How can two Scorpios with the same birthday, be so different?!
Question: I just started thinking about this and it is shocking to me to see so many differences between me and my ex. My bday is 11/15/84, his is 11/15/85, we were together for two years until i couldn't handle it anymore.
I'm strong, I know exactly what i want, and take the necessary steps to get it. I'm loyal, giving and honest,
My ex has a very week character, he's needy, naggy and helpless to the point where he can't pick a restaurant to go to on a date. Ever since i was 15, I was working and saving for college, I'm about to graduate. He flunked out of college, and i had to write his resume, dress him, coach him how to talk to people then take him to the job interviews, otherwise he would not go. He has absolutely no motivation and is happy to sit on the internet the whole day.
While i'm a very sexual person, he would never initiate it. We slept together for months in the same bed and he would not touch me unless i asked for it.
He would also stalk me, and log into my emails all the time
Answers: I just started thinking about this and it is shocking to me to see so many differences between me and my ex. My bday is 11/15/84, his is 11/15/85, we were together for two years until i couldn't handle it anymore.
I'm strong, I know exactly what i want, and take the necessary steps to get it. I'm loyal, giving and honest,
My ex has a very week character, he's needy, naggy and helpless to the point where he can't pick a restaurant to go to on a date. Ever since i was 15, I was working and saving for college, I'm about to graduate. He flunked out of college, and i had to write his resume, dress him, coach him how to talk to people then take him to the job interviews, otherwise he would not go. He has absolutely no motivation and is happy to sit on the internet the whole day.
While i'm a very sexual person, he would never initiate it. We slept together for months in the same bed and he would not touch me unless i asked for it.
He would also stalk me, and log into my emails all the time
A year can make a huge difference in your astrological chart.
For example, both of your sun signs are Scorpio, but his moon (the planet of emotion) is Capricorn and your moon is in Leo. Your Venus (the planet of love and affection) is in Capricorn and his Venus is in Scorpio. Your Mars is in Capricorn and his Mars is in Libra (that's a big one, BTW... those are two signs that aren't compatible, and Mars is the planet of personal power and sexuality --- which means you two could have a lot of friction).
Mars in Libra explains the issues in bed, BTW... Libra is an air sign--- very intellectual and detached.
Other things come into play too--- like your rising signs... which are determined by the actual time you were born, as well as the location.
Hope this helps a bit. :)
were all so different, so deep and low, but always down to the point right?
You can be so different because you are human and astrological signs have nothing to do with how you act, no matter what you may believe.....
just because you have the same birthday...doesn't mean you have the same personalities.
First of all, men and women of the same sign are very different. Second, not everybody is going to be the same just because of there sign. It depends on your upbringing and life experience.
You weren't born in the same year, so there must've been a lot of different planets between the two of you. He sounds like he has a lot of water especially Cancer in his chart which are probably badly aspected. Congrats for getting rid of him!
Astrology is in a way, not true. Just a guess on how certain people live.
Its because of what your ex has gone through in life its because of what others showed him how to live what to do and what not to
Well I have a guess, but most likely it is incorrect, maybe he felt like he needed you, or was very depressed in the fact he had no motivation, needed you to help him with everything, and the drop out thing, and maybe he was worried (with the stalking thing)so he read your e-mails incase of something he didn't want to happened possibly in some kind of paranoia.
Besides, everyone is different even the most identical twins can have so many different things to their hearts,souls,minds,and opinions. No snow flake is ever alike, just like we as humans are always going to disagree on something because of different opinions and/or personalities.
because none of that is really true............
This is not an issue of being Scorpio. Although you are the higher type it is apparent he is the lower type. He has an extremely low self esteem. Scorpios also tend to be very jealous. I have to admit the sexual part doesn't make him sound like a Scorpio at all. he he You would have to have a full chart done for both of you do really see the difference. Sounds to me it could be his up bringing. He is way do dependent on you and has not grown up yet. This is not a good situation for you and when a Scorpio women has a man that is to needy, we tend to whip out the stinger. This looks like disaster to me.
Because, two Scorpios and can have different ascendants and moons.
You sound like a Scorpio to me. While your ex, he may have Cancer as his moon or rising.
Good Luck.
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Different moon, rising, and other planet's signs.
your arrogance is disgusting. and if he's your ex, who the hell cares? sounds like to me you're still not over him while he couldn't care less about you. and who could blame him?
and you obviously know nothing about astrology. you're born on the same day, so what? the only thing you have in common is your sun signs. 1 in 12 people are scorpios, if i have to remind you.
I'm not sure of such thing like two people born exactly same date, same time would have similar personalities. I knew other two friends who one exactly same birthdate, same country, same place, just different hour and minute and second; then the other who has same birthday, different year but same hour different minute and second. We both same nationality but we nothing similar to each other. We are three totally different individuals.
It's nothing to do with Scorpio. I do feel sorry to those who born under Scorpio sign.
Best of luck...
Because astrology is b.s.
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astrology is a load of rubbish
You're just a bad ex. I mean honestly.... What kind of person says that kind of stuff about their ex? There had to be a reason you dated him... You just choose not to admit it.
Actually, I have the feeling that this question was posted purely so you could complain about the poor guy.