Soothing a Cancer Male?!
Question: How do you soothe a cancer male when he is in one of his meloncholy moods?
Answers: How do you soothe a cancer male when he is in one of his meloncholy moods?
Edit: Having checked your questions from the past, you're a Libra, right? Libras and Cancers are both Cardinal signs, there will always be a bit of disconnect with Sun signs that are squared to one another. That's why you feel you want to "initiate" some action when your Cancer male is moody. Get an interchart compatibility for the two of you, cost less than having your hair done. You've been asking questions about this guy for over a year now. It's time to invest in some serious relationship reading. http://www.astro.com is a start.
The important part of that sentence is "his meloncholy moods". Emphasis on "HIS". It is up to him to deal with his moods. When we fuss and bother, clucking like mother hens, we're distracting him from processing that which bothered him in the first place.
Also frontal assaults of love on a Cancer doesn't work as well as a subtler side stepping approach of the crab.
Is the crib clean? Can you cook a meal that he likes to eat? When he talks about what makes him feel off center do you listen as opposed to telling him what he should do?
In a homey environment, with food that is cooked from scratch and that smells good to him, with a mate that is there listening, this provides the space where the Cancer can work through what caused the mood.
Don't hover. Set the stage and then tell him you're there if he needs to talk about it and then go do your own thing. HIS mood isn't your mood and that's important for him to know.
Physical affection is the best way.
Being a cancer myself i know what it's like to get in those sometimes crabby moods that they get into but , maybe being affectionate, and showing that you care would help, because most cancer people are very sensitive, and emotional, and they don't like to feel rejected so i think maybe just showing that you love him/her is the best way to soothe a cancer when they are feeling down.
baby, just have cfnm party.
make something he likes to eat and cuddle/married to one for ten years
My boyfriend is a cancer and he gets moody and upset so easily.. I just try to smile and make a joke and give him love and affection.. Cancer men need their partner to almost act like their mother in some ways. You need to nuture him and hold and dote over him.