How to charm a Cancer male?!
Question: How to charm a Cancer male!?
I'm a (typical) Aries female (Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Pisces and Gemini ascendant) and he is a Cancer, with a Libra Moon!. How can I charm him (I already know to keep of the swearing and harsh comments)!.!.!.what does he want from me!? I know it's a bit wrong to start off with, but I really like him, and think he likes me!.!.!.!.
Oh and we're in an adult relationship!. I'm 26 and he's 30!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh and we're in an adult relationship!. I'm 26 and he's 30!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
My husband is a triple Cancer, and I am a triple Sagittarius!. (Both have our Sun, Moon, and Venus in those respective signs!.)
Here's my advice!.!.!.adore his mother!. Emulate her strengths when he needs your support!. If she has passed away and you can only know her through his stories, then ask him to talk about her, and take mental notes!. (His mother, or whoever was the nurturing parent, if his parents were non-traditional!.)
Metaphorically, Cancer/Crabs are hard on the outside and mushy on the inside!.!.!.for me this translates into my husband's need to have a safe place to recharge!.!.!.like a shell, again metaphorically!. Find out how your man likes to recharge, and then make it as important to you as it is to him!. In metaphor, find his shell!.
My husband goes fishing!. He's a sweet, lovable, emotionally stable man when he fishes regularly!.
I have blabbered on to show you how a tactless, insensitive horse, like myself, could catch a crab!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Here's my advice!.!.!.adore his mother!. Emulate her strengths when he needs your support!. If she has passed away and you can only know her through his stories, then ask him to talk about her, and take mental notes!. (His mother, or whoever was the nurturing parent, if his parents were non-traditional!.)
Metaphorically, Cancer/Crabs are hard on the outside and mushy on the inside!.!.!.for me this translates into my husband's need to have a safe place to recharge!.!.!.like a shell, again metaphorically!. Find out how your man likes to recharge, and then make it as important to you as it is to him!. In metaphor, find his shell!.
My husband goes fishing!. He's a sweet, lovable, emotionally stable man when he fishes regularly!.
I have blabbered on to show you how a tactless, insensitive horse, like myself, could catch a crab!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I can very well understand you problem ( though my sunsign isnt the same as yours) My male is a cancerian and i know his poisonous nature but within i know is a good human being and i love him dearly!. So far as i know cancerians are of the emotional kinds and they love their partners "doing what they want"!. Try and please him as much as possible!. Connect that emotional chord with him!. Try and ignore his angry outbursts as much as possible for you can be sure that he too loves you dearly :-) Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com
ARIES IS THE FIRE - SIGN SO U R FLAMBOYANT
CANCER IS EARTH SIGN SO HE IS A MAN OF DIGNITY AND PATIENCE!.
SO, IF U FOLLOW WHAT HE SAYS IN ADMINISTRATION,
NEVER LET HIM DO ANY WORK, BRING MODERN GOGGLES FOR HIM !.THESE ARE ENOUGH FOR A MONTH!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
CANCER IS EARTH SIGN SO HE IS A MAN OF DIGNITY AND PATIENCE!.
SO, IF U FOLLOW WHAT HE SAYS IN ADMINISTRATION,
NEVER LET HIM DO ANY WORK, BRING MODERN GOGGLES FOR HIM !.THESE ARE ENOUGH FOR A MONTH!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
get rid of your aries stubborness and natural controlling of situations and people and life in general, and let him control the situations and such!.!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
appeal to his emotions and support him build trust with himWww@Enter-QA@Com
have sex with himWww@Enter-QA@Com
ahem!.!.!.i was born on july 10!. sorry but i don't really believe in those things!.!.!.:DWww@Enter-QA@Com
Strawberryhelps hit the nail right on the head! That is exactly how I describe Cancer's myself!.!.!. hard shell on the outside to protect the soft inside, lol!. also remember that Cancer's are very moody and some say that their mood is influenced by the phases of the moon!. The ruling planet of Cancer is the moon so this is where this theory derives from!.
And also a correction on Meghdoot, Cancer's are water signs not earth signs!.
For some extensive reading if you're interested here are a couple of sites!.!.!.
http://songsdomain!.tripod!.com/zodiac/ind!.!.!.
http://mizian!.com!.ne!.kr/englishwiz/libra!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
And also a correction on Meghdoot, Cancer's are water signs not earth signs!.
For some extensive reading if you're interested here are a couple of sites!.!.!.
http://songsdomain!.tripod!.com/zodiac/ind!.!.!.
http://mizian!.com!.ne!.kr/englishwiz/libra!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Study him and you'll see:
http://www!.astrology-online!.com/cancer!.h!.!.!.
and here is your compatibility:
http://astrology!.shine!.yahoo!.com/astrolo!.!.!.
Aries & Cancer
When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting!. Aries is rash and brash while Cancer is sensitive and emotional!. Aries can certainly be emotional -- in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer!. Even though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating!. Aries, on the other hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness!. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful!. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal!.
Cancer is the Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self!. One great dynamic between these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they love!. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength and bravery, like a knight in shining armor!. Cancer also provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security!. Sometimes they might build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly possessive, which can really grate on independent Aries!. However, Aries can help by reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished!. Aries really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning!.
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon!. Mars was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge head-on!. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often internalizes emotions and feelings!. Cancer can have intense, feminine energy and Aries can help them learn to release it!. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle)!. Cancer tends to be sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life instead of always rushing on to the next thing!.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign!. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done!. Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries teaches Cancer to come out of their shells!. But Cancer can be emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water dampening Aries's enthusiasm!. Conversely, too much Fire can cause Water to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw!. Aries and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained!.
Aries and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs!. Both Signs are initiators, but they have to learn to cooperate!. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in charge through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation!. Cancer tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield, so the Crab may have to accept giving in!.
What's the best aspect of the Aries-Cancer relationship!? Once they realize they're on the same team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together!. Aries is out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back end!. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs an equal relationship!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
http://www!.astrology-online!.com/cancer!.h!.!.!.
and here is your compatibility:
http://astrology!.shine!.yahoo!.com/astrolo!.!.!.
Aries & Cancer
When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting!. Aries is rash and brash while Cancer is sensitive and emotional!. Aries can certainly be emotional -- in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer!. Even though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating!. Aries, on the other hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness!. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful!. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal!.
Cancer is the Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self!. One great dynamic between these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they love!. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength and bravery, like a knight in shining armor!. Cancer also provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security!. Sometimes they might build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly possessive, which can really grate on independent Aries!. However, Aries can help by reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished!. Aries really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning!.
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon!. Mars was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge head-on!. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often internalizes emotions and feelings!. Cancer can have intense, feminine energy and Aries can help them learn to release it!. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle)!. Cancer tends to be sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life instead of always rushing on to the next thing!.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign!. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done!. Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries teaches Cancer to come out of their shells!. But Cancer can be emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water dampening Aries's enthusiasm!. Conversely, too much Fire can cause Water to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw!. Aries and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained!.
Aries and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs!. Both Signs are initiators, but they have to learn to cooperate!. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in charge through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation!. Cancer tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield, so the Crab may have to accept giving in!.
What's the best aspect of the Aries-Cancer relationship!? Once they realize they're on the same team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together!. Aries is out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back end!. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs an equal relationship!.Www@Enter-QA@Com