Do you find Cancer's to be forgiving?!


Question: Do you find Cancer's to be forgiving!?
As a Cancer, I can tell you that I may forgive on the surface, but deep down in my heart of hearts, I don't!. Not only do I not completely forgive, I never forget---and once I have been slighted, there is a trust that is broken and may never come back!. I can't stand all of this "Cancer's are clingy and willing to forgive anyone because their relationships are the only things that matter" talk, because frankly, it isn't true!. We do have a sense of pride about us!. We love unconditionally, and when that is betrayed or taken for granted---we don't readily or easily forgive---if we can find it within to forgive at all!. If we say "you're forgiven", it is usually to let YOU off the hook, not ourselves!. I know the psycho babble tells us that forgiveness isn't about the offender, it is about the one offended, but with us---it's not true!. We'll let you think you're off the hook, but in reality, everythng we trusted and thought to be true about you is gone and we're starting from scratch!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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girl dont worry about that just be yourself! your like that for a reason coming from another cancer!. i dont forget neither lol, and i rarely forgive and can easily cut people off!. use that intuition of yours majority of the time it is right no matter what others say!. it only takes me one time to learn from a mistake especially with other people and very rarely will that happen again and i mean very rarely!!! I have found for some reason that people tell us there most intimate details about there life lol without us even asking!. people trust us for a reason because we dont tell other people because it is not none of there business cant say the same about some other signs though (taurus, capricorn, gemini, aries, leos) they sure can talk about other people business lol from personal experience!. the only other sign that i have come to trust are scorpioes and virgoes from experienceWww@Enter-QA@Com

I, too, am a Cancerian and I have held grudges for a long long time!. It's just who we are!. We can't change that fact!. If we try to change, we feel so damn uncomfortable!. People trust me with their most intimate details and I have yet told anyone else about their lives!. Just be yourself and don't let anybody change you!. You are a good person!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I am a true Cancer!. I've held grudges for long periods of time!. Once even about 10 years!. Cancers tend to live in the past!. Cancers are also hyper-sensitive to a fault!. They have an outer shell but super soft are inside!. But I think that's why you say that you never forget!. Too sensitive!.

I'm trying to let go of my cancerian ways!. Trying to be more present!. It's a very slow process!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

hell no cancers do not forget!.my mum doesn't even on the surface!.she keeps on bringing back the same topic again and again!.it seeems that cancers are in the habit of digging up graves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

i agree also!. id squatch it for now!. but later it would come back!. id want to forgive!. but i cant!. its liek its impossible!. because everytime i think about that something id get madWww@Enter-QA@Com

ya i'm a cancer
and i agree with you
if that's what's thought then thats annoying cuz its definetly not true about me
like u said we may forgive on the outside!.!.!.but we never forgetWww@Enter-QA@Com

Several in my family are Cancer, and I've found them to be grudge holders even over petty issues, for very long periods of time, maybe forever!. It's to a point of mental instability!. They cry like babies and whine when someone treats them the way they treat people!.

They brag about how good they are at sex and how satisfied their husbands are, how good their cooking is, how pleasing they are to men, etc!.

Now I work around five Cancer sun signs and they are exactly the same way!. So I've come to think this is just the way Cancer sun sign is!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

VERRRY TRUE!Me being a cancer myself with a scorpio ascendant and mars in taurus!.!.i NEVER forget,there maybe rare acassiona i may forgive,but never ever forget!.I have a photograph memory!.It 's a good thing and soemtimes its a bad thing!.Because if i have a memory thats bad,i'll "feel" EXACTLY like i did back then!.They say us cancers whip a dead whorse even if its 30 yrs latter,yes we just might but we know not to look others faults and move on like other ppl do,that get burned AGIAN by that same person!.We're smart enough not too!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com

My mom is a Cancer and has said many times that she can hold a grudge like no other!. However, when she's hurt me in the past she never apologizes!. She more or less just tries to cover her own @ss by making excuses but she expects a prompt apology when someone wrongs her!. I'm not sure whether that's a Cancer trait or not because my stepsister is a Cancer and is completely the opposite way!. She's very quick to apologize if she hurts someone's feelings and her sensitivity isn't just one-sided!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree!. I am cancer!. I am not clingy i am more of a loaner, i don't trust people, i don't believe until i see!. I do hold grudges i will not forget if you wronged me!. I am so moody at times i scare myself i don't want to be the homebody i want to go out and have fun!. But find myself volunteering to be baby sitter or the one who holds your hair while you puke I play it safe!. I'm like a emotional roller coaster i am up and down and all around!. I hate you one day and love you the next!. I need help lolWww@Enter-QA@Com



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