My aquarius colleague.?!


Question: A few months ago I started a new job. I'm Sagittarious (sp?) and my collegue is Aquarius and for some reason we just don't gel when working together.

Unfortunately there are only the two of us in our office. While I love a bit of fun and a team element in the workplace she is totally independent, happy to have her breaks on her own etc. I feel as if she keeps everything that she is doing at work a secret just incase I want to help her! I'm finding this frustrating as my job role survives on feeding off and into the work of others. I've worked in a lot of places and haven't experience this before. Any thoughts? I had originally thought it was to do with the fact that I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers and her homelife is just her and her mother???


Answers: A few months ago I started a new job. I'm Sagittarious (sp?) and my collegue is Aquarius and for some reason we just don't gel when working together.

Unfortunately there are only the two of us in our office. While I love a bit of fun and a team element in the workplace she is totally independent, happy to have her breaks on her own etc. I feel as if she keeps everything that she is doing at work a secret just incase I want to help her! I'm finding this frustrating as my job role survives on feeding off and into the work of others. I've worked in a lot of places and haven't experience this before. Any thoughts? I had originally thought it was to do with the fact that I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers and her homelife is just her and her mother???

Aquarian's don't work well with almost everyone. They are very independent people that do not like "help". Funny thing is, most of them love helping others.

They will often have the "I'm right" mentality, which leads to their Independence. They consider asking for help a weakness.

Put all of that together with their stubborn attitude and you can see why they are not easy to work with. Now on the flip side, they are very loyal people with a strong sense of right and wrong. Although they may be difficult to work with in a professional setting, they make great friends and they will often consider you before themselves.

I don't quite get what you're saying but maybe you don't find that your collegue is productive enough. Does she seem slow to you sometimes? Try to understand that sometimes Aquariuses prefer to take a break and think about worthwhile things. They are very independent people. Sags appreciate the work that they do and the place they are in, (I believe), and so they feel responsibe for the help of others. Relax! It's her job and her life. Unless it intervenes with your life, just back off a little. You'll feel better if the pressure's off.

OMG, I worked at the front desk with this aquarius at a very busy, popular boutique hotel on Miami Beach and she was a total wreck. She was a very cold, distant , no it all ******. She would try and be independant and act like she was the office manager trying to boss everyone around her. I am a gemini and they say we are supposed to get along but not from my experience!

Umm.. I don't think both signs are suppose to get along.

My friend is a Sagittarius. Her Father is an Aquarius. The house seems to be in a war almost 24 hours. She's been living with her parents for so long that she now hates her Father.

Anyway, typical Aquarius thinking -Aquarius is always right-

So whatever you do may not be right. Maybe that's what she thinks about you, that you're doing things wrongly and that HELPING just makes things worse for her.

maybe its just that you are just getting to know her and she is getting to know you. Give her some time.

I have no problem working in groups, no problem working at the front desk, side desk, back desk etc... and i have no problem asking for help when i need it. I guess it kind of depends on the person, but I think most aquarians are smart enough to know when they are defeated. Just let them realize it on their own



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