Why is my cancer girlfriend doing this?!
Question: I'm suprised! She was up early this morning, and when I got out of bed, she was cleaning up the house and told me what needed to be done, such as laundry and taking care of dishes and I'm the one who usually fusses about these things. I'm the one usually telling her his. I'm a virgo and she's a cancer and we have been living together and dating for 6 months now. I wonder why she is suddenly changing like this?
Answers: I'm suprised! She was up early this morning, and when I got out of bed, she was cleaning up the house and told me what needed to be done, such as laundry and taking care of dishes and I'm the one who usually fusses about these things. I'm the one usually telling her his. I'm a virgo and she's a cancer and we have been living together and dating for 6 months now. I wonder why she is suddenly changing like this?
possibly multiple reasons at the same time
- because she took your fusses and comments straight to the heart.
- cancers love surprises. she wants to see your reaction when the tables are turned and she having a laugh a right now.
- it could also be one of the mood swings.
- she's cluttered inside of her, thats why she cleaning up the clutter outside of her.
if this is one of her casual mood swings, it wont be long, she'll be returning to her usual routines by the end of the week or the month.
but if she's really had it, you might see a permanent change in her habits and stuffs.
Shes just giving you a break since you take such good care for her.I think shes being nice
maybe shes just trying to prevent the "fussing" you're talking about...
Could be many reasons for the changes, and I doubt her sign has anything to do with it. It could be she detected some irritation on your part, felt guilty about being a slug, or she may just go through phases of wanting to clean. Why don't you just compliment her on the change if you like and appreciate it, that may prompt her to explain or at least keep her going on developing some initiative.
Well ,Mr. Virgo, this could be a good thing! As earth signs you two are very compatable, and it sounds like she's consciously or subconsciously trying to prove that she wants to be a good wife/partner. Go with it! I'm a Libra chick and my air sign fiance has done the same thing. If you're not so sure about where you want the relationship to go, be forewarned that she's looking to stick around. So put your feet up and let her vacuum !
Best of luck to you.
Celeste { Cleveland, OH.}
maybe she changed and she wants to surprise you or something or maybe she doesn't want you to fuss
maybe u didn't show her much love as she needed...
we cancerians r so emotional...
express her as much love as u can..
i think she is trying to be nice and take some responsibility considering you do live with each other!