Marriage help! i am a cancer, married to a gemini. so you can easily see the con!
Question: Marriage help! i am a cancer, married to a gemini!. so you can easily see the conflict!.!?
being such, i need emotional security!. he offers none, since he constantly torn between his twins!. i am annoyed all the time, since i can look around at his 1,000 uncompleted "projects" which clutter up my much-needed comfort zone- "my home"!. he is sloppy, has forgotten my birthday 7 years in a row (he even forgot christmas, and we have children) im done yelling, crying ect!.!.!.it does nothing!. he wants sex!!! thats funny!!! i have no sex drive whatsoever!. i am sick of being depressed since my emotional needs are no where in the picture!. he wont sit still for conversation, so thats out!. i feel alone to do everything; pay bills, maintain home, rear kids, maintain contacts, ect!. if i dont, he wont, and we end up in a hole!. i cant deal with 2 husbands, since i cant stand either of them!. HOW CAN I GET THRU TO A GEMINI FROM A CANCER POINT OF VIEW!?!?!?!? can i!? or am i doomed to carry his load on my shell forever!? i just want to feel like i am part of a team, then i will gladly perform all tasksWww@Enter-QA@Com
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Yikes! I completely feel your pain!. I'm a Cancer and I dated a Gemini (five years ago) and this same guy wants to marry me today!. I could see the signs of laziness way back then!. He is all talk and no action!. He is very intelligent, but just won't follow through with anything that isn't a delusion of grandeur! I couldn't stand it!. Even when he talks to me today he is so supportive of me becoming an attorney but doesn't have any real plans for himself (outside of acting)!. He always says that he'd love it if I became an attorney and funded some of his "film projects!." The only projects I've seen are poorly filmed puppet shows on youtube!. It's pathetic!.
There is nothing that attracts me to this guy because I can see that I'd be doing everything myself!. I can do everything myself BY MYSELF so why would I want a grown a** dependent!? He's crazy to think I'd want to sign up for that!. I personally, don't feel that these two signs are very compatible!. However, you are married to the guy so you should probably go to marriage counseling to see if the relationship can be salvaged!. Far be it from me to give you advice that would lead to a divorce, but I do think you should demand that your needs be met, as well!. You can't carry the load alone!. That, in and of itself, is so damaging!.
I'm sorry things aren't going well in your marriage!. Maybe it's just a seven-year itch!. I hope it merely boils down to that and nothing more!.
God bless you both!Www@Enter-QA@Com
There is nothing that attracts me to this guy because I can see that I'd be doing everything myself!. I can do everything myself BY MYSELF so why would I want a grown a** dependent!? He's crazy to think I'd want to sign up for that!. I personally, don't feel that these two signs are very compatible!. However, you are married to the guy so you should probably go to marriage counseling to see if the relationship can be salvaged!. Far be it from me to give you advice that would lead to a divorce, but I do think you should demand that your needs be met, as well!. You can't carry the load alone!. That, in and of itself, is so damaging!.
I'm sorry things aren't going well in your marriage!. Maybe it's just a seven-year itch!. I hope it merely boils down to that and nothing more!.
God bless you both!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Astrology is actually outdated truth be told, since things change over the years!. But anyways, you do have trouble with him!. Maybe try to have sex with him one night, make it fun, buy some toys, ask him what he wants to see you in!. Maybe once that starts getting some energy in your marriage he'll want to be part of the work too!. (:Www@Enter-QA@Com
I want to advise you but I'm not qualified!. I know exactly what you are going through and, despite the fact you don't know me from Adam, I totally sympathize and wish you all the love in the world hunny!. I hope someone else on here can be of more help!. You have got your work cut out for you with this! xxxWww@Enter-QA@Com
You have real problems, though not unique ones!. But astrology sheds no real light on them and does nothing to aid understanding; it only adds a layer of complexity without which you could think more clearly!. It's nonsense!.
See a marriage counselor; that might actually help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
See a marriage counselor; that might actually help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
leave him!.!.!.cuz hes obviously taken advantange of you and sick of how needy you are, your not a chase anymore, boring, and cant stand when your being emotional 24/7Www@Enter-QA@Com
i really think a marrage counsellor would be alot more helpful than astrologyWww@Enter-QA@Com