In love with a Taurus that makes me wait n wait?!


Question: I left my girl crazy ex for this guy I thought to be my true love. So when he said he feels the same, it's heaven on earth. But like all things on earth, the hype don't last. He starts to distance himself when he feels being pushed to another level ( I suggested we shud start dating ) He still says that he loves me, but it feels like he's not putting too much effort to keep me. Staying with him and building castles in the air proves to be too much for me. So I decide to move on to someone else who is willing to commit instead, it might not be long term, but at least it's something. But it hurts so much, cuz I feel like I'm betraying him and leaving him, but who's gonna think about how I feel? I have been pursuing him for more than a month, but the feeling have gone all the way back. Is it normal for him not to be able to decide in 2 months time? Shud I still give him a few months..?? He's a Taurus,and I'm a Gemini gurl


Answers: I left my girl crazy ex for this guy I thought to be my true love. So when he said he feels the same, it's heaven on earth. But like all things on earth, the hype don't last. He starts to distance himself when he feels being pushed to another level ( I suggested we shud start dating ) He still says that he loves me, but it feels like he's not putting too much effort to keep me. Staying with him and building castles in the air proves to be too much for me. So I decide to move on to someone else who is willing to commit instead, it might not be long term, but at least it's something. But it hurts so much, cuz I feel like I'm betraying him and leaving him, but who's gonna think about how I feel? I have been pursuing him for more than a month, but the feeling have gone all the way back. Is it normal for him not to be able to decide in 2 months time? Shud I still give him a few months..?? He's a Taurus,and I'm a Gemini gurl

Let me see if I can help with this. Taurus is probably one the most romantic of the signs, but they are also the most pragmatic and can tend to be insecure if they're not sure of their place in a relationship.

They don't like taking chances or major changes and they like things, even their relationships, to be steady and practical. A Taurus way is the slow and prodding way of doing things that to a fast-paced, lets-get-it-started-now Gemini like yourself may find a tad frustrating. It's like, "Come ON all ready! You KNOW I love you...and you love me...what's the hold up?"

They also absolutely cannot be rushed into ANYTHING. Trying to rush a bull will only succeed in planting his hooves even firmer in the turf and stopping him from going ANYWHERE.

What's may be going on when he seems to push himself away from you, other than not wanting to be rushed, and distance himself is that his insecurities are surfacing and it's an emotional survival technique that pretty much all Taurus people have in common: reject them/close-up to them BEFORE they can do the same to us.

He may be confused about where his true place is in your heart especially if you move to someone else. Even if he seems to be not interested in keeping you, its more likely the furthest thing from his mind. There is a short little story that best describes a Taurus level of commitment and how it's shown:

*A woman buys her Taurus husband little stuffed bull and places on the tv set where he can see it everday from his favourite armchair, (Taurus men almost always have a favourite armchair...or something close), and everyday the husband seems to not even take note of it, even when the wife points it out for him. Shrugging with a non-commital grunt of assent he continues watching whatever is on the television. The poor wife, thinking he doesn't even care at all for the adorable little gift she'd given him, in disgust at what an unappreciative man she has for a husband takes the stuffed bull from the top of the television set and tosses in the trash while her husband is at work one day. That evening, when he comes home, he walks into the livingroom, sets himself down in his favourite armchair and from the kitchen, (or bedroom or bathroom), the wife hears: "WHERE THE HELL IS MY BULL!!!?? WHAT DID YOU DO WITH MY BULL!!!?"

So, even though I know it's hard, try to have patience with your stubborn, plodding bull and I assure you, once he feels safely and wholly yours and all of his insecurities are put to rest for good that you will have found yourself one of the most loyal, passionate, in-it-for-keeps-baby-carriage-and-all, (Most Taurus men want wives and children more than girlfriend and flings...and with a Taurus forever means FOREVER once those rings are exchanged), life-mate a woman could ever hope to have.

Good luck to you and I wish you all the love and happiness the universe and God has for you!

~Ami

What are you, like 12 years old? No one can say they love someone, yet not ever have dated them. You sound desperate to have a steady boyfriend -- ANY boy.

Dating has NOTHING to do with astrology.

Slow down, and just have male friends. When the time is right, you will find someone. If you push guys into something, they will run away!

Taurus do things in their own time if you love him be patient you are a twin within your self so it is like he gets two of you have fun!

i am a known psychic and i want to help you......so listen..he was in love 3 years ago with a girl that let him for sm1 Else.....he is not in love with you and its better that you leave him.......otherwise you will get hurt.....and by the way i see that he will not leave you so fast...he will even try to go back to you....but that doesn't change the fact that he don't really love you....

Girl, three things you should know about tauruses are they are stubborn, slow to decision making, and go by their own set of rules. Your number 1 mistake was "pushing" him...you can not push them to do anything that they are not ready for. Just because he may love you, doesn't mean that he is ready to commit. Mistake number 2 is you desperately decided to move on to someone who was willing to commit as you wanted, but it's not the person you really want. Now, you're still trying to pursue this taurus I assume while you're committed to another. Desperation is not a good thing, you need to figure out what you truly want and stick with that, if you want the taurus then you are going to have to give him his space and let him come around.

I dated (was engaged to him for a couple of months) to a taurus for 2 years, so I know, they are very slow when it comes to making decisions because they want to make sure it's the right one for them and once it's made, they stick to it. Remember, you will not push or change their mind, they are VERY stubborn and determined. However, by them being so slow, they tend to lose out because the other person is usually not as patient and tend to seriously move on...I know I did. When he finally came around to realize he was in love with me, I wanted to date others.

I can't figure out if you two are committed or not. It sounds like you two aren't even dating. So then, where does the thought that you are leaving him come from?

Maybe part of this is your gemini mind over-thinking of various options, possibilities, scenarios. But there comes a time when you have to put your foot down and get real. Come down to earth. Get simple. He is not dating you. There is no commitment. You are free to date other people, and he is free to date other people.
But don't close the door on him. Don't burn bridges. Just be free. He knows you are interested. If things work out for him, maybe he'll be able to ask you for a date. But maybe by then some other guy will be dating you, maybe even seriously.
Good luck.

I'm a Taurus and I always do that to my boyfriends, make them wait. Is he seeing other people? If not you guys are kind of going out anyway and I wouldn't worry about it. He probably just wants to make sure your not going to hurt him and maybe your putting to much pressure on him. Just stay the way you are and get closer is it always necessary to have to make it official with the word commitment, tauruses are pretty loyal. If you love him and he loves you everything will work out with time don't do something you'll regret. GOOD LUCK!



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