My Virgoness killing me?!


Question: I'm a Virgo(duhh!)lol.I have a huge tendency to overthink every single thing that say or do.I'm extremely critical of myself.When saying or doing anything i just think abit about it,like everyone else and just do it.Afterwards,i constantly run over it in my mind,over and over and over again till i'm convinced i did that thing completely wrong,or said something wrong and then i get really depressed thinking that i'm just worthless.
Ok i realize that i must have some issues,lol...but does it have anything to do with my sign at all?


Answers: I'm a Virgo(duhh!)lol.I have a huge tendency to overthink every single thing that say or do.I'm extremely critical of myself.When saying or doing anything i just think abit about it,like everyone else and just do it.Afterwards,i constantly run over it in my mind,over and over and over again till i'm convinced i did that thing completely wrong,or said something wrong and then i get really depressed thinking that i'm just worthless.
Ok i realize that i must have some issues,lol...but does it have anything to do with my sign at all?

Virgos are perfectionists. Both my parents and sister are Virgos. I think them critical but sweet. Everything has to be perfect! You need to learn how to relax! My sister is fond of indulging herself in long bubble baths, my mom is into anything creative. I'm a Pisces and I love Virgos because they are so organized and we tend not to be. Close enough is good enough for us. I'm your opposite sign. Find a Pisces friend. They can teach you how to let go and have fun.

I am a Virgo as well, and while I do analyze quite a bit, I don't continuously second guess myself. And so I would suggest your analyzing (or critical thoughts) could be due to your sign, but how you apply these critical thoughts is not due to your sign.

It sounds like you're shy. I have that problem, too, and I was born in May. You might want to consider visiting a counselor or reading some books about it. I've found a lot of help through those outlets, and I've made a lot of progress.

http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide...

yes....virgos are very critical, but more critical of themselves than anyone else at all....alot of people don't realize that about you all.

yes i think its becasue youre a virgo. remmeber that these traits are not nessecarily wrong becasue some signs juat do something before they think(sagis..me lool) and then they end uup regretting it afterwards so dont take everything seriously and in the woing way

Yes it has alot to do with your sign. Virgos are sooo analytical. You can embrace that and use it. Maybe you should try talking about it -although that drive other people crazy, or writing it down. Virgos are not only critical of themselves they are critical of others, even if you are doing it in your head or are using alot of sarcasm with an edge. You have ALOT of gifts, Virgos are smart and hard working and vERy funny, quirky, cool and unique. Try to channel this into something you feel good about.

It may be just you as a person but I am a Virgo rising and I Happen to be the same way.

Yes, if I do something wrong I always feel worthless about myself. But Im impulsive and Im speaking and doing things without thinking (strong fire) aswell. Fortunately I forget my mistakes quickly. Bless saggitarius rising :-D

Hello fellow Virgo. Yes, it is the Virgo in you that makes you overanalyze everything and makes you extremely critical of yourself. Being analytical is not a bad quality and can be used to your advantage, but you must learn how to channel this in a positive manner. I used to second guess myself when I first started out in the world, but noone knew I did it. This quality drove me crazy until I suddenly realized that I always succeed in whatever endeavor I go after and when I'm being a worrywart, everything always works itself out in a positive manner. I have always been attracted to strong, positive people in relationships as well as friendships, so they keep me balanced and grounded.

At the end of the day, you are a human being who is going to make mistakes. If something you said comes out wrong or you did something wrong, learn from that so you don't repeat the same mistake again, but don't beat yourself up. You are not worthless and I bet if you think about it, nine times out of ten, you stressed yourself out about nothing. You will always be fussy, critical and analytical, hey, that is the Virgo in us, but don't become depressed about these qualities, embrace them. These qualities, if used in a positive manner, can make all the difference in your home, in love and at work, which is why so many people admire us. So light you some candles, get into a hot bubble bath if that's your thing, put on some good jazz and let whatever plagued you go. There is always tomorrow to begin again. How you begin is up to you. Good Luck sweetie!

You've described me perfectly!! On a first date, I will absolutely worry myself physically sick. I obsess over every detail. If he's picking me up, the house has to be immaculate. My hair and make-up must be perfect. If I'm meeting him, my car must be washed and vacuumed. After the date is over, I laugh at all the trouble and worry I put myself through. We are perfectionists and over think EVERYTHING. Yes, you're a typical Virgo. Sorry.

Yes, it has alot to do with being Virgo. But astrology is better used as a tool to work on our weakness than it is as an excuse for bad behavior. Your awareness of the problem can take you one step closer to correcting it. But only if you do something with it.

The key for Virgo is learning to forgive yourself for not being perfect. And knowing that at least you are a hell of alot closer than most people. **kidding*** It get easier with age and experience too.

Virgos need to get it together and let loose sometimes. Overthinking pushes people away, you aren't perfect either so stop criticizing others if they aren't.

(I've been heartbroken by two Virgos) :P



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