How do I deal with a Virgo?!


Question: I have been with my boyfriend now fiance for 8 years. He has become so difficult to deal with. He is a Virgo. Is there any tips on how I can deal with him better. He is one of those people who never lets anything go.


Answers: I have been with my boyfriend now fiance for 8 years. He has become so difficult to deal with. He is a Virgo. Is there any tips on how I can deal with him better. He is one of those people who never lets anything go.

I'm a Virgo.. and virgos are notoriously perfectionist. They can also be meticulous and fussy at times (as you probably already know). Since they place high value on intelligence, it might be hard for them to admit when they're wong. I know that when I get irritated, I pretty much like to be left alone until it passes. Also, if I'm wrong (which is rare, lol), nothing makes it worse than when a person comes at me like they know it all. So, when dealing with your fiance, be patient. :)

Deal With It Or Be Just As Determined As Him ^_^

You must check your spyware

what do you mean never lets anything go?
whats the exact problem? i can help because ima virgo too

horiscopes are just a made up 'force' or whatever. go to god.

Oh I hear you hun, been married to one for 24 yrs. I just learned to deal with him, and tune him out.

Be Gentle

I am a Virgo and there is no dealing with us. You are just along for the ride so hang on or let go :)

if difficult you have to leave

am a Virgo but I dunt knoo if girl virgos are the same as boy virgos but I knoo virgos are the best =] lolss but Jeah I dunt knoo wat chu mean by he dunt let nuttin go more detailss I could helpp

Tell the truth and don't be an irresponsible slob. That's all I've ever asked for. (Oh yeah...and be hot.)

The not letting things go is not really a Virgo thing. I don't have a problem letting things go as long as people tell the truth and own up to it. (And don't make the same mistake over and over again.)

Give him a book to read they are boring.

It could be that you did not improve in the face of his relentless criticism. Don't get me wrong, I know you tried, but surely you missed a spot [on the dishes/his favorite shirt]. You might not have seen it, but he did. You see, that's your problem -- you just don't see.

In either case, be perseverent. You didnt say in what area he is difficult. I could have helped you more but to deal in what? Finance, emotional issues, over-criticism ?

Virgo's are naggers. You have to understand this and let him go at it. Smile. He will get confused. Their greatest fault is solving problems. Once it is solved, a week can pass and the converstion you had is bein digested and processed.
Then, all of a sudden, he/she brings up the issue again and tell you word for word , what you said etc... and then quesion you on a little detail.
They forget to see the big picture. That is their fault. Let him alone when you see he is pondering or thinking. Ignore or give him a little taste of his own medecine.

Punch him in the face

wow. that sounds TERRIBLE. i'm not expert but play on his humor if he has any at all.

don't fake it but give him a little more credit than what's expected. it'll make him feel special.

but if you don't see it as being worth it, then i wouldn't put time into it.

it's your decision. ^_^b

itouch....

you will never be able to change him, don't try.

I am a Virgo and we do pay attention to detail, but I wouldn't say we miss the big picture at all. Hence, I noticed a detail that you said he has become difficult to deal with. You didn't say he has always been difficult, so it sounds like something has happened or changed between the two of you. I have never met a Virgo man, but I have noticed that everytime someone says something about a Virgo man I can relate because I am dating a Capricorn. Perhaps as earth signs the men share similiar qualities.

The only reason a Virgo won't let something go is if something is not resolved. My Capricorn doesn't let anything go either and he will hold a grudge for years if you hurt him or betray him. He doesn't do that with me, though, cause I won't let him. He doesn't like to deal with conflict or any sort of chaos even when he causes it and I refuse to back down and make him deal with it and let me tell you, he is some kind of stubborn! Well, he's met his match with this Virgo girl because I too am stubborn, but more patient than stubborn. I calmly tell him when he calms down, we will talk or if he's going through something, I give him time to be alone because earth signs need to figure things out on their own. My suggestion to you is to talk to him, but not in a manner that will make him defensive or become stubborn. Virgos will shut down when they feel they are being attacked. If you have resolved any issues the two of you had, then be honest and tell him he can't keep throwing it back up in your face or else you or never going to get past it. Hmmm.....What is your sign?

Learning to let go is something that can be practiced just like anything else. Encourage him to RELAX more, get out of his head, and laugh. Help him to redirect his mental energy with something more emotional or physical, if you're pickin' up what I be droppin'.



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