I confronted my Aquarius guy about his distant behaviour...good or bad thing?!


Question: I confronted my Aquarius guy about his distant behaviour!.!.!.good or bad thing!?
I am somewhat feeling guilty right now!. We've only been together a bit over two months now but I needed some kind of sign as to exactly where I stand with him!. We're together yes but it feels like its me and me alone sometimes!. He'll go days and not call and even then, is non chalant and generally unemotional about anything!. That makes it hard for me to gauge my stance with him!. I know he cares though!.!.

Beside the aloofness, there is a lack of solid communication with us and so I wrote him an email(impersonal I know but I'd approached him before trying to let him know but I tend to get really nervous in any kind of confrontation!.!.then forget exactly what I need to say!.!.so I wrote him instead) explaining how I thought and felt the relationship only mattered when HE wanted it to and I felt I was being taken for granted for not saying anything etc!. It was pretty long :/ but I had to!. Problem is now though, that was yesterday morning!.!.and still no response whatsoever!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Follow your intuitions!. Advice from other people who aren't even in the situation is unneeded!. If he's a jerk, move on!. If he's nice, go for him!. It's that simple!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

well aquarius's are known to need their space!. there very distant!. however the fact that he hardly calls you and hasnt called you yet is a little weird!. do you really need to be with a guy that only causes you stress!? just a thought!. if i were you id let him be!. i know its tough but its the only way for you to eventually be happy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Oh god you're the same age I was when I briefly dated this aqua guy!. In fact, he was 5 years older than me!. It was a nightmare!. I went through same thing you went through!. He only wanted to see me when it was convenient for him!. Do yourself a favor find someone that will let you know where you stand with them!. Instead of leaving you confused all the time!. Now I'm in a relationship with a man I don't have to wonder if he loves me or not!. I know and feel he loves me :)!. Btw, what's you alls venus sign!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

This might have been the wrong move, especially after only 2 months of dating!. Aquarius don't like to feel tied down, they are Air, they want to flow free!. If you're confronting him about something he can't change (like his inner nature), then that is your problem and you either need to accept the way he is, or find somebody who will better suit your needs!. Aquarius is the most romantically clumsy sign, they aren't made for relationships!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I can definitely help you here!. I too am a fire sign (Sagittarius) and the guy that I have been after is Aquarius!. Although we need our freedom as fire signs, the Aquarius man quite rivals us in his need for freedom!. We just need to FEEL and occasionally be free, but these guys almost always want to be free!.

Romantically speaking, Aquarians are quite lost and misunderstood!. They don′t often let you know what they′re feeling, they′re not a sign that needs constant contact with their partner, they take it as a given that the other person understands how they are, and shy away from those big discussions like the email that you′ve sent to your boyfriend!.

First thing- don′t take Aquarius′aloofness as them not caring!. They are trusting and friendly and for them it is a given that you understand where you stand with them!. They usually care a lot more than they let on, but are quite unwilling to deal with matters of the heart!. If you push them into confronting situations like this one, via email or whatever, they really will avoid it!. Don′t write anything else, just wait until you see each other again!. Let him feel free for a bit, let him miss you!. Discuss it in person when you get together!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I was on & off with an Aqua man for about 5 yrs!. & he always seemed more concerned about his friends or basically anything not concerning us than he was with me!.!. pretty much the whole relationship was me trying to make him want me more because he never seemed overly concerned whether I was there or not!.I'm a Cancer & that didn't work for me!.!.!.in the end,he still didn't seem to care when I ended it for good!. I finally moved on & I'm so happy I did :)Www@Enter-QA@Com



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