Are Cancers grudge holders?!

Somewhat, yes!. Cancers are known to live in the past sometimes, they are very emotional (water sign) and remember easily any hurt anyone put in their lives!. In fact, when they remeber a hurtful moment, they have a tendancy to FEEL those emotions again!.
But, on the flip side, they do forgive due to their motherly nature!. Just like a mother, they accept people!.

Now, if your looking for a sign that holds grudges, try a cancer's polar opposite: capricorn!. In fact, they do the opposite of what a cancer does!. They forget/ "block out" emtions and simply don't forgive!.

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Nope!. I don't hold grudge forever!. If it's a problem/incident that's resolved, I'll just ignore it!. Otherwise!.!.!.

If I get mad, if someone pisses me off or if they do something bad against me, I will retaliate legally or with justice in it!.

Just recently and currently going on, my friend's wife thought that I am having an affair with him!. Both of them are Virgoes!. Like omg!!?!!?

She kept harassing me through text messages and even in my Friendster -Something alike Facebook, Myspace-!.

So I made a police report because she was being racist and I'm bringing her to court for harassment and defamation!.

An eye for an eye!. The guy begged me not to go to the Police cos it will worsen the situation!. I'm sorry but I don't care about the lady!. She's got issues!.

I'm going to put her life on the edge!. :)

Oh and it's not grudge!. It's justice!. PAYBACK TIME! :DWww@Enter-QA@Com

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No!. Cancer is a motherly sign!. Mothers always forgive!. =P If anything, Cancer's forgive too easily!.

EDIT: I'm a cancer I'd know lol! We are stuck in the past and do not forget things but we eventually forgive!. If we do hold a grudge it's unless you did something unforgivable !.!.!.!.!.

EDIT AGAIN: also!.!.!. watch out for hypocrisy!.!. We say we forgive but that doesn't mean we ever forget!. We will forgive but if you try something once again we will hold it against you like a machete and we will repeat to you exactly what you had done before!.


I agree with Curiosty!.

To Libra!.!.!.: Ok!.!. wouldn't you get mad also if you sent me a message and we were friends and I didn't reply but I had time to change my display picture which had nothing to do with my studies!?!?!? I would get mad at you also it's not only cancers!. Geez!. Even aquarius's!Www@Enter-QA@Com

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well, we have these huge claws and they are soooo good for holding onto things we, we hold onto anything, friends we had in elementary, past loves, and grudges!. Yes we will forgive, no we will never forget!. Will we bring up the incident if need be yes we will!. Just because we forgive does not mean that we do not hold grudges!. You can be friendly to some one and nice to someone and all the while be thinking i will never forget what you did to me!. But then you have to ask yourself, why are Cancers this way!? I think we are this way because deep down we all fear rejection, we will put on good social faces and all the while be scared on the inside!. If we forget for one minute what caused us pain, we will experience it again and again!. That is why Cancers usually appreciate and like history, because if we don't remember it and learn from it we will be doomed to repeat it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Yeah, once I'm mad I'm forever mad!. Until you do something to make it up!. But that's at the moment, after a while, probably forgive!. Just don't fight with them, talk to them, make them understand!. Don't walk away!.
Well, at least thats for me!. Either that, or the cancer needs to learn how to resolve things!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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After reading all the above i gotta say thank God I'm a Libra coz i'm so easy going and forgiving!. My Cancer friend got upset because i didn't reply to his email for a couple of weeks!.So when i told him i was busy with studies he said "Well u weren't too busy to change your display picture!. Wtf!? We aren't even in a relationship and barely know each other and although i flirted with him,as Libras do i wouldn't make such a big deal out of yet!. I'm not being absurd,sure i could have written a quick email but i simply wasn't in the mood and i'm a major procrastinator!. I find Cancers way too rigid & hard to comprehend as people!. There are exceptions however depending on their astrological makeup!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I forgive a lot of crap but I never forget it either!.!.!.certain life changing events I shall strike back but I do not throw the first punch, you have to hit me first before I react,then start worrying cause you got my full attention!. I'll leave it at that!. Listen to "kuh!.!." she's got it right!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Je-taime is SO on point! I can be exactly like that!. I NEVER forget!. But I can be forgiving!. But yeah I won't forgive those who do things that are unforgivable!.
There are a couple people I know once I get my own place if I don't have to i'll never talk to them ever again,or see either!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I guess it's true!. I didn't know it was because I was a Cancer!. I've had grudges against a few people for many years!. These are very bad people and I will never "just get over it"!. Cool, now I can just blame it on "being a Cancer"!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I'll agree we do!. We are pretty intelligent also!. Lover's of family and home!. Can be relaxed!.!.!.!.it's going to take awhile though!. Cancers are givers,don't ever argue with one! Sorry, but you'll lose!Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Oh yes! I'm a cancer!. While we are an empathetic sign, don't ruin our trust!. Once you've burned a Cancer, we may eventually forgive, but we NEVER forget!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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YES, they hold grudges forever and ever!.!. they can't let go of the past!. once they're ur enemy, they might be ur enemy for life!.

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We forgive we just never forget
We don't get mad
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no,my july 3 husband is always willing to "take the high road",as he calls it,and give people another chance!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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