Why am I having these issues with Libran men?!
Question: I'm a female, Cancerian Wood Tiger. I'm engaged to a Leo-Virgo Cusp Wood Snake whom I've lived with for 3 and a half years.
I have 3 Libran ex-boyfriends who are kinda stalking me. I'd really like to know WHY? They are aged between 39 and 47 I think as I can't remember their years of birth. It was difficult for me to walk away from each of those relationships, but it was for the same reasons each time:
1) Each still lives at home, which I didn't like as I have been independent since age 15.
2) Each told me they were living at home 'til their parents passed away to ( hopefully ) inherit the house - which I found creepy and kinda cheap.
3) Each turned me off with a Passive/Aggressive streak.
4) Each worked a lot, but seemed to get nowhere and have no direction in life.
The most recent rship I left 3 and a half years ago. I'm getting tracked down, new email addresses I get are being located, my friends are being contacted, parcels are being sent through the post where....
Answers: I'm a female, Cancerian Wood Tiger. I'm engaged to a Leo-Virgo Cusp Wood Snake whom I've lived with for 3 and a half years.
I have 3 Libran ex-boyfriends who are kinda stalking me. I'd really like to know WHY? They are aged between 39 and 47 I think as I can't remember their years of birth. It was difficult for me to walk away from each of those relationships, but it was for the same reasons each time:
1) Each still lives at home, which I didn't like as I have been independent since age 15.
2) Each told me they were living at home 'til their parents passed away to ( hopefully ) inherit the house - which I found creepy and kinda cheap.
3) Each turned me off with a Passive/Aggressive streak.
4) Each worked a lot, but seemed to get nowhere and have no direction in life.
The most recent rship I left 3 and a half years ago. I'm getting tracked down, new email addresses I get are being located, my friends are being contacted, parcels are being sent through the post where....
I think you found the worse possible Libras out there. We are usually very independent and can't stand living under someone elses roof.
The whole deal with being workaholics and never getting anywhere is common with us. If you break a Librans heart they'll straighten up. As for direction, we keep that secret a lot. We are openly idealists when socializing with others, but deep inside we are realists and udnerstand there is a long road to get what we want in life. A lot of times we spend too much time looking for that partner to walk down that road with us.
Going from passive to aggressive is common. We are a sign of balance and that tends to drive people totally nuts. Usually it is the only major flaw we have next to being indecisive.
You can't hide from a Libra. Believe me. We can track down anyone lol. It might be best to write to them explaining what went wrong in the relationship. Sometimes we just seek answers after being heartbroken.
Hope this helps.
I don't think it has anything to do with star signs, the men you have chosen to date obviously can't get over it. Plus they sound creepy, why did you date them!
molly molly molly. how the hell did you find three... um... for lack of a better term, "undercooked" men?
that's really hard to do, especially when OHHHH independent since 15?? That's it right there. You were trying to rescue them? You saw potential and you thought "I just need to 'ween' this gentleman from his mother and I will have a perfect, untarnished soul who will cling to me as tightly as he cleaved to his parents."
then, because you were the only good hearted soul to reach out to these fledglings, they fell out of love with their nests in order to follow the new mother duckling (this analogy is getting messy, but oh well). But yeah, that's why you've got stalkers!
As soon as you find a nice strong independant fellow take a picture of him working out in the backyard with an axe. Make sure he's nice and burly and sweaty and has a look on his face like "I like meat. I kill it. I eat it. Wanna make something of it?"
that'll scare them 'boys' off. if it doesn't you're gonna need a protective order which you can get from the county attorney
I agree with the first poster, you chose to date these men, and I really don't understand why you chose to date not one, but 3 men who were absolute similiar...didn't you not learn after the first time or second time? Anyway, there is still no reason for them to stalk you...I guess it take some people alot longer to get over someone.
Willmin directed me here.
I have on ex-boyfriend that's a Libra and while I was in the relationship with him he suffocated me to the point where I had to call it off and then he started stalking me pretty much.
Now there's a new Libra guy(who I'm not dating, and he apparently "understands" that we are only friends) who calls me everyday and sometimes I'll get him mad and he'll go all passive/aggressive on me like you said. I really don't understand what's up with them.
But they seem very clingy/stalkish.
They haven't stalked me as far as creating new Facebook accounts to add me though.
what is it with "stalking libra" questions today?:-) maybe you should change your term, you're pertaining to "boys", not "men". most libras (male and female) i know lives with their parents. but one libra buddy of mine, his older than me, has his own place, a professional, and quite independent. so maybe its also because of their upbringing. still i know a female libra who is also like your number two, inheritance. she's the eldest, but doesn't live on her own because of the house she wants to inherit, and her work is also with the same company where her mother works. but the stalking part? were you the one who first walked out of the relationship? if you are, then it'll be hard on the libras to understand why would you even want to leave them. librans can think in the abstract level, but not at the details in front of them. also they are used to being the first ones who wants out of the relationship.
As a Libra female, I can attest (unfortunately) to what you said about "trying to buy back affection" and not letting go... For me, it's because I cannot stand the thought of my hurting someone and causing them disharmony and distress - even if they did it to themselves and I just happened to be involved. So I get obsessed with trying to reconcile with people, but only in romantic relationships! If a friendship ends, I just drop it.
Anyway, strange but true, from a Libra perspective...
P.S. I'm not a stalker, I swear! I just get mentally distracted if I feel I need to reconcile, it's not like I follow the guys around secretly or anything. Just wanted to affirm that. :-)