I feel like the Gemini.....?!
Question: I feel like the Gemini!.!.!.!.!.!?
I am dating is lying to me or hiding something!. I ask him nicely if he is or if he wants to tell me something he just says no every time!. I don't want to be too pushy about it, being I know how much gemini's hate to be doubted, not trusted or worst questioned!.!.!.I feel he is doing something yet wont tell me because he thinks it will be over between us(which it might)!. Yet why keep me around if he has another!? Am i back up!? someone to fal back on when his "flings" arent working out!? How can I figure out if he is lying to me or at least seeing other women!.!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Hey darling,
I can understand you are very anxious as to what is happening and also what is running in your gemini's male mind!.
But darling you really need to remember and I say you really need to remember that everyone expresses themselves differently, at different paces and also you have some who will come out and tell you what is happening!.!.!.also someone who are rather reserved or will feel it is not much of an issue to express!.
Now in terms of geminis they are very curious people and they often hold back that feelings due to:
1!. trying to analyse, work out and understand the person
2!. fear and anxiety of changes in feelings, also trying to better understand what is happening in them!.
Overall, also it is very hard for them when things like this happen because their two twins being in them will conflict, and they will debate!.!.!.as in so many things will arise to their mind and they will debate until they come to a satisfying and comfortable conclusion for themselves and awareness!. In this case this is where you may sense during this period hot/cold, fickly behaviour and confusion!.
Really darling please do not beat up yourself, the more I gain an understanding, socialise and research with them!.!.!.it helps me to better understand them!. To be honest the sad thing about the twins being in gemini is the fact their is likely to be confusion in debating and fighting for inner peace as a conclusion whereas they will feel comfortable and happy in their minds and in their life!. People who are a gemini they do not do this with intention but unfortunately unintentionally their mind will go through times whereas thinking will cause them to close up and not express as they are trying to figure out, better understand, research and discover!. Outwardly this will be shown to you as them being curious, thinking rather deep whereas in most cases you are unlikely to get through to them, confusion, withdrawn as they are really on an adventure or travel in their mind to find an understanding and what is compatiable with them!.
Basically their mind is always at work and you being with that person it will cause you to be affected in doubting, thinking negative, not trusting as you feel they are hiding something from you!. But in most cases they are really in the process of investigating and trying to come to an inner peace as a conclusion inwards!.
The best thing I can say to you is instead of trying to interfere in the prcocess of his thinking or what may seem to you as him being a bit withdrawn!. Please and please do not try to give up but instead try to better understand and support him!. Try not to make him know you sense his withdrawal and that he is keeping from you because this will cause anxiety in him and cause him to think negatively that you will leave him which his other twin in him will fight negatively and say to him that you do not understand him!. A gemini individual whether male and female does not need someone to be authorian, suffocate, push them to a confide place whereas they will feel they are in the hot and tight spot whereas they have no room to breathe and spread their wings!. If you try to push in getting things out of him in likely cases he will withdraw more from you as he feels you do not understand him and are trying to take away his freedom from him, are invading his privacy (although to others and from another perspective when you are together you feel you should be able to share all with everyone!. But unfortunately when someone is on their travels mind-wise or are searching for answers!. The best thing you can do is be with them along their travels for answers than trying to block or sit on their wings from allowing their search to continue for self-satisfication!.)!. My dear I know you may be stressed with thinking and might be doubting negative too!. But you are right gemini's hate to be doubted, not trusted or worst questioned!. So the best thing you can do is support them and give them room to be breathe; still be the bubble, chappy, happy and exciting person you are; and enjoy the time you spend with them without touching a nerve, pressuring, and persuading which might feel like force to them!.!.!.!.they need your hand, support and care in their travel into their mind!. They do not need someone to challenge, dispute and argue about their ways because instead they will take it as if they are not accepted, no-one will understand them!.!.!.driving them to think negative and the relationship being affected in a negative way!.
I know you are in a relationship with him!.!.!.!.but the best and the real bonus you can do is also be his bestfriend!.!.!.in times of need, especially when he is going through things like this!.!.!.be that best, greatest friend that will stand by him through the bumpy rides, the person he can lean on, the person he will remember is always there for him, respects, cares and loves him!. Most importantly understands him not only as a lover but as a friend!. That is the greatest thing anyone can do and that will take you far in a relationship with him!.
It is all about understanding, give space, not interrupting, disputing, disrupting what one wants to figure out and if withdrawn and does not want to state but handle themselves!.!.!.instead just hold his hand, bringing exciting without drawing back to what is your doubt he is keeping from you; show your love, care and understanding!. If he wants to be by himself or does not want to say anything please darling do not be upset but instead just give him the respect by just giving him time and instead talking the positive and where his is negative trying to make him happy through words and expression but not dwelling or digging at what could be from his part!. As if you do dwell or digg at things he will take it as a negative and just think you are nagging darling when in fact your intentions is showing your concern and care for him, and the want to understand!.!.!.also smoothen possible concerns over!.
I HOPE YOU HAVE ROUGHLY GOT AN IDEA OF WHAT I HAVE STATED AND HOPE I 'VE BEEN OF HELP DARLING AND IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO TALK TO ME!. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK AND PLEASE TRY TO LOOK AT THE POSITIVE & BETTER WORKS OF THINGS ;-)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I can understand you are very anxious as to what is happening and also what is running in your gemini's male mind!.
But darling you really need to remember and I say you really need to remember that everyone expresses themselves differently, at different paces and also you have some who will come out and tell you what is happening!.!.!.also someone who are rather reserved or will feel it is not much of an issue to express!.
Now in terms of geminis they are very curious people and they often hold back that feelings due to:
1!. trying to analyse, work out and understand the person
2!. fear and anxiety of changes in feelings, also trying to better understand what is happening in them!.
Overall, also it is very hard for them when things like this happen because their two twins being in them will conflict, and they will debate!.!.!.as in so many things will arise to their mind and they will debate until they come to a satisfying and comfortable conclusion for themselves and awareness!. In this case this is where you may sense during this period hot/cold, fickly behaviour and confusion!.
Really darling please do not beat up yourself, the more I gain an understanding, socialise and research with them!.!.!.it helps me to better understand them!. To be honest the sad thing about the twins being in gemini is the fact their is likely to be confusion in debating and fighting for inner peace as a conclusion whereas they will feel comfortable and happy in their minds and in their life!. People who are a gemini they do not do this with intention but unfortunately unintentionally their mind will go through times whereas thinking will cause them to close up and not express as they are trying to figure out, better understand, research and discover!. Outwardly this will be shown to you as them being curious, thinking rather deep whereas in most cases you are unlikely to get through to them, confusion, withdrawn as they are really on an adventure or travel in their mind to find an understanding and what is compatiable with them!.
Basically their mind is always at work and you being with that person it will cause you to be affected in doubting, thinking negative, not trusting as you feel they are hiding something from you!. But in most cases they are really in the process of investigating and trying to come to an inner peace as a conclusion inwards!.
The best thing I can say to you is instead of trying to interfere in the prcocess of his thinking or what may seem to you as him being a bit withdrawn!. Please and please do not try to give up but instead try to better understand and support him!. Try not to make him know you sense his withdrawal and that he is keeping from you because this will cause anxiety in him and cause him to think negatively that you will leave him which his other twin in him will fight negatively and say to him that you do not understand him!. A gemini individual whether male and female does not need someone to be authorian, suffocate, push them to a confide place whereas they will feel they are in the hot and tight spot whereas they have no room to breathe and spread their wings!. If you try to push in getting things out of him in likely cases he will withdraw more from you as he feels you do not understand him and are trying to take away his freedom from him, are invading his privacy (although to others and from another perspective when you are together you feel you should be able to share all with everyone!. But unfortunately when someone is on their travels mind-wise or are searching for answers!. The best thing you can do is be with them along their travels for answers than trying to block or sit on their wings from allowing their search to continue for self-satisfication!.)!. My dear I know you may be stressed with thinking and might be doubting negative too!. But you are right gemini's hate to be doubted, not trusted or worst questioned!. So the best thing you can do is support them and give them room to be breathe; still be the bubble, chappy, happy and exciting person you are; and enjoy the time you spend with them without touching a nerve, pressuring, and persuading which might feel like force to them!.!.!.!.they need your hand, support and care in their travel into their mind!. They do not need someone to challenge, dispute and argue about their ways because instead they will take it as if they are not accepted, no-one will understand them!.!.!.driving them to think negative and the relationship being affected in a negative way!.
I know you are in a relationship with him!.!.!.!.but the best and the real bonus you can do is also be his bestfriend!.!.!.in times of need, especially when he is going through things like this!.!.!.be that best, greatest friend that will stand by him through the bumpy rides, the person he can lean on, the person he will remember is always there for him, respects, cares and loves him!. Most importantly understands him not only as a lover but as a friend!. That is the greatest thing anyone can do and that will take you far in a relationship with him!.
It is all about understanding, give space, not interrupting, disputing, disrupting what one wants to figure out and if withdrawn and does not want to state but handle themselves!.!.!.instead just hold his hand, bringing exciting without drawing back to what is your doubt he is keeping from you; show your love, care and understanding!. If he wants to be by himself or does not want to say anything please darling do not be upset but instead just give him the respect by just giving him time and instead talking the positive and where his is negative trying to make him happy through words and expression but not dwelling or digging at what could be from his part!. As if you do dwell or digg at things he will take it as a negative and just think you are nagging darling when in fact your intentions is showing your concern and care for him, and the want to understand!.!.!.also smoothen possible concerns over!.
I HOPE YOU HAVE ROUGHLY GOT AN IDEA OF WHAT I HAVE STATED AND HOPE I 'VE BEEN OF HELP DARLING AND IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO TALK TO ME!. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK AND PLEASE TRY TO LOOK AT THE POSITIVE & BETTER WORKS OF THINGS ;-)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Did you caught him before!? whats really making you feel like this!?
Don't bother asking a Gemini for truth, because if we want to--we're so good at lies and convincing its the truth that we can probably beat a polygraph test!.
If you have reason or caught him before, then find out and catch him red handed!. Theres no other way!.
But if you never caught him before and this is just a feeling/hinch!.!.!.you need to tell him or he'll run off either way eventually!. We feel that its annoying when people don't trust us if we're true to them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't bother asking a Gemini for truth, because if we want to--we're so good at lies and convincing its the truth that we can probably beat a polygraph test!.
If you have reason or caught him before, then find out and catch him red handed!. Theres no other way!.
But if you never caught him before and this is just a feeling/hinch!.!.!.you need to tell him or he'll run off either way eventually!. We feel that its annoying when people don't trust us if we're true to them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well you're obviously doubting him for a REASON!. It really depends on how serious the relationship is!.!. Most likely there is something going on if you're having strong feelings there is!. I can never get anything out of my bf(Gemini) Unless i find out for myself, He will NEVER tell me if he did something wrong!. So asking him will not help, It will just bug him!. That is really all the advice i can give you!. Hope i helped!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Darling, go with your instincts!. These men ALWAYS has more than one woman at a time!. I believe it's so they're never alone--really sad!.!. Save yourself, cut him off--now!. He's a waste of your time!. You should be the only woman he's into!.
Signed,
A fellow Sag ladyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Signed,
A fellow Sag ladyWww@Enter-QA@Com
im in ur same position!. my boyfriend is a gemini too!. i wish i had answers for that thoughWww@Enter-QA@Com
The fact that you feel he is hiding something from you tells me that you DO NOT trust him!. There has to be a reason you don't!. Women's intuition is a wonderful thing!. Don't ignore it!. Just drop the subject!. If it still nags you, start investiagting!. follow him but don't let him know!. Guys are rather dumb, and so he will leave a trail in some way or another!. If you think you're just being a bit paranoid, then drop it!. Things have a way of coming to light at just the right moment!.!.!.Good luck! ( ;Www@Enter-QA@Com
OMG!!! He was born on the same day my backstabbing Gemini Xbest friend was born on(if I only told you details!!!)My daughters dad is a Gemini and he wanted me to name my dauhter Rachael which was the name of the girl he was cheating on me with at the time and now married to 10 years later!. Deffinately keep your eyes open to this guy!. Gemini's are sneaky and always have a hidden agenda! FAKE! FAKE FAKE! Always go with your intuition-it will take you far! I'm a SAGI too, and I'm all about Honesty and a trooper for justice, and I will never trust a Gemini as unfair as it may seem!Www@Enter-QA@Com