I really like him! What should I do? Capricorn guy - scorpio female!?!
Question: I really like this guy and he's a capricorn! He's 21, and I'm 20 - a scorpio. I've never felt this way about anyone in my life! I don't even know if he likes me or not!! How do I know...? I was planning on telling him informally that im starting to like him (which is a lie - i've liked him for a while)I'm so scared to see his reaction. It will break my heart if I find out he doesnt feel the same way. I have no clue what I should do... I get along with his family - he's a typical capi. I, being a scorpio cant figure him out. IT KILLS ME. Everyone in his family excluding his mom (he doesnt have a dad) knows how I feel about him. But they dont know how he feels about me. I'm scared that if I dont tell him soon enough, I might loose him :'(! Please help !
Answers: I really like this guy and he's a capricorn! He's 21, and I'm 20 - a scorpio. I've never felt this way about anyone in my life! I don't even know if he likes me or not!! How do I know...? I was planning on telling him informally that im starting to like him (which is a lie - i've liked him for a while)I'm so scared to see his reaction. It will break my heart if I find out he doesnt feel the same way. I have no clue what I should do... I get along with his family - he's a typical capi. I, being a scorpio cant figure him out. IT KILLS ME. Everyone in his family excluding his mom (he doesnt have a dad) knows how I feel about him. But they dont know how he feels about me. I'm scared that if I dont tell him soon enough, I might loose him :'(! Please help !
I am a Virgo dating a Capricorn man. Blissfully happy going on two years, but it was a long, winding roads with plenty of bumps along the way. But you know what? The bumps paid off. Number one, you have to be very patient with Capricorns. Number two, they are hard on the outside, but gushy as goo on the inside, so don't let that hard exterior keep you away. Number three, Capricorn men do not like rejection and will not make a move unless they know you are interested.
My Capricorn is all Capricorn (boy is he ever) and I love him to pieces! We danced around for two weeks without making a move assuming things about the other and then he thought he was never going to see me again, got scared that he missed his chance and made his move the next time he saw me. On our first date, he told me that although he was interested, he was not going to make the first move because he didn't think I was interested. We both have the same, cool, reserved looking exterior, so we are both hard to read until you get to know us. I say let him know you are interested, even if you are scared. By the by. If you have met the family, he's very interested.
I am Capricorn too, and let me tell you that we are like a coconut, hard from outside, but very soft from inside, you need to do something which can touch his senses. Do something that he really likes.....and then express yourself, trust me it will work....it did for me.
Dont go by his serious looks, just make your way straight to his heart.
Good Luck
My advise.
Never get involved with a young Capricorn. Things never work out with young Capricorns. By LUCK and FATE, yes, it would but most of the time, no.
You need to be patient. Scorpios do have their patience in them so use it. Love for a Scorpio doesn't come easy. Same goes with a Capri.
Many Scorpios engage in many relationships before finding that right one.
As for Capris, they too engage into many relationships before finding the right one but they also have their ego in their way. That's the difference.
I'm not a Scorpio nor a Capricorn but I've never told any guys that I like them. I've never approached any guys before. I always try killing the feelings even if it's so strong.
But if that feeling of yours seems different and can never die, he may be the one for you but be patient and wait a few years more. ^^
If you are scared of losing him, then tell him but listen on...
Capricorns and Scorpios make a great match.
One of the things you like about this guy is that he's not an easy read and that's because as a Scorpio you like to "know" what's going on within someone. You like to investigate feelings and attitudes. Capricorns can be doomy and gloomy and Scorpios just "know" Capricorns as Scorpios are in touch with depth and darkness.This will always be a challenge between the two of you but one that keeps you both excited about the relationship. Capricorns tend to go after what they want initially (being a Cardinal type) but could lose interest over time if their want isn't reciprocated. I suggest becoming the best of friends and letting the relationship develop naturally. Take some time to do things together and let it just evolve. Say with a sweet smile: "I like you and I want to know if I could like you more." and see what he says or how he reacts. And finally, don't hide the truth Scorpio as you wouldn't like someone doing that to you. :) Just be prudent in what is said.
capricorns ussualy think of financial security first before they go into a relationship, maybe he likes you too but his Saturnian influence is preventing him from showing this to you.
if hes doesnt have a stable job or stuff like that, and if he already has plans in his life, and if hes just not ready to be involved. my advise to you is not to tell him yet, he probably knows it already anyway, just show him in subtle ways, and wait for him to make the first move, because first of all they dont like women moving in on them first. he will when hes ready, and he will let you know