Did you ever have someone talk about you behind your back just because you rejec!
Question: Did you ever have someone talk about you behind your back just because you rejected them!?
I'm a cancer and there was this guy that i met in the chatroom who i sent my picture to and he thought that i was cute and this and that,and he used to call me all the time,but i told him that i only liked him as a friend,and he went behind my back and told the other guys in the chatroom not to talk to me,and that i was weird and ugly (which is not true),and when i told him about it he acted like it was my fault,and told "me" to leave him alone when he was the who used to call me constantly and even left a nasty message on my cell!.
Has anything like that ever happened to you,and how did you deal with it and what is your sign!?
also give me your opinion about why you think he acted that way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Has anything like that ever happened to you,and how did you deal with it and what is your sign!?
also give me your opinion about why you think he acted that way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Hi Ron E -
That sort of thing happened many times to me when I was single!. It is slander, and it happens when people get rejected, and they want to lash back at you!. It really hurts to know that people are that evil!.
All I can say is that be glad that it didn't happen in real life or where you work or other place that is important to you - like it happened to me!. also, you are not with him - aren't you glad!?
I believe in Karma - he will pay the price for his misdeeds, eventually!.
Edit: Oh, I am so sorry Ron E!. Maybe if those people can be so easily influenced by him, they weren't worth your friendship in the first place - just a thought!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
That sort of thing happened many times to me when I was single!. It is slander, and it happens when people get rejected, and they want to lash back at you!. It really hurts to know that people are that evil!.
All I can say is that be glad that it didn't happen in real life or where you work or other place that is important to you - like it happened to me!. also, you are not with him - aren't you glad!?
I believe in Karma - he will pay the price for his misdeeds, eventually!.
Edit: Oh, I am so sorry Ron E!. Maybe if those people can be so easily influenced by him, they weren't worth your friendship in the first place - just a thought!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why would you be in a random chatroom flirting it up, giving your number out, and then going BACK to the same chatroom!?
AHAHAHHA
Stick to real life!.
By the way, who cares what people on the net think about you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
AHAHAHHA
Stick to real life!.
By the way, who cares what people on the net think about you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
wow, that sounds kinda pathetic for the fact that it was in a chatroom and didnt happen to you with people you actually knew!.!.and yea, ppl talk about me all the time because they're jealousWww@Enter-QA@Com
Interesting!.!.!. no, but don't let this guy get to you!. Cancers are sensitive :(Www@Enter-QA@Com
Are u gay!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am really sorry about that Ron!.
I think it happens to most people really to more or a less degree!.
Yes I am sure it must have have happened to me but was not aware or it!. But one experience was quite a while back (real life) with a guy I got on extremely well for a few months!. So well that we really shared A LOT!. And argument comes!.!.!.!.!.!.blah blah blah!.!.and the guy went on telling everything I told him in our group what I said in trust!.
The feelings ranged from extreme anger, feeling humiliated!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the whole range of the rainbow!. What we talked about was strictly under confidence!. I am afraid I am not one of those who can always keep their cool and just "ignore" and pretend " I don't care like"!.
What do do !? I do not know!.!.!.!.it is very humiliating and teaches you to be really careful afterwards about whom you trust and do not trust!.
I did not retaliate and do the same though!.!.!.!.!.!.although ohhhhh!.!.!.SO VERY TEMPTING it was just one quarter of a button away to push further!. I kept my mouth shut!. After a while you forget but it sure is a lesson!. I really lashed out with him in private; he laughed back but I would not stoop as low as doing the same thing anyway!. Kind of figured out that really people would not trust this person anyway : he was the pure example of somebody you could not trust!.!.!.!.!.
By the way it was one of those famous "Aquarians" but it was only one so would not put a label on all!.
I have always been very private despite appearances and to have your trust betrayed is really really!.!.!.!.!.is there a word !?
Other than that!.!.!.!.!.!.real bitchiness at work behind my back!.!.!.!.!.but thank goodness the people who stayed on my side proved to be reliable in the long term!.
I have had my very very "gasp ! I can't believe that person did that" times!.
I trust very few people actually!. And I would be very careful about the internet thing!. Too many people give a facade!.
I stick with real life people who know me and with whom trust has built gradually!.
I have to say I tend to gravitate towards older/more mature people than me!.!.!.!.!.!.they tend on the whole to be more trustworthy!.
When you got to be careful about people in real life, you know what they look like, you know lots!.!.!.!.what does it say about people behind a computer eh !? Even more careful !Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think it happens to most people really to more or a less degree!.
Yes I am sure it must have have happened to me but was not aware or it!. But one experience was quite a while back (real life) with a guy I got on extremely well for a few months!. So well that we really shared A LOT!. And argument comes!.!.!.!.!.!.blah blah blah!.!.and the guy went on telling everything I told him in our group what I said in trust!.
The feelings ranged from extreme anger, feeling humiliated!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the whole range of the rainbow!. What we talked about was strictly under confidence!. I am afraid I am not one of those who can always keep their cool and just "ignore" and pretend " I don't care like"!.
What do do !? I do not know!.!.!.!.it is very humiliating and teaches you to be really careful afterwards about whom you trust and do not trust!.
I did not retaliate and do the same though!.!.!.!.!.!.although ohhhhh!.!.!.SO VERY TEMPTING it was just one quarter of a button away to push further!. I kept my mouth shut!. After a while you forget but it sure is a lesson!. I really lashed out with him in private; he laughed back but I would not stoop as low as doing the same thing anyway!. Kind of figured out that really people would not trust this person anyway : he was the pure example of somebody you could not trust!.!.!.!.!.
By the way it was one of those famous "Aquarians" but it was only one so would not put a label on all!.
I have always been very private despite appearances and to have your trust betrayed is really really!.!.!.!.!.is there a word !?
Other than that!.!.!.!.!.!.real bitchiness at work behind my back!.!.!.!.!.but thank goodness the people who stayed on my side proved to be reliable in the long term!.
I have had my very very "gasp ! I can't believe that person did that" times!.
I trust very few people actually!. And I would be very careful about the internet thing!. Too many people give a facade!.
I stick with real life people who know me and with whom trust has built gradually!.
I have to say I tend to gravitate towards older/more mature people than me!.!.!.!.!.!.they tend on the whole to be more trustworthy!.
When you got to be careful about people in real life, you know what they look like, you know lots!.!.!.!.what does it say about people behind a computer eh !? Even more careful !Www@Enter-QA@Com