Scorpio's true intentions?!
Question: ive been dating this scorpio for 9 months. we played our games back and forth but for the last 3 months it has became serious we declared our love for eachother and we are faithful. i live out of town and drive to see him often. our relationship is perfect except when we go out to the club hes different. he doesnt have a job and goes out all of the time because hes bored at home. he tells me he doesnt like it when i dance with other guys because it hurts him. i say okay but the next thing i know hes dancing with another girl! hes done it before and ive forgiven him. when i confront him he says he didnt cheat and he was stupid..he didnt mean it. ive tried playing games back to get him jealous but he knows im trying to get back at him. im tired of playing games. ive tried talking to him ..he tells me what i want to hear but his actions do not match. what should i do? i broke up with him and plan to stay away for a month do you think this is a good idea or a bad one?
Answers: ive been dating this scorpio for 9 months. we played our games back and forth but for the last 3 months it has became serious we declared our love for eachother and we are faithful. i live out of town and drive to see him often. our relationship is perfect except when we go out to the club hes different. he doesnt have a job and goes out all of the time because hes bored at home. he tells me he doesnt like it when i dance with other guys because it hurts him. i say okay but the next thing i know hes dancing with another girl! hes done it before and ive forgiven him. when i confront him he says he didnt cheat and he was stupid..he didnt mean it. ive tried playing games back to get him jealous but he knows im trying to get back at him. im tired of playing games. ive tried talking to him ..he tells me what i want to hear but his actions do not match. what should i do? i broke up with him and plan to stay away for a month do you think this is a good idea or a bad one?
"So as I say and not as I do."
Excuse me? That's bogus.
He doesn't have a job but he can out out at night? You're paying how much for gasoline to go visit him? Who pays for the drinks when you two go out if he's chronically unemployed?
If someone shared the same information with you, what would you tell them?
People rarely admit that they date to mate. Is this the man you want as the father to your children? That's the measure most women don't even think about when dating.
Kick him to the curb and give the treasure of your love to someone more deserving.
well first of all...this guy does not take u seriously...if u tell him something that u don't like he should respect it...just like u respect him. But it also doesn't mean u should stop having fun when u go out....u kno what, if u guys get back together and he keeps doing that s**t then return that s**t back to him...in other words while he's dancing with another girl, u dance with another guy.... =)
if he doen't care, and keeps dancing with the girl and getting to close to her...then forget him
The games can be exhausting and you shouldn't have to play them to be with someone that loves you. I think you should give each other a little space until you're both ready for a relationship.
Scorpio are secretive ppl. It'll be for one to truly understand what they thinking. Trust is very important to them though. They need total trust and faith from the other party, which is why when you hang around with other guys, that is an immediate breach of trust.
But it is true that this doesn't work the other way. I have experience with other scoprio and I realised that they will do whatever to get what they want that their promise are mostly fake.
However, to be fair, Scoprio will do anything for their loved ones no matter how occupied they are. He/She will take care of his/her family.
Seeing him mixing around with the opposite sex is their natural behaviour since scoprio represent regeneration and they like to explore new frontier in sex.
My advice: In is tricky when having a relationship with the most powerful sign in horoscope. But if you want to be with him -Tell that you really love him and you need assurance from him that he can be trusted, straight in the face. Tell him you need something from him.
Scorpio men are very indecisive (in everything). They will test out both their partners and themselves before 'committing to a relationship.' Once that got settled, and he realizes that you're loyal to him, he'll repay much more that what you do. They are afraid of getting hurt too - that's why they divert attentions so that they are putting money on 1 bet. I know it sounds like excuses, but it's true. Having said so, I'm caught up with a scorpio man problem lately and it's true that it's easy to comment on ppl's problems, but it's hard to solve one's own.