Gemini Female with a confusing[confused?] Taurus Male!! HELP!! ((other tauruses !


Question: I've asked before, but i didn't get that many answers. please help!!
so i've been talking to this taurus for about 2 months now. after 1 month i told him i felt like i loved him, and he stopped liking me. Me and him have kissed, and he told me the only thing stopping him from dating me was the fact that he didn't like my ex (like the things we did together), and was afraid to be in a relationship, cuz his ex that's his best friend and the gurl he thought was the love of his life, hurt him really bad by leaving him.
After i told him how i felt, i guess he got a little more distant. until he told me that he didn't like me anymore. that he just felt the same way for me that he did for all his other female friends.
he says he only likes me when he's with me, and when he's not he thinks about other girls.
but he looks at me....like it's more than that. he looks at me...different than he does other people...
((HOPE THIS DOES'T CONFUSE YOU GUYS,CUZ I'M RAMBLING))


Answers: I've asked before, but i didn't get that many answers. please help!!
so i've been talking to this taurus for about 2 months now. after 1 month i told him i felt like i loved him, and he stopped liking me. Me and him have kissed, and he told me the only thing stopping him from dating me was the fact that he didn't like my ex (like the things we did together), and was afraid to be in a relationship, cuz his ex that's his best friend and the gurl he thought was the love of his life, hurt him really bad by leaving him.
After i told him how i felt, i guess he got a little more distant. until he told me that he didn't like me anymore. that he just felt the same way for me that he did for all his other female friends.
he says he only likes me when he's with me, and when he's not he thinks about other girls.
but he looks at me....like it's more than that. he looks at me...different than he does other people...
((HOPE THIS DOES'T CONFUSE YOU GUYS,CUZ I'M RAMBLING))

Hmm......sorry you haven't been getting many responses, looks like I'm the only one here this time (or I was when I started answering :P)

Well my moon is conjunct venus in taurus, so I can relate to taurus men (technically I am one). Taurus' are stubborn. They forgive at times but don't forget. However it sounds like in this case, he hasn't even forgiven yet. You sound like a scorpio, maybe another taurus, which also explains the attraction to taurus, and if indeed you are one (moon or rising, or pluto/venus is very prominent in your chart) then you guys have the typical scorp-taurus or taurus-taurus relationship. There is alot of commonalities and you are both have interest in one another (obviously) but still there exists jealousy, stubborness, and just plain ol' anxiety. You say he was hurt badly by his ex, which explains things. He isn't ready for a relationship but it sounds like he likes you and doesn't know why. He doesn't want a relationship again but yet he has feelings for you....you see the confusion here?

Also, rule #1: don't make a taurus say yes when they've clearly said no. It doesn't fly well with us taureans (the women and men alike) because we are like the bull.....always stubborn with both feet planted in the ground. Don't make this bull charge. You sound like the same way as well, and I doubt you'd stand for him being pushy. Sorry, no offense, but ease up on the pressure.

All sun sign stuff aside, you really need to have both of your charts done. Then from there you can have a synastry and/or composite chart done to see how your relationship is, as well as how it affects you both. If you want to create the charts yourself you can. You need a birth time, location, and date. Astro.com is good and they will do it for free. Or if you'd like, you can email me both of your informations and I can tell you alot more. There's more than just sun signs....alot more. The whole charts tells the whole picture, and if you are really into this guy as much as it seems, this would be something I really recommend.

Hope this helps!

I think this guy really only sees you as a friend. taurus generally like having close friends and love to share anything with them. but in this case he seems to share everything except actual love. Now telling a Taurus that you love him after one month of being in a relationship does kinda scare him away. Taurus people are slow especially when it comes to relationships. They take long to trust and even longer to fall in love. I'm not saying that maybe he didnt or doesnt like you but you may be moving way too fast for him. The reason I think he wont date you is probably because he doesnt trust your ex and whatever things you did may have been threatening to him so then he'll think he cant trust you. From his previous relationship he may have been really hurt like you said. It's really hard for a Taurus to let go off one they love because when they do its usually deep and real. This may be hindering him from being with you just as any other guy would feel. Telling him how you felt a second time may very well have chased him away even more. That's thing with Tauruses, if they dont gravitate to you like that it's gonna be hard for you to make them like you. If he only likes you when he's around you then he's no bloody good!
Dont worry I'm sure there are other fish in the sea

You have to REALLY work at it....this is NOT the best of combos.

Gemini & Taurus

When Taurus and Gemini come together in a love affair, they must both take the time to learn what the dynamics of the relationship are and how they can best get along. They both have much to offer one another and much to learn in this relationship, but it will take a bit of adjustment and effort on both sides. Gemini's Symbol is the Twins; this Sign can often be of two minds about things. If possessive Taurus is able to let go and give one Twin the relationship security and intimacy it wants while allowing the other Twin its freedom, things will go well between these two. Taurus may want too much for Gemini's taste early in the relationship, but Gemini can become dependable and steady -- Taurus must simply be patient.

Taurus's sedate, practical approach to life differs greatly from Gemini's more light, intellectual approach. This can be a difficult dynamic, since Gemini may see Taurus as a bit dull while Taurus may see Gemini as flighty and lacking in substance. They have much to teach one another, however: Taurus can help Gemini become more deeply involved in life; Gemini can help Taurus add variety, fun and excitement to their life.

Taurus is ruled by the Planet Venus (Love) and Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication). Since both of these Planets are close to the Sun, they're always in the same neighborhood even though they're very different. Venus is all about physical pleasures, romance and sensuality. Mercury has both masculine and feminine energy, and Gemini takes on whichever energy best serves at any given moment. Taurus is just looking for a dependable, sensual partner, so Gemini's brilliance may be lost on the Bull. This may be trouble, since Geminis often feel like their quick wits are the most important thing about themselves. The good thing is, Gemini is smart enough to learn to be the romantic, sensual partner that Taurus craves.

Taurus is an Earth Sign and Gemini is an Air Sign. Gemini makes decisions based on intellect (and whim), while Taurus is more practical. Taurus asks, ""How will this help me achieve my goals in life?"" while Gemini goes with the moment, never feeling too pressured to stick to a set plan. If Taurus gives in to those Bullish possessive feelings, or if Gemini is aloof and detached (as they often are), this relationship may suffer. Both Signs must strive to stay open and flexible in order to make this union work. Though Gemini seems unpredictable, Taurus can learn to understand that although Gemini may flirt, the relationship is still important to them. And though Taurus seems overly stubborn, Gemini must use their flexibility to bend to their partner's will on occasion.

Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Gemini is a Mutable Sign. Taurus tends to focus on one thing, person, idea at a time, while Gemini moves from one thing (or person) to the next according to impulse. Taurus must provide Gemini with ample independence and breathing space -- and try to learn Gemini's lesson, that versatility is sometimes better than a Fixed determination to do things one's own way.

What's the best aspect of the Taurus-Gemini relationship? The security the two can give each other once Taurus allows Gemini to offer that security freely. As long as both partners communicate with each other, theirs will be a stable and happy relationship.



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