Why do I get such hate from earth signs?!
Question: Why do I get such hate from earth signs!?
I'm a gemini, and I'm always being disliked and even hated for no apparent reason by earth signs!. I try to be nice as best as I can, yet they still say I'm being rude and that I won't listen to them!. The thing is, I'll try to listen, but If i don't agree, I will speak my mind, and then they say I'm being rude!.!. I don't want to be rude to anyone really!.!.!. They also say that I think too highly of myself!.!.!. no matter what I say, they say im too arrogant, and I don't even see this arrogance, yet all the other sign elements never seem to mention this about me!. It's ONLY the earth signs!.
Why are they like this towards me!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why are they like this towards me!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I would look at that opposition between Pluto in the first and Jupiter in Taurus in the DC!.
Your Jupiter is also square the moon in Leo on the Apex!. That could flare things a bit !
You also have mercury conjunct sun in Gemini opp!. Saturn/Uranus and Neptune in!.!.!.!.Capricorn was it in the 3rd !? !? blockage (Saturn) irritatability(Uranus) and Neptune !.!.!.maybe too much expectation and some kind of idealisation and the feeling of being let down!.
You have 2 very powerful "signals" that you might send to people ( hey!.!.!.!. I do not know you in person!.!.so am careful here) That AC in Scopio and with Pluto can be pretty intimidating!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and controlling sometimes !?
also you have a powerful moon in leo right on that cusp!.!.maybe some people get an overbearing feelng from you and once you open your mouth : Sun + mercury in Gemini and maybe push others' buttons!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.retaliation from the earth signs !?
You also have Moon opp Mars ( pisces !?) in fourth!.!.!.so you could be quite mild once people know you but your feelings could get over the top with those aspects!.
Cardinal houses are the most important and most noticeable on the outside!.
Maybe too many challenges affecting your planets in earth!.!.!.!.!? What you do not acknowledge in yourself >>>> sooner or later you get it back from outside !.
I do not have your chart in front of me so am going with what I remember and peeling a chart like an onion could take a long time and much effort as you know!. Not an easy task to do especially when you do not have the person in front of you!.
But heck!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.who is perfect right !? I am not !!
You can't be liked by everybody; trying to please everybody is just impossible!.
Just be grateful that you have some people with whom you will get along with!. I agree with Janet!.!.!.!.!.Fire signs are like that : a good confrontation and then we shake hands afterwards unlike some other signs which brood and brood and play passive-aggressive!. Fire signs will tell you to your face!.!.usually!. ( reading Janet made me smile because she is just like that !)
Ohhh!.!.!.going to eat now!.!.might come back later :-)
Remember too!.!.!.we don't stay the same!.!.!.we evolve through time, experiences etc!. As we grow older we learn more and more about ourselves, accept our faults,limitations, try our best - sometimes , sometimes not - to better ourselves!. I bet that in 10 years time you will have changed quite a bit!.
"arrogance": I bet that is your leo moon right on the cusp speaking!. It can be your enemy and your greatest ally!.
Afterall pride - in moderation- is what pulls ourselves up and walk away with dignity!. You need it somewhat for your own self esteen as long as!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.it is not too negative ( as leo can be at times too)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your Jupiter is also square the moon in Leo on the Apex!. That could flare things a bit !
You also have mercury conjunct sun in Gemini opp!. Saturn/Uranus and Neptune in!.!.!.!.Capricorn was it in the 3rd !? !? blockage (Saturn) irritatability(Uranus) and Neptune !.!.!.maybe too much expectation and some kind of idealisation and the feeling of being let down!.
You have 2 very powerful "signals" that you might send to people ( hey!.!.!.!. I do not know you in person!.!.so am careful here) That AC in Scopio and with Pluto can be pretty intimidating!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and controlling sometimes !?
also you have a powerful moon in leo right on that cusp!.!.maybe some people get an overbearing feelng from you and once you open your mouth : Sun + mercury in Gemini and maybe push others' buttons!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.retaliation from the earth signs !?
You also have Moon opp Mars ( pisces !?) in fourth!.!.!.so you could be quite mild once people know you but your feelings could get over the top with those aspects!.
Cardinal houses are the most important and most noticeable on the outside!.
Maybe too many challenges affecting your planets in earth!.!.!.!.!? What you do not acknowledge in yourself >>>> sooner or later you get it back from outside !.
I do not have your chart in front of me so am going with what I remember and peeling a chart like an onion could take a long time and much effort as you know!. Not an easy task to do especially when you do not have the person in front of you!.
But heck!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.who is perfect right !? I am not !!
You can't be liked by everybody; trying to please everybody is just impossible!.
Just be grateful that you have some people with whom you will get along with!. I agree with Janet!.!.!.!.!.Fire signs are like that : a good confrontation and then we shake hands afterwards unlike some other signs which brood and brood and play passive-aggressive!. Fire signs will tell you to your face!.!.usually!. ( reading Janet made me smile because she is just like that !)
Ohhh!.!.!.going to eat now!.!.might come back later :-)
Remember too!.!.!.we don't stay the same!.!.!.we evolve through time, experiences etc!. As we grow older we learn more and more about ourselves, accept our faults,limitations, try our best - sometimes , sometimes not - to better ourselves!. I bet that in 10 years time you will have changed quite a bit!.
"arrogance": I bet that is your leo moon right on the cusp speaking!. It can be your enemy and your greatest ally!.
Afterall pride - in moderation- is what pulls ourselves up and walk away with dignity!. You need it somewhat for your own self esteen as long as!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.it is not too negative ( as leo can be at times too)Www@Enter-QA@Com
because earth signs dont suck balls!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
because libras are better and noone like geminis =D haha jk idk depends i think that horoscopes are a bunch of bsWww@Enter-QA@Com
You're just incompatible with them, sagittarians hate me =(Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe something very bad happened in your past life and the earth is getting you back for it!. try to find what you once did wrong and fix it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because it's your nature to be sort of wishy washy (no offense!) and Earth signs are very grounded!. They tend to have no patience for the over emotional, over thoughtful, over confident, whatever!. They can tend to be prudes!.!.!. so don't let it bug you too bad!Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe its not the earth signs maybe its you!.
Not to be mean, maybe your attitude or how you speak your mind might be too abrasive or how you come acrossed or how to aproach others or body odors!?
Something to think about!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not to be mean, maybe your attitude or how you speak your mind might be too abrasive or how you come acrossed or how to aproach others or body odors!?
Something to think about!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Actually, I can't imagine that Water finds you all that comforting either! LOL You "try" to listen, meaning that you don't let someone complete a thought if you disagree but rather jump in with your version of the truth!. This can be irritating if this is what happens!. There is a difference between speaking your mind while respecting someone elses opposing opinion, and putting them down because you feel the need to be right all the time!. Try to be aware when you're talking to people!. If you are guilty of interrupting or putting down other people's opinions, arrogance is a proper conclusion one would make!. Just try thinking before you speak and not interrupting others!.
Admitting you just don't give a damn at the end of the day anyway, speaks volumes and would provoke the kindest person to not give a damn about you either!. Jealous of you!? Not at all!. I don't envy people who don't hold themselves accountable for hurting others!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Admitting you just don't give a damn at the end of the day anyway, speaks volumes and would provoke the kindest person to not give a damn about you either!. Jealous of you!? Not at all!. I don't envy people who don't hold themselves accountable for hurting others!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think you are going a little too far with this im afraid to say!. im an earth sign, and i dont hate you!. you are so self-absorbed with yourself and you do think so highly of yourself, and youre too busy stroking your own ego that you really dont see it when you are rude!. that i do agree on!. but i dont hate you!. why dont you try to take some initiative and look at your flaws a little more often, dont we all have them!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
im a taurus and i have some best friends who are geminis we have the fun fun funnest time together!. the only thing that can drive me nuts is when they do a 180 with that twin and become unreliable or untruthful but we always work it out, i think all the other earth signs you have been coming in contact with must just be haters!Www@Enter-QA@Com
its perfectly normal to hate you!.!.Have you ever been in a sandstorm!?
That's the effect air signs have on earth signs :))) And air signs are arrogant at times!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
That's the effect air signs have on earth signs :))) And air signs are arrogant at times!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Gemini fun cheeky quick witted and an air sign!.
Are you sure earth signs don't like you, it does take two, maybe your very bubbly and earth is more grounded
Although I have to say i NEVER get on with Virgo's, but I don't try anymore
People either like you or notWww@Enter-QA@Com
Are you sure earth signs don't like you, it does take two, maybe your very bubbly and earth is more grounded
Although I have to say i NEVER get on with Virgo's, but I don't try anymore
People either like you or notWww@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Amiri,
I think it is because you don't realize how you come across to people sometimes!. If they don't tell you what you expect to hear, you just fire back!. I don't quite think that you are being as nice as you think you are when you just speak your mind!. Perhaps it is that Scorpio rising and Gemini mercury in the 8th!. I have learned not to respond to some of your questions simply because I know that if I don't give you a good answer, you will hurt my feelings with a dismissive response!. I also know that you are not really how you come across to people, so you are in a continual state of wonder/shock when you get negative feedback!. I think the fire signs, in general, will fight with you, you fight back and then everything is cool; not so with other elements!.
Examples:
1!. "so far no good answers!.!. I mean what does this pattern actually mean!?"
2!. "screw you for being rude "
I can think of a few other times that my jaw dropped reading some of the things you have said!. For the most part, Amiri, I am right there cheering you on with your honesty, but really, sometimes you need to take a breath and think a little before you respond to people and try to soften that delivery!.
Edit: "I didn't think it was rude!. I think it was a good metaphor to explain it simply!.!.!. I was surprised by that reaction!." That was her comment!. She wasn't trying to be rude; but you interpreted it that way!.
Now, as far as ME being rude, I thought I was just playing and being funny, honestly! That's why I put "ha, ha" on the end of the sentence!. And, I do think I qualified that in later answers!. Of course, everyone knows that Gemini is more intelligent and Aquarius is more intellectual - ha,ha!.
Oh, and did you give me that TD!?
Oh, ok - I believe you, are we still pals!?
Isabelle - NICE!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think it is because you don't realize how you come across to people sometimes!. If they don't tell you what you expect to hear, you just fire back!. I don't quite think that you are being as nice as you think you are when you just speak your mind!. Perhaps it is that Scorpio rising and Gemini mercury in the 8th!. I have learned not to respond to some of your questions simply because I know that if I don't give you a good answer, you will hurt my feelings with a dismissive response!. I also know that you are not really how you come across to people, so you are in a continual state of wonder/shock when you get negative feedback!. I think the fire signs, in general, will fight with you, you fight back and then everything is cool; not so with other elements!.
Examples:
1!. "so far no good answers!.!. I mean what does this pattern actually mean!?"
2!. "screw you for being rude "
I can think of a few other times that my jaw dropped reading some of the things you have said!. For the most part, Amiri, I am right there cheering you on with your honesty, but really, sometimes you need to take a breath and think a little before you respond to people and try to soften that delivery!.
Edit: "I didn't think it was rude!. I think it was a good metaphor to explain it simply!.!.!. I was surprised by that reaction!." That was her comment!. She wasn't trying to be rude; but you interpreted it that way!.
Now, as far as ME being rude, I thought I was just playing and being funny, honestly! That's why I put "ha, ha" on the end of the sentence!. And, I do think I qualified that in later answers!. Of course, everyone knows that Gemini is more intelligent and Aquarius is more intellectual - ha,ha!.
Oh, and did you give me that TD!?
Oh, ok - I believe you, are we still pals!?
Isabelle - NICE!Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are original, intelligent and oppinionated!. You don't mind stepping on a few toes to get your point across, and unfortunately most of the time it's the earth signs you offend, though not intentionally!. Because geminis are able to run circles around earth signs in conversation they may may be percieved as rude!. As a Gemini your way of communicating may be quicker and you might get your point across and move on to the next subject, often before others can even get a word in!. Earth signs are more!.!.!. well!.!.!. earthy!. They are still intelligent, but thier way of talking is more grounded than yours, and they tend to progress more slowly through subjects and concepts when they are in conversation with someone!. Thier way of talking is to let everyone have thier say and to let the whole subject be digested in depth!. With Gemini It's often quickest on the buzzer that gets thier say!. This is in my experience anyhow!. I have a friend who is a Gemini and most of my earth sign mates think he's pretty arrogant!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Wow speechless after janet and isa!.
I do not hate you and I have a huge emphasis on earth in my chart (5 planets and ASC, not to mention vesta and eros in taurus)!. I do think you are misunderstood or say mean things at times!. I'm the first to admit I can be argumentive towards others!. I often say things to people I care about and then think about is afterward and realize I was being a d***hole and I feel really bad!. But your pluto in the 12th, conjunct the ASC will make others not get you alot of the time!. I can believe you aren't this way in real life!. You just gotta assess the situation; if someone says something you don't like, ask them to elaborate more instead of insulting them!. If they meant to put you down (or if it's obvious they are making fun of you) then you can block them or whatever!. They are indeed just being rude!.
You seem pretty cool you just gotta watch those oppositions and pluto conj!. ASC!. That won't make it easy! :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I do not hate you and I have a huge emphasis on earth in my chart (5 planets and ASC, not to mention vesta and eros in taurus)!. I do think you are misunderstood or say mean things at times!. I'm the first to admit I can be argumentive towards others!. I often say things to people I care about and then think about is afterward and realize I was being a d***hole and I feel really bad!. But your pluto in the 12th, conjunct the ASC will make others not get you alot of the time!. I can believe you aren't this way in real life!. You just gotta assess the situation; if someone says something you don't like, ask them to elaborate more instead of insulting them!. If they meant to put you down (or if it's obvious they are making fun of you) then you can block them or whatever!. They are indeed just being rude!.
You seem pretty cool you just gotta watch those oppositions and pluto conj!. ASC!. That won't make it easy! :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com