have the patient!. Let time prove itself!. If he still sticks around without the "benefits" then, he truly do love you!. Sometimes people do feel really emotional about things and just can't expresses it!. Love is really complex and hard to follow through!.
May the best wishes be with you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
he DEFINITELY wants to really date you just how you want!.
without getting to your underwear!.
serious!.
if he really told you that, for sure he's serious!.
i'm a scorpio too!.
my boyfriend thinks i talk alot (he's an aqua, so he likes that) when i IM, and keeps on saying i'm peculiar in person!.
maybe too quiet!.
we're still virgin!. i never got to his pants altough i love him!.
sex isn't ALWAYS the intention of a scorpio!.
a good kiss can satisfy us!.
so i bet you can bet on him!.
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without getting to your underwear!.
serious!.
if he really told you that, for sure he's serious!.
i'm a scorpio too!.
my boyfriend thinks i talk alot (he's an aqua, so he likes that) when i IM, and keeps on saying i'm peculiar in person!.
maybe too quiet!.
we're still virgin!. i never got to his pants altough i love him!.
sex isn't ALWAYS the intention of a scorpio!.
a good kiss can satisfy us!.
so i bet you can bet on him!.
good luckWww@Enter-QA@Com
How u gonna ask a !? and then not want to know the truth!?
I am going to give u my opinion, without the chaser!.!.!.
This boy's lines to u over the telephone seem to be too sweet, too soon!. See what happens, and don't give it up - no way!!! Scorpios r supposed to b real devious bastards!. My mother is a Scorpio and she is a whore who cheated on my loving and devoted father for their entire waste of a life together - almost 35 years!.
Good luck!.
:)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am going to give u my opinion, without the chaser!.!.!.
This boy's lines to u over the telephone seem to be too sweet, too soon!. See what happens, and don't give it up - no way!!! Scorpios r supposed to b real devious bastards!. My mother is a Scorpio and she is a whore who cheated on my loving and devoted father for their entire waste of a life together - almost 35 years!.
Good luck!.
:)Www@Enter-QA@Com
oh this is confusing to me !. but its hard to tell usually because guys will suprise u even when u think it's not about the sex is almost always is!. if he choose to leave after being with you for a month or so considering you've had sex with him he still will!. you just have to trust your intuitions and observe him just as much as he observe u and hope that's it's not all about the sex!.Www@Enter-QA@Com