HELP with my male Aquarius!?!?!!!?!
Question: I'm a leo and I've been getting to know an aquarius guy for about a year now. suddenly he's getting upset over silly things (or at least that's what I think). he'll tell me I'm being immature. here's how....
we're both on the track team. I raced one of his friends and I was behind at first then I caught up to him and got ahead of him. I turned my head and smiled and waved. I was just playing around but this aquarius guy said it was immature. his friend knew I was just playing. what do you think?
we were at a party and I was tired of dancing and I sat down with this guy from my journalism class and we really started talking for like two hours non stop about the class and we were debating and that pissed him off. and he wanted to argue about it but I had dance rehearsal after school so I didn't have time to talk and he's been ignoring me ever since it's been 4 days
can you explain his behavior?
he also tries to get into my head and see how I feel or what I think and I HATE THAT
Answers: I'm a leo and I've been getting to know an aquarius guy for about a year now. suddenly he's getting upset over silly things (or at least that's what I think). he'll tell me I'm being immature. here's how....
we're both on the track team. I raced one of his friends and I was behind at first then I caught up to him and got ahead of him. I turned my head and smiled and waved. I was just playing around but this aquarius guy said it was immature. his friend knew I was just playing. what do you think?
we were at a party and I was tired of dancing and I sat down with this guy from my journalism class and we really started talking for like two hours non stop about the class and we were debating and that pissed him off. and he wanted to argue about it but I had dance rehearsal after school so I didn't have time to talk and he's been ignoring me ever since it's been 4 days
can you explain his behavior?
he also tries to get into my head and see how I feel or what I think and I HATE THAT
Hi, I'll try to answer from a female Aquarian's point of view. However, the males of this sign are just a slight bit different from the girls. One thing all Aquarians have in common though is the fact that we hate to feel as if we've been rejected. That's why most Aquarians will be friendly if they're attracted to you but we're hardly known for making the first move which is why it's taken a year for you to get to know this guy =) It seems like he's getting frustrated that you haven't made a move on him yet because he's probably not aggressive enough to do it. I know that when I get frustrated or angry I hold it in and it builds and builds. At that point, every little thing that the object of my frustration does, will piss me off more which would explain why he's so irritable all of a sudden. He might feel as if you're not feeling him anymore. Also, he's trying to get into your head because he's probably trying to figure out if you like him or not. Remember Aquarians, like most signs, are afraid of rejection and if we do put ourselves on a limb for someone we have to be damn sure that they like us as much as we like them. To sum things up, he's acting the way that a boy that likes a girl would act if he feels like she's blowing him off..lol. So he's a little confused and maybe a bit jealous but if you don't have feelings for him then let him know pronto or he'll continue to be a grump since I think that seems to be reason for his attitude. Hope that helped =)
Awww he's just hurt and a little jealous. Sounds like he wants to be your number one. He may feel that those other guys are a threat and he doesn't want to lose you. Its said that Aquarius' dont like to show emotion the way most people do. The things that he's doing sounds like they are his ways of showing that his feelings are hurt even though he's being mean to you. Maybe he needs a little reassurance about how you feel about him. Its a stubborn sign and they won't cry or tell you that they are jealous. Dont let him get too hurt because Aquarius is also known for detatchment and he'll start to do that. For myself and many that I know, once you detatch its hard to go back. He wouldn't want to open back up to risk that chance of being vulnerable again. =) I say don't let too much time go by without talking to him about it because he just may detatch. I know it sounds mean, but I've seen it.
He likes your very much. He is just jealous because you are talking to other boys.
On the dark side of aquarius----
Intractable and contrary
Perverse and unpredictable
Unemotional and detached
http://www.astrology-online.com/aquarius...
I'm Sag and a fellow fire sign....water bearers are
supposed to be amongst my most compatible signs,
but after being PAINFULLY backstabbed by some,
I've decided they are amongst my LEAST compatible!
They are probably the most wishy washy of all the signs
and when they turn against you....they REALLY turn
against you like a rattle snake.
For starters, two opposite signs shouldn't really venture into a romantic relationship- Leo and Aquarius are opposite signs. Aquarians are forever aloof, and opinionated. Both your sign and his are of the fixed quality, so you both stand your ground for whatever you believe in, and the combo of you makes for a headstrong relationship. For this relationship to work, you're both gonna have to do some serious comprimising, which undoubtedly will be difficult for either of you headstrong people. It's up to you to decide if you want to do this for the duration of your relationship.
You know I've dated an Aquarius since Jan 20 and I"ve come to the conclusion that they are very insecure. I can only say if you love him continue to indulge him a bit. Just the other day I was crying my eyes out because he didn't call for 2 weeks. I didn't talk to him when he called I ended the call. But I realized it isn't that its over he just doesn't understand how important it is. He told me he was busy andthen he had some catastrophe happen at his house. (still no excuse) I told him 'I was hurt because I thought you didn't care'. He told me that I can call him. I told him 'But I didn't want to invade in his space.' But I didn't speak to him for 3 days because I didn't want him to get the idea that I'll kow tow just because he called but I realized something.
He is SO insecure you have no idea. And he's older than me and wealthier but he's still insecure like I was when I was like 12 years old. In the first 2 months I didn't notice because I lavished him with affection and he knows I love how eccentric he is. I complemented him it was so cloud nine.
We even debated which I see now was dumb. I don't want to argue I just want to be happy. But there is no other love like his.
I never pick on him and maybe he's more secure knows that I really care. But he never said anything...I told him once 'I'm very fond of you' and 'My life revolves around you' he said 'me too'. The only time he ever initiated something was when he said 'You are amazing'. It is like he doesn't give out complements but if he ever says anything you know it is true.
For two months we didn't talk about 'us' or anything. It was all through touch and body language and through that I know that he likes me. I think what happens is when they feel something strong for you they pull away because again they are scared.
If you love this guy let him have his way...but don't let him get away with too much selfishness he has a tendency to be self absorbed. If he's your bf when you see him give him a hug I know he hates PDAs but he'll have to deal with it. I believe that love affects people. He is passive I think.