7th house question?!
Question: my 7th house is in gemini
i was married for 17 years in an abusive and unhappy relationship, now divorced. 2 children
my fiance 7th house is in Aries
he has never been married but was in an unhappy relationship for 10 years and has 1 child
Can anyone explain or predict this for me
thanks :)
Answers: my 7th house is in gemini
i was married for 17 years in an abusive and unhappy relationship, now divorced. 2 children
my fiance 7th house is in Aries
he has never been married but was in an unhappy relationship for 10 years and has 1 child
Can anyone explain or predict this for me
thanks :)
What follows is necessarily brief. You’ll have to fill in some obvious blank spots yourself. I’m not sure I understand why you are asking if your fiancé will ever marry? One would assume if you are engaged, then you will be married. Why is there doubt? Has he been putting you off? You have a few issues here that should be clarified. Do you think you are wasting your time with this man? If you do, you probably are.
The 7th house is typically considered both the house of marriage and the spouse. You neglected to mention that you have two planets in the 7th, the Moon on the cusp, and Mars. These factors affect the kind of person you are attracted to. If your first husband was abusive and you stick to the 7th house for a partner, the odds are pretty good the second marriage will work out the same way as the first. It would be the same marriage to a different guy. Oh the personalities might be different, but the odds are the result would be the same.
The same is true for him. He has no planets in the 7th, but it is a revealing 7th nonetheless. He has the south node of the Moon near the 7th cusp. The south node is difficult and often shows “where you get hurt.” His partner hurt him. He also has the part of fortune in Aries in the 7th, which indicates he “treasures” a partnership or marriage or relationship. Mars rules Aries, and not only is Aries in your 7th house, but your ASC ruler, Jupiter is in Aries. Add to that the fact that his Venus is in Scorpio, another Mars ruled sign, and his attraction to you is understandable. Venus in a man’s chart shows us the kind of woman that he is attracted to. He is attracted to Mars types (Mars rules Venus in Scorpio) and what kind of Mars types? Mars in Leo types, vivacious women. Venus is also his ASC ruler, so he is strongly attracted to such women.
The fact that he finds one does not mean the relationship will succeed. It only means this is what gets his attention. But it may not be the best kind for him. It’s not that he can’t make it work, it is just that his reasons for desiring this kind of woman are not necessarily those of sound, solid judgment. My opinion of him is that he will find a way to get in and stay in a relationship. The goal is to make sure he gets into a healthy grownup relationship.
I don’t know you, but if you know any astrology, and you are ready to do some ruthless self examination, you might agree that your ex husband is like Saturn in Cancer (detriment) with some Mars and Moon tossed in. Gemini rules your 7th and Mercury, its ruler, is in a Saturn sign, Aquarius. Not to get too technical but your 7th cusp is conjunct Saturn in Cancer Rx in the 8th by antiscion. Never mind how I get that just think of it as having Saturn on your 7th cusp, but in the background. The Saturn type behavior is not obvious. The Moon in Gemini is close by the cusp and Mars in the 7th make this an advertisement for an abusive relationship. Don’t make this mistake twice. Saturn on the 7th even by antiscion tells us why someone would stay in an abusive relationship for 17 years.
Again without knowing you, I’d say that you need someone like Jupiter, generous, kind, even noble, reserved and since he is in the 5th house, romantic. He is or should be assertive, without being abusive. Notice Mars is almost exactly sextile Jupiter in your chart. You cannot get away from the Mars influence, which is why you like the guy with Aries on the 7th. Jupiter rules your ASC and is the ruler of your Sun (men in your life).
The problem is that the Mars type is more exciting than the Jupiter type, so you need to put Mars in the back seat. Self-confidence, appropriate assertiveness, and willingness to work are all good Mars things. Being abusive whether physically or verbally (Mars is in Gemini in your chart, ruled by Mercury the ruler of the 7th indicative of possible verbal abuse) is the unhealthy expression of Mars.
So instead of waiting to see or trying to figure out what the current boyfriend is going to do, how about you deciding what you want and then go for it? If this guy is looking for a free ride, you’re asking for trouble again only a different kind.
One last point that I find remarkable, but unfortunately not too enlightening. I don’t know if you are familiar with the Arabic parts, but if so there is a part of marriage that is sometimes revealing. Despite the charts being entirely different, both of you have the part of marriage at 13 Pisces 48 – a to the minute conjunction. They are both good for marriage and both ruled by Jupiter. But Jupiter in his chart is exalted (more evidence he thinks highly of marriage), but retrograde (more evidence that he has a tendency to choose the wrong partner). Your part of marriage is ruled by Jupiter in Aries, who is in aspect to both Saturn and Mars. You need to be careful. Good luck.
Firt, 7th house Gemini always calls for 2 marriages whether legally married or common law.
As for him, 7th with Aries would indicate an impulsive marriage....; fights and verbal abuse or physical depending on aspects.
You didnt specify so it is hard to predict anything without actual birthtime, time and location.
7th house in aries is sadly, often a house that shows a lot of agression in a relationship and specifically towards the spouse, there is no suprise that this happened at all. physical and verbal abuse is common, and impulsive reckless decisions as well. however, your gemini in the 7th house will show some superficiality to the relationship, and does call for usually a divorce. the twins (gemini) and the ram (aries), are air and fire, so there would have been a stimulating connection somewhere. all in all tho! i think this comes down to more than "signs" and more about the people. but from an astrological point of view, there you go. hope this helped!