How can I understand this Aries man?!
Question: All this comes from a well educated, otherwise intelligent guy. I'm just trying to make some sense out of this. Here are some facts about him:
-Makes six figures, lives with his parents
-Hates his job, not looking for another one
-All friends married or engaged, he's usually single
-Never had a relationship longer then 10 months
-Engaged once, disappears a week before the wedding
-Moved in with another girl, moved out six day later
Now here are some things that he said within the last week:
"That's it! I'm not talking to you anymore"
Two days later "What did I do? Why are you not talking to me"
"Yes, I'm dating. Thats what you get for rejecting me"
next day "I haven't even been on a date since we broke up"
"I miss you. I think about you every day, when can i see you?"
same day " I don't even care, I don't want to be with you"
Last night "Your emotional talk is draining me, I can't deal with it"
this morning "I hope you would still have dinner with me tonight"
Answers: All this comes from a well educated, otherwise intelligent guy. I'm just trying to make some sense out of this. Here are some facts about him:
-Makes six figures, lives with his parents
-Hates his job, not looking for another one
-All friends married or engaged, he's usually single
-Never had a relationship longer then 10 months
-Engaged once, disappears a week before the wedding
-Moved in with another girl, moved out six day later
Now here are some things that he said within the last week:
"That's it! I'm not talking to you anymore"
Two days later "What did I do? Why are you not talking to me"
"Yes, I'm dating. Thats what you get for rejecting me"
next day "I haven't even been on a date since we broke up"
"I miss you. I think about you every day, when can i see you?"
same day " I don't even care, I don't want to be with you"
Last night "Your emotional talk is draining me, I can't deal with it"
this morning "I hope you would still have dinner with me tonight"
Scorp, + Aries...I don't think so
Don't try...
to understand this m.f.
... just forget him.
And do not get hurt.
Aaron.
Understand the he's got split personalities...that's it. Has nothing to do with his Zodiac sign.
Horoscope has nothing to do with this person.
I am an Aries, and I make multiple six figures, but I can assure you that I behave nothing like this person. (I don't call him a man, since he appears to be stuck in adolescence.)
His own parents probably don't understand him, so you never will.
On the other hand, giving him the benefit of the doubt, he might have been emotionally, psychologically, or physically abused by one or both of his parents, in which case he is still stuck in the parental affirmation stage of his development. This would explain why he still lives at home, why he has never married, and why he never means what he says. You see, his own parents probably never kept their word with him, and thus, this is the only behavior he knows.
On the other hand, maybe his parents are mentally or physically ill, and he feels a sense of responsibility to the extent where he neglects his own wants and needs.
Finally, he might be mentally or emotionally unstable, and is on medication, which might explain why he forgets what he says from one day to the next.
Get rid of him . He sounds like he is mentally unstable .
You can do better .
make sure you get your hands on those six figures first before you do anything crazy