Are you in search of the perfect compatible mate or are looks more important?!
Question: If you knew that there was someone out there that matched exactly what you needed astrologically, but didn't quite have "the right look", would you go for them anyway?
Answers: If you knew that there was someone out there that matched exactly what you needed astrologically, but didn't quite have "the right look", would you go for them anyway?
I've always been more into personality than looks. I'm a goofball and I love to laugh so if a guy is dropdead gorgeous but boring and dull I will be completely turned off to him. Intelligence is also important so a sexy dumbass is also unattractive. Looks are somewhat important though. I mean we all have to be somewhat physically attracted to whomever we choose to be with. It's not my top priority though. If we're extremely compatible looks may not even factor into the equation as more time goes by. As far as the "perfect" mate, they don't exist so I would be a fool to wait around for him to show up. I do know of women that don't care about looks or personality though. They go straight for the wallet. THOSE are the ones you need to look out for =P
EDIT: I used to have a crush on every one of those guys from Jackass so don't feel too bad..lol.
no i would not go for them anyway
I'm picky and just might die alone.
I need both
I like looking at good looking people and if we are compatible, that is even better. But from my experience, so many times have I gotten with good looking guys and girls ( i am bi ) , and at first it was all flirty and fun,but in the long run, if the person is not compatible with you, mentally and emotionally , things will start spiralling down and sooner or later, both parties wont be able to stand each other.
Now, to be realistic , we dont know enough people and their charts to know there is one that is exactly what we want , so I would say we just need to go with " fate ". However , if I could meet someone that is compatible with me astrologically and realistically , the feelings will get stronger and stronger, slowly, but i am sure it will grow . And when we have known that we have fallen in ...cough....love with that particular person , then looks wont be as much important anymore.
Looks are not important to me except that I appreciate it when a man has beautiful, strong hands with long fingers. Chubby hands with short fingers looking like sausages are a turn off. (thank goodness, there's always a close up of Johnny Depp's hand in all his movies!).
Physically, I think the voice is more important than anything else. Then confidence is important.
A very ugly but confident perfect compatible mate, with beautiful hands and a nice voice would suit me just fine...and I would feel so lucky too!
(Tommy lee Jones is old and ugly but I find him extremely sexy...that voice, that confidence, those huge hands...).
Compatibility wins over looks, as long as they are not totally off.
I have a certain criteria but in the past it has been flexible. In fact I would go for the mediocre guy over totally hot one, just because I like to be the star in my relationships ;) jk
When I'm dating, looks do matter but they are closer to the bottom of my chart
I dont wanna go with someone who has boring look nor sucky personality so I wanna both, call me greedy :p
If that guy was a good person , had a good heart and a good personality and was very funny , has very good values, morals and manners and is OK looking , yes , I would give him a shot.
looks are definetly not more important, and people change the way they look. yes, i would go for them anyways.