What is a weak spot for an Aries male?!
Question: I need to hurt him BAD!
I'm a scorpio but I have never seen so much venom.
He has slept with someone else and made sure I found out all about it. He even said it was my fault for rejecting him.
I have to get back at him and sting him hard. But i cannot do the same thing that he did to me, my mamma taught me better.
I need to find a way to hurt that jerk.
He is such a typical Aries male in his late 20s. Any ideas?
Answers: I need to hurt him BAD!
I'm a scorpio but I have never seen so much venom.
He has slept with someone else and made sure I found out all about it. He even said it was my fault for rejecting him.
I have to get back at him and sting him hard. But i cannot do the same thing that he did to me, my mamma taught me better.
I need to find a way to hurt that jerk.
He is such a typical Aries male in his late 20s. Any ideas?
well apparently he was trying to hurt you and if he still makes his way in your life somehow thats a typical headstrong/immature aries... he only slept w another girl then rubbed it in your face bc you hurt him bc obviously like you said YOU rejected him, not the other way around... so he's was getting you back- like he said rejecting him made him do such a moronic thing, already hurt him enough. it will be an even bigger crush to his ego, if you laughed at the fact that he did something so extreme like find someone to screw just to hurt you, you must be special to him. but he's weird, sleeping w someone and then making sure you know about it. he should be a memory in the past.... just shake you head and smirk, cause if you actually think about it- it's pretty funny and not to mention pathetic. i have a friend that is an aries male and he has asked me out over and over again, but im not interested, he's freaking dense.... aries hate rejection, no does not register to them, they want what they want and instead of being understanding will balk and continue to push for their way, aries is the child of the zodiac... he is playing a game with you bc he is hurt, so he pushing for a reaction from you, aries men can be very insecure (well they are)- so you have to play the cool level headed adult here and just move on... dont worry about revenge and be logical if you have to talk to him, but get away and cut communication asap each time, until he is just non-existant in your life.
Do you want to be rude or are you looking for a really clever idea?
I think for Aries people their posessions and their pride are the most important things. So either scratch his car or start a bad gossip about him.
And act like you feel better without him ! Like he means nothing to you.
Wow. I am an aries too. Im sorry, but theres nothing you can do. The best thing you can do is just let it go and move on. Whatever you do to get back at him, He's gonna do something to you again. Its all just a game to him.
Why would you want to do that? Well, if you insist. An Aries male (or female) are very hard to break down. They are self centered so maybe you can.....make fun of his shoes.
hmmm girl i have problems wit them as well, i m a cancer and i had a thing going on with a aries, however we are both teenagers. Anyways the best way to get revenge from aries male is to............oh gosh i have know idea.....just start flirting with someone else.
idk, i hope u find a better answer all the best and good luck on getting your revenge=)
Well, like everyone else said, they're usually a proud and self-centered type of person. It'd be best to somehow crush their ego, you probably have an idea how. Aries like to think they're superior, so he's rubbing it in your face, and wants you to feel crappy. If it's still possible, don't let him know it affects you. That's the worst thing you can do. Just try to one up him somehow, be boastful, then totally ignore the guy.
Ohhhh dude that's hot
Well I am an Aries and .. hmm .. if we don't care about you there is nothin you can really do. BUT there is one thing that hurts me. When someone I've hurt in the past (ex friend, ex boyfriend) has a better life than me. It kills me. Aries will always want to be the first in everything.
For example.. You know.. aries is the first sign in the zodiac because represents the head. And Aries will ALWAYS feel GUILTY. Everytime I hurt someone I feel awful. Even if I know it's wrong and I still do it, deep inside I feel AWFUL.
But yeah.. look.. My ex broke up with me a few months ago. We had our issues. When I saw how succesful he became, I felt soo bad. Because I told ya.. Aries has to be the first in everything. It's just our way to be. Revenge on an Aries doesn't work.. people tried to do that many times but I just didn't care and it didn't affect me. BUT when I realised that that person didn't care about me anymore and lived better I felt worthless.
Something else. When I hurt someone and that person doesn't hurt me back.. well it feels good a day or too. But after that I start feeling guilty. But if they hurt me too.. well.. it doesn't affect me because I know that they acted the same way.
So in conclusion.. Get a new haircut, some new clothes, a BIIIIG smile (Aries love happy people .. we are positive most of the time so that attracts us), some new friends and be the most confident person in the room. That will kill him.
Have a great day =]
I agree 100% with Free To Be.
You need to get over him and fast.
Why waste your time of some one who is clearly not bothered about you in the slightest.
All this is doing is making you look bitter and rejected. No wonder he got it else where.
As an Aries myself, cheating is always the last resort unless a relationship is well and truly dead! He probably wanted you to find out as it's the only way you'd get the hint!
And clearly through ALL this you STILL can't let go.
I'd say you are the one with the issues.
let him see you with someone that he would think is "up to his standards" or better. I mean like a very good looking. Aries can be very shallow and self centered and looks really matters to them. They are very competitive and have to be the best at everything. So find someone that dresses better and looks better and gets more attention....lol, or someone he knows that he considers to be some kind of past rival in something...
its obvious that he cares about you and you should just forget about this looser.
there are better men out there!
free to be: you need to be reported, you are the one with the most bs
Knowing the scorpio in you is about revenge there is no talking you out of it so...just remember they love challenge and you two could end up playing ping pong with this for way too long.
Aries personalize themselves with everything, EVERYTHING. They believe their car is them, their house is them, their shirt is them. Because of this, you CAN sting Mr. Personal. One way that the virgo and aquarius do this is with guilt. Aries have huge egos and carry a huge bag of guilt with them.
You may not play the victim role very well so, the other way is to crush the ego. This means make him irrelevant. He will rationalize any retaliation to mean he's significant enough in your life for you to care. However to act as if you barely remember him kills the child-like Aries. To have the scorpio tail not embrace or even lift to sting him will confuse the hell out of him. He let you find out about his immature action for exactly what he doesn't deserve--a reaction. He's use to getting what he wants and in this case to withhold the reaction is the ONLY way to really sting him. Even if you answer his call nonchalantly (as if it's just anybody) and when he starts his temper tantrum very calmly interrupt and say.."ah, um let me call you right back, (click)" as if something more important just came up & don't call back. The fact that you don't show any emotion kills the Aries.
the lack of emotion...it's what keeps the childish aries hovering around virgos (and their open-door policy).