Why is he acting this way? (virgo)?!
Question: Why is he acting this way!? (virgo)!?
My virgo exboyfriend that broke up with me,( but wanted to stay friends and I told him I couldn't go backwards so we couldn't JUST be friends )is being a real jerk now!.
At first, he was being really really nice to me and paying me lots of attention when I just needed to stay away from him!. Now he avoids ME and is acting like I'm the one that broke up with HIM!.
We work together ( but work doesn't know, that why he ended it because FIVE MONTHS LATER he decides he is afraid they will find out, but he doesn't know THEY THINK HE"S GAY!.) so I'm forced to see him very very often deal with him like nothing ever happened!.
I haven't been mean to him, I just avoided him ( and looked really nice everyday)!.
I wasn't a jerk to him, when I had a right to, why is he being a jerk to me!?
I'm a cap, by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
At first, he was being really really nice to me and paying me lots of attention when I just needed to stay away from him!. Now he avoids ME and is acting like I'm the one that broke up with HIM!.
We work together ( but work doesn't know, that why he ended it because FIVE MONTHS LATER he decides he is afraid they will find out, but he doesn't know THEY THINK HE"S GAY!.) so I'm forced to see him very very often deal with him like nothing ever happened!.
I haven't been mean to him, I just avoided him ( and looked really nice everyday)!.
I wasn't a jerk to him, when I had a right to, why is he being a jerk to me!?
I'm a cap, by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
So is this the same Virgo you were talking about earlier!? Well, I guess that changes things a little!. It makes it harder when emotions are involved, but if you two are grown adults, you will be able to work this out!.
Sounds like his pride is hurt!. This passes with time!. But what in the world do you MEAN they think he's gay!?! Why would they think that!? Is he!? Is he bi or something!? That kind of thing doesn't really happen unless the person is gay!. Hmm!. Don't know what to think of that one!.
Seriously, if he really cares about you, he shouldn't worry about work finding out!. You two would just keep it professional at work, and no one would know!. That's what you have to do!. Can't he just do that!?
But to answer your question about him being a jerk; I just think his pride is hurting or broken!. With kindness on your part, he can get over that!. Maybe you could try being kind to the man!. Just my thoughts!. Good luck to you!
edit: Okay, I see what you're saying!. People were getting suspicious of you two!. Here's what I got to say about "other people"!.!.!.**** them! When it comes to the caring and love that you two had, you shouldn't have let "other people" get in between that!. "Other people" weren't in the relationship, but "other people" always love to try to break up relationships!. Then when you're broken up, where are those "others"!? Are they there taking his place!? "Other stupid *** people" don't matter!. If you just keep it professional at work, none of the "other people" would know anything, regardless of what they think!. Nosey *** people will always get what they deserve!.
edit: Ahh, notice you say "for awhile"!. You want him back, I know you do!. And once he gets over his hurt pride, I bet you two will make a cute couple!. Aww!. Just guessing!. Good luck to you!
edit:Sorry it took so long!. I see some signs of a good man here!. He's focused on work, and wants to keep clean there!. That's really admirable!. And now I feel like a Dingbat because I didn't pick up that he's your boss!. Now it makes more sense!. Honey, if you two really care for or love each other, destiny is going to take over!. I know you don't want people to know, and believe me, I know why!. If you had worked at my last job; OMG! You are right in your privacy!. I can tell that you really care Ashley Kitty, and I know what that feels like!. You two are probably very good together, so I'm excited for you when you can finally be together again!. Don't forget the Law of Attraction!. If you have true desire, the universe will do the work!. God Bless!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sounds like his pride is hurt!. This passes with time!. But what in the world do you MEAN they think he's gay!?! Why would they think that!? Is he!? Is he bi or something!? That kind of thing doesn't really happen unless the person is gay!. Hmm!. Don't know what to think of that one!.
Seriously, if he really cares about you, he shouldn't worry about work finding out!. You two would just keep it professional at work, and no one would know!. That's what you have to do!. Can't he just do that!?
But to answer your question about him being a jerk; I just think his pride is hurting or broken!. With kindness on your part, he can get over that!. Maybe you could try being kind to the man!. Just my thoughts!. Good luck to you!
edit: Okay, I see what you're saying!. People were getting suspicious of you two!. Here's what I got to say about "other people"!.!.!.**** them! When it comes to the caring and love that you two had, you shouldn't have let "other people" get in between that!. "Other people" weren't in the relationship, but "other people" always love to try to break up relationships!. Then when you're broken up, where are those "others"!? Are they there taking his place!? "Other stupid *** people" don't matter!. If you just keep it professional at work, none of the "other people" would know anything, regardless of what they think!. Nosey *** people will always get what they deserve!.
edit: Ahh, notice you say "for awhile"!. You want him back, I know you do!. And once he gets over his hurt pride, I bet you two will make a cute couple!. Aww!. Just guessing!. Good luck to you!
edit:Sorry it took so long!. I see some signs of a good man here!. He's focused on work, and wants to keep clean there!. That's really admirable!. And now I feel like a Dingbat because I didn't pick up that he's your boss!. Now it makes more sense!. Honey, if you two really care for or love each other, destiny is going to take over!. I know you don't want people to know, and believe me, I know why!. If you had worked at my last job; OMG! You are right in your privacy!. I can tell that you really care Ashley Kitty, and I know what that feels like!. You two are probably very good together, so I'm excited for you when you can finally be together again!. Don't forget the Law of Attraction!. If you have true desire, the universe will do the work!. God Bless!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have no idea what's wrong with them because I've been involved with a Virgo before and he acted pretty much the same!. He was nice to me in the beginning, but in the end he was a complete @sshole and ignored me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wondered when he'd start that!. You avoided him, now hes mad!. Typical guy really!. I would just keep avoiding him!. Let him look like the jerk he is!.*Www@Enter-QA@Com
im virgo
telling a virgo u dont want to be a their friend its like a stab in the heart!. virgo tend worry about everything, and what image and reputation they have in others eyes!. if virgo finds out that someone its criticizing them or gossiping about them behind their back, they wont sleep for months figuring out why that person dont like them!. virgo hates to be ignored, its better off to tell them straight forward than just ignoring them, because they wonder and ponder in their heads why are people ignoring them!. it would have been better off if u told him why u didnt want to be his friend (with details) virgos like to know why!. next time try this: dont ignore him, say hi in a nice and warm tone, but when he asks u why, u just tell him that u are not a mean person and that u never were so u just being urself, u dont have to be close friends, just hi and bye kinda friend!. about capricorns, i cant say anything cause ive never met one, or at least i have but dont know if they are a capricorn or not!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
telling a virgo u dont want to be a their friend its like a stab in the heart!. virgo tend worry about everything, and what image and reputation they have in others eyes!. if virgo finds out that someone its criticizing them or gossiping about them behind their back, they wont sleep for months figuring out why that person dont like them!. virgo hates to be ignored, its better off to tell them straight forward than just ignoring them, because they wonder and ponder in their heads why are people ignoring them!. it would have been better off if u told him why u didnt want to be his friend (with details) virgos like to know why!. next time try this: dont ignore him, say hi in a nice and warm tone, but when he asks u why, u just tell him that u are not a mean person and that u never were so u just being urself, u dont have to be close friends, just hi and bye kinda friend!. about capricorns, i cant say anything cause ive never met one, or at least i have but dont know if they are a capricorn or not!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Here is some advice and then you decide!. Weigh the pros and cons and forget the people at work!. If he values the work people more than you, its because this guy is hiding something!. What is so wrong if the others know!?
I gather you are a sideline for him!. Period!. Now, if he stops picking you apart, he doesn't care enough to make you his!. Virgos dissect things to make them function more efficiently!. If he doesn't bother to make you the best-running mate he can !.!.!. well, prepare for your pink slip!.
When Virgo starts to pick on aspects of yourself that cannot be changed without the help of surgery or whatever, you know he's lost all affection for you!.
From another aspect, Virgo needs a predictable routine to feel comfortable!. He's not one to flit around from woman to woman and you should have noticed that!. Virgo prides himself on being reliable, and will feel regret if he lets you down!.
Virgo needs to think things over carefully, and will likely over-analyze the workings of this partnership!. Okay, he will find faults for sure, but if he feels he can help you improve, your shortcomings are not a dealbreaker!.
Only after careful scrutiny will he come to a decision!. And if he wants in, he will go all the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I gather you are a sideline for him!. Period!. Now, if he stops picking you apart, he doesn't care enough to make you his!. Virgos dissect things to make them function more efficiently!. If he doesn't bother to make you the best-running mate he can !.!.!. well, prepare for your pink slip!.
When Virgo starts to pick on aspects of yourself that cannot be changed without the help of surgery or whatever, you know he's lost all affection for you!.
From another aspect, Virgo needs a predictable routine to feel comfortable!. He's not one to flit around from woman to woman and you should have noticed that!. Virgo prides himself on being reliable, and will feel regret if he lets you down!.
Virgo needs to think things over carefully, and will likely over-analyze the workings of this partnership!. Okay, he will find faults for sure, but if he feels he can help you improve, your shortcomings are not a dealbreaker!.
Only after careful scrutiny will he come to a decision!. And if he wants in, he will go all the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think the whole problem is you!. He just didn't want to be with you but still wanted to be your friend, but then you had to be a girl about it and went, "Oh well ehhh blah blah blah going backwards ehhh!.!.!.!." So, he still wanted to be friends with you but you were still being dumb and avoiding him so now he's just accepted that you don't want to be friends and you wonder why!
You know what would save you a lot of time!? Stop thinking about it! He probably doesn't think about it at all for the most part, and yet you're obsessing about it and apparently letting it affect your job!.
In any case, you being a Capricorn and him being a Virgo has NOTHING to do with ANYTHING!. If you really do believe that, maybe you should also think about the fact that the dates for astrological signs were calculated a few hundred years ago so the actual signs are about 2 months off now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You know what would save you a lot of time!? Stop thinking about it! He probably doesn't think about it at all for the most part, and yet you're obsessing about it and apparently letting it affect your job!.
In any case, you being a Capricorn and him being a Virgo has NOTHING to do with ANYTHING!. If you really do believe that, maybe you should also think about the fact that the dates for astrological signs were calculated a few hundred years ago so the actual signs are about 2 months off now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com