All Signs---if you loved somebody and they hurt you but not intentionally?!
Question: no matter how mad or hurt you are, could you finally see their goodness, and allow them back in as your lover, friend, etc.?
1. What's your sign?
2. Would you want them to keep in the picture or give you space while you're still upset?
3. Would you want them tell you how great you are, apologize again, or give you a choice of friendship?
Answers: no matter how mad or hurt you are, could you finally see their goodness, and allow them back in as your lover, friend, etc.?
1. What's your sign?
2. Would you want them to keep in the picture or give you space while you're still upset?
3. Would you want them tell you how great you are, apologize again, or give you a choice of friendship?
cancer yes give me a few to think, i would like for them to apologize and try not todo it again , its all about forgiveness , then both partys can go on also they need to forgive themselves, love thy neighbor. unconditional love is what needs to happen between two people that care about one another, good for the soul,
It would really depend on the situation. If you are willing to share more details, I might be able to better answer.
I'm a Virgo - so I'm quite analytical! :)
1. Scorpio sun
2. Give me space but not go too far.
3. Hold me and tell me everything's going to be alright. Just to give me a sense of security, like...
1. I'm a Leo all the way
2. I would want space for a lttle while and then would expect them to read my mind when I was ready for them to approach me. If it was too soon...I could possibly scratch their face off. (ROAR!! Kitty)
3. I would want them to adore me.
Yes, I would, and I'm a virgo sun, but my pisces rising is stronger.
I would need my space while I was still upset. I actually would run off somewhere and they wouldn't be able to find me. It'd be a couple of days.
Yes, they would have to come to me like they have some d*mn sense! Of course they'd have to apologize to me! And of course they'd have to tell me how much they appreciate me and that they're so sorry. I don't need them to give me a choice though. I would make the choice myself.
~have a nice day~
Virgo...
I don't know what I'd do...
1 Capricorn
2 need the space
3 just SINCERELY apologize.
If it wasn't intentional, I could let them back in-as long as this didn't happen all the time.
1. Aries
2. I would want my space definitely, but I can forgive eventually however depending upon the relationship w/ the person and the offense I would assess that status of friend/lover. Probably friend though. My thought keep your friends close, enimies closer.
3. I could care less what they think of me anyway I think it is always healthy to have a good selfesteem and not rely on others to do that for you. I also set the boundries for my relationships I don't allow "losers" in my life. ie. abusers, users, people who don't know how to be friends. It just makes life a lot less complicated.
Good luck to you.
I'm an Aries. I would forgive them as long as they apologized. Aries nearly always forgive and forget :)
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1. gemini
2. space
3. I'd have them apologize and then we'd be friends again.
1. Capricorn Sun
2. No, I'd prefer my space
3. Actually it wouldn't matter how "great" I am...I would just need an apology, I guess.
it would depend what they did, and how strong the friendship/relationship was in the first place.
1. What's your sign? Taurus
2. I'd need space!
3. I would just want them to give me the space I needed, and to know I'd be in touch when I was ready to talk to them about it.
Is this if I were going out with them or like a good friend?
If they cheated on me, I doubt I could go out with them again, and I think I'd forgive them but I wouldn't want to be friends anymore. If a good friend just hurt my feelings, I would go off on my own a little while and then I'd be over it.
1. Scorpio sun, moon w/ Pisces rising.
2. Give me space and after a day I should be over it, I'm a very forgiving person.
3. No, I only want a sincere apology. I don't want them to add in any flattery and they better mean the apology, I have ways of telling if they mean it or not. I don't want a choice, alot of people who've hurt me are always like "I understand if you don't want to be friends anymore." It's like...if that were the case I wouldn't have wasted my time with you in the 1st place.
Yes, I could see their goodness and allow this person back into my life as a lover, or friend. If I forgive someone (which I always do) I allow them to still be in my life even if I'm a bit upset. This person wouldn't have to tell me how great I am or even apologize again. As long as I got an apology depending on what it is then I'm fine. I'm the the type that if I forgive you then I'm going to forget as well. People always say they forgive but they never forget. Well to me if your going to forgive someone then you need to forget things as well. Otherwise what's the point of forgiving that person in the first place if your going to allow the past to help you remember things? Anyway, I have done a lot of things to hurt some very important people in my life and I can't take any of it back. Even though I was forgiven some of them will never forget and they constantly throw my past in my face so I know what it feels like to really, really mess up bad and I try to be understanding and compassionate when it comes to others faults. Were human and were gonna mess up so I try to always remember that.
I'm a Sagittarius!
I am Cancer
I would want them to stay in the picture
They would need to do all three,
but you know what, if it was not intentional, I would just tell them that it hurt me immensely and then I would keep it in my mind always, so if I saw the signs of them starting to do it again, I could stop them quickly.
Capricorn, give me space maybe a day, I would definitely like to give them another chance, considering it was not intentionally. Just a sincere apologize would do it for me.
I'm Cancerian, I'd want them to stay in the picture and I'd want an analysis as to what psychologically caused them to do that, then I would do the old role-reversal example to show what it'd feel like if it was done to them.
If I don't get a SINCERE APOLOGY and a PROMISE it won't happen again, I would go have my space til I got those 2 things. I would not take excuses that it was unintentional. Just 'cos we run over someone and break their legs accidentally, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. The difference between it being intentional or unintentional is; unintentional I would give the friendship a chance, intentional I would drop them like a hot coal out of my life :)
LEO
I WOULD WANT THEM TO KEEP IN THE PICTURE AFTER I TALK **** TO ME.
I WANT TO KNOW ALL THIS ****, AND WHY THE **** IT HAPPEN. LOL
This really did happen to me two years ago. I loved this man and he deeply hurt me. I will always love him and I forgive him but I do not want him back in my life as a lover because I fear that the same thing will happen again. But he can call on the phone and E-Mail and say hello but I do not want to be hurt again. I am a Scorpio-October 28. I guess in a way I am still upset over this and have seen a few therapists but it takes time to heal.
i guess it all depends on what they did but im an aquarius or however you spell that and id let my best friend back into my life for most of the things she would do..that s what best friends are for!but if she hurt me really bad id just want them to apologize cuz by then i wouldnt trust their friendship any more.
1. Sag
2. Space is needed when I'm upset
3. I'd want them to tell me how great I am, apologize and we'll see how the friendship develops from there on its own.
1. Sagittarius
2. I would want them in the picture a little bit because I would probably think the worst if they left me alone too long. Just a little attempt at trying to contact me to show me you want to work it out and then let me decide to make the next move after that.
3. I wouldn't want them to tell me how great I am because I would consider that fake. I would say be genuine with an apology and most importantly understand why I am upset. The worst is trying to apologize just to make peace, I want to see that you care about my feelings and understand them before I can forgive it. The bright side though is once that happens you are forgiven forever and it is forgotten unless you do it again in which case it is completely over.
1. cancer
2. both. i need to be alone, and at the same time, i hope the person would understand i dont want to lose him/ her as somebody whom i love.
3. it's unintentional right? i would really hope to see the offender own up to his/ her mistakes and be upfront about it. that is much better then blurting out 'sorry', to me, 'sorry' doesnt justify the hurt/ anger caused. and no, at that point of time, when im venting/ hurting, i dont need to hear fake flattery or being given a choice to choose, like, hello, thats adding fuel to the flame or rubbing salt to the wound.
I'm Gemini.
a. I would be upset and I want them very available to talk it out and help fix the mess they created.
b. I would just like an apology and yes I want to be friends depending on who it is..
d. If you screw me over big time I will be tempted to take revenge and then cut you off FOREVER!
Libra
Space..i rarely get angry but when i do better leave me alone or i'll say something that i might regret later.
No need for flattery,i'd take it as dishonesty anyway,one apology is fine but also depends on the gravity of the situation. I have cut people out of my life because i'd rather surround myself with people that i trust 100% and once you cross me things just won't be the same. I may forgive but never trust that person completely again.