Help me understand this Gemini please . . .?!
Question: Whenever we have an argument, he NEVER admits that he is wrong, at least not immediately thereafter, and demands that I apologize for hurting his 'sensitive' feelings before we even attempt to resume anything at all.
Now once too many, I try to see it from 'his perspective' , just to keep the peace, but other times I feel as wronged and dumbfounded that there's no way to compromise.
He does get better when we make up (his way) afterwords, but until then I am walking on egg-shells.
I feel that he is trying to tell me how I should behave at times, calling it the 'right way'. Huh???
He is usually so loving and quite protective, easy to get along with and gives so much of himself and his time .
We are both mature and have been together for about 8 month
Answers: Whenever we have an argument, he NEVER admits that he is wrong, at least not immediately thereafter, and demands that I apologize for hurting his 'sensitive' feelings before we even attempt to resume anything at all.
Now once too many, I try to see it from 'his perspective' , just to keep the peace, but other times I feel as wronged and dumbfounded that there's no way to compromise.
He does get better when we make up (his way) afterwords, but until then I am walking on egg-shells.
I feel that he is trying to tell me how I should behave at times, calling it the 'right way'. Huh???
He is usually so loving and quite protective, easy to get along with and gives so much of himself and his time .
We are both mature and have been together for about 8 month
Geminis always want everyone else to explain why you hurt their feelings.... How stupid is that? They will NEVER admit they are wrong and it is just about too late before you ever get an apology out of them.. Their sensitiveness that they proclaim is just a bunch of mixed up words that they try to guilt trip you with... IN otherwards? They twist and turn the whole thing back to you....... and now it is your fault.. What?
Don't walk on eggshells.... Don't try to be a peacemaker either.. You shouldn't have too... Because you didn't do anything wrong to begin with... They seem to have many insecurtity issues and on going, unresolved issues ... trust me.. And they get a kick out of making your day as crappy as theirs usually is.......
You say he is usually loving and protective? Maybe so, but at the same time he is keeping you at a distance and making you behave .... HE is the one who needs to behave and you need to take control back.... otherwise you will have this happening for the rest of your life....
You are dealing with two personalities here.... Never forget that..... When they are up its fun... When they are down....
its NOT good........
To be with a Gemini man means YOU must be in control at all times or you will be joining them for many pity parties.....
Gemini are not sensitive they are stubborn and pigheaded, when they think there right you obviously have to agree with him, not tell him to grown up and think about what he's saying to you next time, Gemini aren't good with commitment so dont be surprised if the arguments get petty and more frequent
Hmm maybe ur signs arent compatible and uuhh yeah u forgot to list ur sign.... I Dont think ur a scorpio cuz i am and my bf's a gemini and he listens to everything i have to say and we never fight unless IM bitchin about something :)
Yes, this is what a relationship with Gemini can be like.
You understand perfectly well, no further explanation needed.
As someone stated, Geminis are by no means sensitive, they are just very stubborn and want their way all the time and they will usually get it by twisting their words to make you feel sorry for them and like it's your fault. They know exactly what they are doing. Most are manipulators, liers, and fickle anyway.