How do you cope with someone who is jealous and posessive? and whats you sign?!

Hey Cancer!. I would suggest ending that relationship, before this guy gets even more possessive & doesn't leave you alone!. I would personaly tell anyone who is trying to control me to back off, and I would see to it that I make myself clear!. I don't like those cligy type of people, and I am my own boss!. Owning a person is just wrong, and people who do it are weak!. That is the truth too, possessive people are weak and want to dominate other people, and they like doing it to boy/girlfriends!. So be strong and defend yourself, and don't be nice if you want this person to go away!. What are you going to do!? Stay for the next 2 or 3 years being miserable!. I don't think so! Assert yourself and be blunt!. Just say that it is not working and you like your space!. I mean now too! Say it! Then ignore this guy, and don't pay any attention to him!. Ron I know that you are a cancer and like to comfort others, but sometimes you have to give to yourself & make yourself happy!. Who cares about him and his feeling if you don't want him!? Drop him!. I also know cancers are tough people when they need to be and you probably are anyway!. Being alone is not that bad, and I am sure you will find another person who treats you like a human!. Always look to the brighter side of things, and there are better people out there!. So go find them!. I hope that helps and that I gave you something to think about=)Www@Enter-QA@Com

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You don't, life is too beautiful and too short to waste time with an insecure person!. And don't even dream that loves changes somebody, because it does not!. You are wasting your time!. Freedom is a God given right, we are also capable of knowing right from wrong and it's up to the individual, not to the other person, it doesn't matter how jealous or possessive they are, you are still doing what you want unless you have a weak mind! By the way I am a beautiful Sagittarious!Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Sounds like you are being obligated to do what he likes rather than it being something that you want to do! That's not good!. If you don't want to talk on the phone every time he calls then don't and if his watching you like a hawk is making you uncomfortable then tell him!.

Successful relationships are made up of compromise!.!.!.if he is not able to make some adjustments in order for there to be happiness on both sides then this is not a relationship that you will want to maintain!.

good luck!

Set me free SadgieWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I would disappear from him for a while; absolutely no contact, because, hey, nobody owns me!!
And then during that time, have some self reflection!. Why do you think he's doing this - is it your fault or his- and then decide if that is the lifestyle you want!.

Eventually you'll know if he's worth it - as in the pros outweigh the cons - and then you can decide whether to move on or stay!.

also, it helps to communicate with him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I dumped every guy like that-couldn't handle that,I don't like to feel like someone doesn't trust me!.married to a great guy now who's not like that,thank God :)

sun-Cancer,moon-Virgo,rising-Capricorn


I saw your extra details!.!. not letting someone go even though you know you are not into it is really going to hurt them more in the long run!. I know it sucks to hurt someone,but think about how much worse it will be the longer this goes on!.!.!.just let him down easyWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I dump them!. Clear and simple!.

I don't like jealousy or possessiveness in people!. I'm not a possession so why treat me as such!? I prefer to think that people are better than to resort to petty jealousy and materialistic behaviour!.


(I know, I sound cruel don't I!?)


Scorpio sun, Sagittarius rising, Gemini moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

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i cant deal with that, if its on a minimal level then its reasonable but if the guy watches over like a "hawk" then he needs to kinda leave u a lone a bit!. tell him that u need space and how u feel if he understands then great, if he doesnt then dont even bother!.

aquarius sun
libra rising
cancer moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I wouldn't deal with that!. Everyone needs their space I don't care who you are!. I would tell him look you are smothering me and I need a break!. If you smother something too much it suffocates!. Just remember that! Good Luck to you!Www@Enter-QA@Com

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i could cope with it because i am slighly jelous and possessive myself!. but if they were over the tope i would slowly start to think they are a loser!.

some overly jelous is too insecure within themselves to have a happy relationship with

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CANCERIANWww@Enter-QA@Com

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My best friend's other best friend is EXACTLY like that!.!.!.I'm friendly around her but she gets on my freakin nerves

I hate repeating this but here I go again!.!.!.
Aries Sun
Virgo Moon
Aries Rising

EDIT!.!.!.I think you should just come out and tell him that!. OR confront him about his little habit and tell him to back off!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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possessiveness is one thing trying to own someone is another, personally i dont and wont deal with that i need someone who understands me and my boundaries also what makes me happy!.

taurus sun
gemini moon
scorpio risingWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I would use the same statement as YA gives to us

"Taking a breather"!.!.!.!.

Tell him that you have asthma and need room to breathe or you can die :))

Tell him you have jealous-o-phobia!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Who knows, it might work!.

Left-T!.!.!.LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com

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In other words, he's insecure!.

Nobody's perfect, so you have to decide whether you want to put up with it!.

The vast majority of healthy people wouldn't!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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If I were in your shoes I would not date a person like that!. I would date a person like Left-T and Amiri!. Tell him the same excuse that YA gives us that you have to take a breather for a while!. I am a Leo!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I don't cope with anyone like that because I break off the relationship the minute a person acts like that!.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon and Gemini Rising!.

What sign are you to play victim!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

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no one can bother being jealous or posessive around me!.

I win hands down!.

Lol!. :DWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I wouldn't!. I need room to breathe so I'd dump them!.

-Sag-Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I just wouldn't date someone like that!.


gemini, leo moon, scorp risingWww@Enter-QA@Com

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