Is the way I am feeling to do with being a libra - and how can I get through thi!
Question: I am currently going through a divorce - which has been a terrible and unamicable split. My husband left me for another woman. I am now a single mum to 2 fabulous young boys and I work full time in a very demanding career.
Last month I got diagnosed with anxiety disorder and was prescribed medication to control panic attacks.
I have a new boyfriend (he is aquarius) and we have had a our first big argument (we have been dating 5 months). Due to his job and me going away this weekend - i cant see him until next week. He is still cross with me but didnt end it when I gave him the chance.I have turned into someone Im not! - I crave reassurance and affection (the bases of my argument with him - i critised that he didnt do this much) - and I am sat here now not being able to concentrate because I want to make contact soley to seek reassurance. Is this part of being a libra - and is what I am feeling normal? how can i deal with this silence??
Answers: I am currently going through a divorce - which has been a terrible and unamicable split. My husband left me for another woman. I am now a single mum to 2 fabulous young boys and I work full time in a very demanding career.
Last month I got diagnosed with anxiety disorder and was prescribed medication to control panic attacks.
I have a new boyfriend (he is aquarius) and we have had a our first big argument (we have been dating 5 months). Due to his job and me going away this weekend - i cant see him until next week. He is still cross with me but didnt end it when I gave him the chance.I have turned into someone Im not! - I crave reassurance and affection (the bases of my argument with him - i critised that he didnt do this much) - and I am sat here now not being able to concentrate because I want to make contact soley to seek reassurance. Is this part of being a libra - and is what I am feeling normal? how can i deal with this silence??
Anyone who has been trhough what you have will feel like you do...but remember that you have inner strength and you will get through this....like many women before you and many that will come after you....keep busy...don't get into seeking reassurance as it will be a hard thing to break...your self esteem has been knocked by this man leaving you for a younger woman....
make time for yourself you have been through a lot...have a lot of responsibility at home and work...do you have time to pamper yourself and rest or relax...? have a facial, nails done etc...silence can be a good thing..life does not always have to be hectic..seek help to learn some relaxation techniques which will help you relax, enjoy silence, rest your mind and also be of benefit with the panic attacks....
There are ways to help with Anxiety disorder and self esteem that do not involve medication and can be used alongside medication and will help...
best of luck....
Nothing to do with being a Libra kid. You have an anxiety disorder, Join the club, There are millions around who suffer the same thing. See your doc.
The answers that you seek will be from your Father Creator in Heaven and His Son Jesus Christ together with The Holy Spirit. My prayers were answered by God which enabled me to recover from Alcoholism. Please try and pray at this difficult time for you.
Believing in Astrology-the occult is not of God.
May God bless, protect and keep you safe.
Astrology is fictional . Ask any Astronomer !
Cheers Pete
If you seriously think that the month of your birth can actually have some affect on the progress of your life then you have bigger issues to worry obout !!!
Your recent divorce trauma has caused constant worry and this has caused a loss of serotonin (feel good stabalizing chem in the brain) hence panic and change of personality, have a word with the doc, also u may have jumped to fast on the rebound into that relationship, it seems a little fast?
The seeking reassurance bit is cos u feel isolated and vulnerable and maybe unwanted by the hubby during this tough time, that's quite normal and u can regain your self confidence in time but it's best to avoid any more hastle and stress triggers or the anxiety may go into overload.
the craving for re-assurance and affection is normal for anyone who has been through a bad split. they subconsciously need to know that its not going to happen again. it makes no difference what your sun sign is.
as for the silence. not sure what you mean there. however if you and your new fella are not speaking. then one of you needs to make the first move. as he is still cross then this would need to be you. even if you just text him hello whilst you're away. its a start.
I know 3 gorgeous Libran females who went through the same situation. The feeling I get is Libran females are very sensitive in matters of love. It's like they feel they need a lover to balance out the other side of their scale.
In the case of these 3 females whose partners left them for someone else there were 4 common traits among the females:
1) They gave too much in the relationship, even in the form
of expensive gifts.
2) They were too flirtatious in general.
3) They worked too much and put a lot of emphasis on their
jobs.
4) They put too many demands on their partner, often in the
way of emotional reassurance.
The combination of 2 & 3 caused a jealousy in their partners, and 4 caused too much stress.
As an air sign, you'd think an Aquarian would be a good match, but it's no secret that Aquarian men can be a little difficult. My suggestion is surround yourself with grounding Earth signs to help you through it all.
I am a Libra and I know I am in the wagon for a tough ride Pluto is hitting Libra and all the Libras at one time during the next 16 years will have a really rough ride ; but don't get discourage because if you have some planets in Scorpio or Taurus or Pisces joy and health will come back
Aquarians are like that, and the more you act that way toward them, the more they distance themselves.
My suggestions would be to talk to females, do things that make YOU happy, take your attention off of him, as much as possible.
It is the constant thoughts of him that are making you upset. Stop thinking about him, distract yourself, do something (physical?) that requires your concentration so you WON'T THINK SO MUCH.
It is believing the thoughts you have that causes all the distress. Being in nature helps too.
Your not a libra .... the zodiac has an extra constellation that was never really identified in astrology so no one is what they think they r!