What kind of person do scorpios like? as a friend and as a lover?!


Question: I have some Scorpio friends and I think I can try to answer the question based on my own observations.

In friendship the Scorpio likes loyal and trust worth friends, someone who understands them emotionally or at last who tried to do so and respects their opinion. Someone who would not judge them negative because no one is perfect. A friend that would understand their mood changes and is considerate. They expect a lot of loyalty and responsibility. They would be glad to have a friend who would never let them down, a friend who even after a serious argument would keep the secrets they know and who would just withdraw silently and try to look for their own mistakes before judging the Scorpio. Someone who is not afraid to say sorry and would be able to patch in a case of misunderstanding. A friend that is supportive, understandable, caring and respects the personal space of the Scorpio. A boy or a girl who would always comfort the Scorpio when he/she needs and who would wait the Scorpio to share and open up emotionally when ready, someone who is not pushy and who is patient. If the Scorpio considers someone as a friend that person is lucky, because the Scorpio people are really trust worth, loyal, intelligent and very emotional friends. They are people everyone would be thankful to have in their life.

In relationship, the Scorpio wants to meet someone who loves them with all their heart, who would be there for them when they need it, who would give them as much time as the Scorpio need to make their mind about something. They need a partner to protect them and someone who agrees to listen and do what the Scorpio suggests, because actually Scorpios are intuitive and sometimes they know better what's good for the relationship and their advices are really well supported. The Scorpio needs someone who can be their lover, their husband/wife, their partner, their other side of the same coin, their family, their friend and their soul mate. They need all these in one, so they might spend a lot of time look for the right person but once they decide to commit, they will put their heart and soul in the relationship and would be ready to sacrifice because when they love, they really truly do.


Answers: I have some Scorpio friends and I think I can try to answer the question based on my own observations.

In friendship the Scorpio likes loyal and trust worth friends, someone who understands them emotionally or at last who tried to do so and respects their opinion. Someone who would not judge them negative because no one is perfect. A friend that would understand their mood changes and is considerate. They expect a lot of loyalty and responsibility. They would be glad to have a friend who would never let them down, a friend who even after a serious argument would keep the secrets they know and who would just withdraw silently and try to look for their own mistakes before judging the Scorpio. Someone who is not afraid to say sorry and would be able to patch in a case of misunderstanding. A friend that is supportive, understandable, caring and respects the personal space of the Scorpio. A boy or a girl who would always comfort the Scorpio when he/she needs and who would wait the Scorpio to share and open up emotionally when ready, someone who is not pushy and who is patient. If the Scorpio considers someone as a friend that person is lucky, because the Scorpio people are really trust worth, loyal, intelligent and very emotional friends. They are people everyone would be thankful to have in their life.

In relationship, the Scorpio wants to meet someone who loves them with all their heart, who would be there for them when they need it, who would give them as much time as the Scorpio need to make their mind about something. They need a partner to protect them and someone who agrees to listen and do what the Scorpio suggests, because actually Scorpios are intuitive and sometimes they know better what's good for the relationship and their advices are really well supported. The Scorpio needs someone who can be their lover, their husband/wife, their partner, their other side of the same coin, their family, their friend and their soul mate. They need all these in one, so they might spend a lot of time look for the right person but once they decide to commit, they will put their heart and soul in the relationship and would be ready to sacrifice because when they love, they really truly do.

My best friend is what I would consider a true Scorpio... so i'll just tell you what she is like:)
in a relationship, she ofcourse expects her boyfriend to be 100%loyal and faithful and honest all the time...im sure anyone would...she feels very deeply about that...on the negtive side, she's super paranoid and easily jealous. If he doesnt call or something, she starts imagining every worst possible situation. Basically shes jealous and clingy, emotionally.


In friendship- same thing basically, she gives as much as you give. If you dont put effort, she wont either. Although she acts tough, shes very sensative. She likes to talk about deep things, but she also has an intense need to be wild...which she cant, because she thinks too much. She really wants a friend who she feels comfortable around, because comfort and security is the main thing (i think) scorpio's want in any relationship.

we are kind loving and loyal in all aspects
but we expect the same back

I agree with Corky, we make great lovers if the other person brings out the best traits in us.

We are good friends, if our friends appreciate us and give back the same kind of response that we give.

Personally, i'm very honest and open with my partners. If something bothers me they would know about it. Communication is a key in the relationship with a scorpio, i give 100% and expect the same back. We like passion and adventure in the bedroom department, don't let it get stale and you won't regret it.

As far as friendships go, I know who my true friends are. I know who I can talk to about my problems and who would be there for me. I also know which friends are only there to party and have a good time. We give as much as we get back.

Anyways thats what I'm like, I'm a triple scorpio and i do not obsess with jealousy or hold grudges for a long time. If i'm mad today, tomorrow we'll have coffee together, as long as its not something too terrible. I'm in my twenties and there is only one person that I totally cut out of my life, and after three years i would not talk to that person. Every one else I'm on good terms with.

Scorpios tend to get possessive with both friends and lovers, and tend to "devour" or deeply penetrate the other's psyche, so then that gives Scorpio the feeling like they "own" the other or know the other, better than the other knows him or herself.

So to have a relationship with a Scorpio, one would have to be a bit detached and not let this tendency get to one, basically ignore, unless of course, the Scorpio gets nasty. :-)

I like smart people. If someone's not smart, they shouldn't even think about trying to be my friend. Also, someone that gets me without asking 500 questions. I won't answer the questions, so it'd just annoy me.

Scorpio people are very passionate powerful, and intense, and they can be emotional and , caring and supportive as friend. and lover, but scorpio people can also be very jealous cunning and possessive when it comes to lovers or friends because when they like you or love you they do it with a deep intensity and there is no in between for them it's either all or nothing, and as far as who a scorpio would like as a friend or lover i would think that since they are a water sign they would get along the best with the other two water signs followed by the two earth signs, but it also depends on the planets in your birth chart too.

For a friend I like someone very loyal to me, who understands me without judging me, and appreciates my emotional tendencies--who sees the best in me. Not that I don't have flaws, but that they are willing to deal with those flaws because they feel what I have to offer in a friendship outweighs that.
A lover to me would need to be a friend first, so have the same qualities. But I'm thinking someone mild-mannered and gentle, who can detach when I get too intense. Yet be strong enough to set good boundaries with me and other people.



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