Calling all taurus males or people who have dated one.?!
Question: explain them right this instant! *pout*
Answers: explain them right this instant! *pout*
I've dated a Taurus for about 4 months but the whole "drama" lasted for about 11 months. Worst experience and best experience of my life.
In the beginning he was a sweetheart. Very attentive. VERY Sensual. Everything was going good until something went wrong. It was partly my fault but he was just as guilty as I was. Anyway, what I did wrong was that I was too open with too fast (which I never am when I first start talking to someone). The only reason why I was so open with him was because I went to the same school with him but it was about two year since I've seen him and I didn't take that into account. I also realized that I wasn't being myself. I was being too sweet to him when I am usually a ***** to every guy that tried to talk to me (that's usually what keeps them interested. Go figure). Well anyway, he took that for granted. And he tried to make me his doormat but that didn't work out too well because I am just as stubborn as he is. He even admitted that himself and I feel that's what kept him interested in me.
He would have continued to chase me after the whole thing ended (when I rejected him: more like crushed his ego) but I made sure that I cut off all contact with him otherwise, it would have been a back and forth situation. Another thing was that he had trust issues with girls and clearly wasn't ready for a relationship. (Never date a guy who has trust issues because you can't change him. He has to overcome it himself.)
Well the problem that I had with him was that he was very quiet. I am a quiet person myself but I am very talkative when it is a one on one conversation. I tried to get him to talk to me. But like I've mentioned before, he had trust issues. He also had like a bi-polar type of personality. One minute he's a sweetheart, the next he's taking his problems out of me. Oh here's the good one, the thing he does that that ticks me off the most is when he tries to blame everything on me even when he knows it's his fault. So to get his way he throws temper tantrums. I don't know about you but that's a turn off to me. I've heard this same story from other people who've been with a Taurus.
However mine was young and very immature. He was only 21 you see. He's just trying to figure himself out. I am 20 btw. When was with him I felt that I was getting down to his level and I just had to forget about him because it was the best thing that I can do for me. I will never forget him because out of all the guys I've dated, I felt that I truly genuinely liked him. I wouldn't say that I loved him because I honestly did not. I couldn't ever love or be with someone like that. It would not have lasted. To be honest I am surprised it evened lasted four months. I knew it wasn't meant to be because I kept doubting myself the whole time I was with him and I should have listened to myself because I was right about him. He was a jerk and worst of all he wasn't even trying to hide that fact. I couldn't believe how mean someone could be when I was with him. It's like he wanted to hurt me emotionally purposely. And just like you I couldn't understand him and I really wanted to. By the way the whole him being mean to me lasted for about a month. I have too much self-respect to let someone mistreat me and It only lasted that long because I truly cared for him. But I realized that damn it he's just a guy so I was like F it and F him.
In the end. He hurt me and I hurt him (Again I crushed that big ego of his). I know that he will never forget about me (because I feel like I was the first to reject him), just as much that I will never forget about him (until I find someone else of course lol. That's what usually happens anyway)
What I would advise you is to not worry about him. Let him worry about you. Just sit back and relax because it's really not worth it and that goes for any guy for that matter. In the beginning of it all I was doing pretty good. I was being myself. He was the one chasing me saying that I was nonchalant and I think that made him nervous and curious at the same time. So don't worry about him. NEVER stress over a guy. They are very slow moving so if you want to be with him you have to be very patient. Just enjoy what you have now and DON"T RUSH IT(another one of my mistakes). They Hate being rushed more than anything. If you keep pushing, they are not going to move. It's like pushing a brick wall literally. Most of all keep him guessing, that'll keep him interested in you longer.
Like I said before in my other answer, they are sweethearts overall. To be with someone like that you better have a backbone or you'll only end up being one of his side girls.
Good luck
I dated a taurus male for about 2 years. The positive side, he was loyal, respectful, funloving, goal-oriented, talented, a very good lover, sweet, and committed. The negative side, he was very stubborn, lazy, stingy with money, not romantic, and very slow to making decisions.
wow he explained me but i'm romantic i'm a gurly
My brother is a male taurus..There reasonable and pratical and romantic.. Their also reliable they have a heart but they can be real manly without be mushy.. I have never dated one but Id like to because I like their nature.
I agree with all of koolbreeze's comments except my ex Taurus boyfriend was NOT a very good lover... in fact he was very selfish and immature in bed.